stillwater:



And guys don't have a mental picture of what they want in a lady?

Being practical also involves knowing what you want and going for it.
A mental list is a sure way of knowing what you want and having a plan which makes women practical.
Practical doesn't suit guys in this case if he is yet to know what he wants.

It's not bad for women to have these lists . . . but then, when it's created by the Disney movies you saw as a kid or the romance flicks written by overly imaginative scriptwriters, it becomes a problem.

I meant practical as in being able to adapt expectations to accommodate the one they want.
So there's this vague picture of say Halle Berry in your brain, but then you'll adapt it to fit anyone.

@tope
I run away from chics like you

eldee:
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@tope
I run away from chics like you

The feeling is mutual hun

TOPE2000!:

No u r not. . . . . i 8 u.

Thank God

eldee:

So there's this vague picture of say Halle Berry in your brain, but then you'll adapt it to fit anyone.

I don't know if I'm weird but I don't really have a type . . . me just go with the flow

chamotex:

I don't know if I'm weird but I don't really have a type . . . me just go with the flow

Me too . . .exactly what I said before.

TOPE2000!:

The feeling is mutual hun

chamotex:

Thank God

I don't know if I'm weird but I don't really have a type . . . me just go with the flow

One day Susan Boyle's cousin, next day, an anorexic oluchi wannabe, next day, Yokozuna's cousin.

lolz theres nuffin wrong with lists

in fact i encourage every woman to have a list

stops u from dating monkeys  

It's not bad for women to have these lists . . . but then, when it's created by the Disney movies you saw as a kid or the romance flicks written by overly imaginative scriptwriters, it becomes a problem.

I don't know why you guys think what a woman (not a girl) wants is adapted from a movie.
What do you take us for?

[b]I meant practical as in being able to adapt expectations to accommodate the one they want.[/b]So there's this vague picture of say Halle Berry in your brain, but then you'll adapt it to fit anyone

And women don't?

debosky:

One day Susan Boyle's cousin, next day, an anorexic oluchi wannabe, next day, Yokozuna's cousin.  

Debosky you need to be very flexible and adaptable in this competitive environment. It helps to respond to changes quicker.
I'd rather be pro-active than re-active.

Actually I'm more into village girls like Tope that tie wrappers . . .  

debosky:

One day Susan Boyle's cousin, next day, an anorexic oluchi wannabe, next day, Yokozuna's cousin.

PEACH!!!

stillwater:

I don't know why you guys think what a woman (not a girl) wants is adapted from a movie.
What do you take us for?

And women don't?

Let's check out NL as our sample space, even the relatively mature chics have bullshit lists.
It's hilarious . . .

'If he doesn't take me out once a week, we'll end it' . . . like WTF . . . it's 2010.

lolz

well after datin a typical naija man

i dont blame women from consulting the movies!!

eldee if i can manage to take myself out everyday

then its not a big job takin out ur woman everyweek!

chamotex:

Actually I'm more into village girls like Tope that tie wrappers . . .  

Craze dey catch u
I dnt do men that doesnt have TASTE

ayettymama:

well after datin a typical naija man

i dont blame women from consulting the movies!!

eldee if i can manage to take myself out everyday

then its not a big job takin out your woman everyweek!

I saw a movie the other day . . . and I just knew that the movie was written by a woman.
Why?? The male character were just extremely adapted to fit the Disney-like Prince.

They are not flipping realistic. . . and then the way you see someone always manages to affect the way you act towards him, you see him as below standard, then it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Let's check out NL as our sample space, even the relatively mature chics have bullshit lists.
It's hilarious . . .

'If he doesn't take me out once a week, we'll end it' . . . like WTF . . . it's 2010.

What is hilarious is the subtle thought stupidity does not also stem from the male angle.


[size=2pt]Still waiting on your pic.[/size]

TOPE2000!:

Craze dey catch u
I dnt do men that doesnt have TASTE

Who told you I don't have taste . . . Actually I'm very picky

stillwater:

[size=2pt]Still waiting on your pic.[/size]

[size=2pt]I can give it to you but you know nothing is free
Did Eldee tell you we went to the same school[/size]

I can give it to you but you know nothing is free
Did Eldee tell you we went to the same school

[size=2pt]What do you want in return?[/size]

stillwater:

What is hilarious is the subtle thought stupidity does not also stem from the male angle.


[size=2pt]Still waiting on your pic.[/size]

Nah, y'all just take it to the next level.
Apart from virginity(which could be acceptable in a Nigerian forum) . . . most Nigerian guys don't have any stupid boxes for women to tick.
Now our NL sisters . . .hmmmnnn


[size=2pt]Hehehe . . . come to the NL Babeque, you'll see me in person[/size]

chamotex:

Who told you I don't have taste . . . Actually I'm very picky

LMAO. . . . yea rite

Nah, y'all just take it to the next level.
Apart from virginity(which could be acceptable in a Nigerian forum) . . . most Nigerian guys don't have any silly boxes for women to tick.
Now our NL sisters . . .hmmmnnn

Are you scared you don't meet up? Is having clean teeth too much of a duty for you to meet up?  


[size=2pt]When is it? Show me your face jare.[/size]

stillwater:

Are you scared you don't meet up? Is having clean teeth too much of a duty for you to meet up?  

Swoosh!!!

stillwater:

Are you scared you don't meet up? Is having clean teeth too much of a duty for you to meet up?  


[size=2pt]When is it? Show me your face jare.[/size]

Come on . . .you know I meet-up on most chics' lists.
The only problem I have is the control you give em by ticking those boxes.

It's more like an ego thing . . . why do I have to meet your standards??
Does it mean, if I weren't 6''3' you'd reject me??

[size=2pt]Ionno . . . It's still being planned, everyone is coming.[/size]

Come on . . .you know I meet-up on most chics' lists.
The only problem I have is the control you give em by ticking those boxes.

It's more like an ego thing . . . why do I have to meet your standards??
Does it mean, if I weren't 6''3' you'd reject me??

Control? What control? You meet up to her standards, control automatically become yours. She would fight to keep you.

[size=2pt]That's by the way. Show me your pic jor.[/size]

stillwater:

Control? What control? You meet up to her standards, control automatically become yours. She would fight to keep you.

[size=2pt]That's by the way. Show me your pic jor.[/size]

Well . . . I knew you won't understand, afterall, you're just another one of em



[size=2pt]Hehe, get it from Chamo[/size]

lolz

aaaaaanyways my list is on my ipod

cant be bovered (and dont no how) to get it

thinkin of adding

he must not be nigerian to it??

daduke2k:

My ideal woman

Personality:
1. Inteligent, with an inquisitive mind of her own. But not an overly genius like person who always corrects me, act too smart or tries to out-do me or something.
2. Sensitive and caring, but not over-protective or clingy.
3. Confident and self assured, but not arrogant
4. Nice and polite (nice to people
5. God fearing
6. Spontaneously romantic
7. Has ambitions, goals and great morals
8. family-oriented
9. clam and collected/down to earth (I don't mean quiet or dumb)
10. Gud cook
Looks:
1. tall (above 5ft 6)
2. any hair colour (maybe not blonde)
3. killer smile
4. nice voice
5. Neat/ Good personal hygiene.
6. neat and classy sense of fashion.
7. i dont like dotcoms hair (but i could deal with it)
8. nice body not fat not skinny
9. nice skin
10. charming

Other stuff:
1. doesnt smoke
2. doesnt drink
3. not a party freak
4. remembers birthdays and aniversaries
5. Doesnt underestimate me
6. comfortable wif ma status
7. unselfish lover
8. good in bed
9. Keep my secrets and respect my privacy.
10. not too serious ( I don't want our home looking like a battlefield there should be fun, jokes, laughter, and seriousness when required)
11 good conversationalist


I want her to love me and to be kind to me. I want her to treat me nicely. I want her to be loyal and devoted.


I want her to be passionate about life and compassionate with others.

u don tay for bus stop ! u will wait, wait,wait,wait,wait and wait until u can wait no more. then u will decide to pick an inperfect one and make her perfect

@Topic,  Kind
              Tolerant
              Must love me
              Intelligent
              Tall
              Good job/prospects
              Good looking/stylish

Just those?

I thought the list was too long

yes slightly but good list all d same.

its very hard to find a perfect partner,in fact there's no such thing, jst turn the imperfect partner you've got to who you want them to be @daduke2k somehow ive got this strong feeling,ur list is referring to moi, *wink*

jay bee:

Just those?

jay bee:

yes slightly but good list all d same.

So was your question above sarcasm?

amasha:

its very hard to find a perfect partner,in fact there's no such thing, jst turn the imperfect partner you've got to who you want them to be @daduke2k somehow ive got this strong feeling,your list is referring to moi, *wink*

so how d u fit in?