Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

OrestesDante:





This is one of them

Benita27:
And this is one of them who wants to be compensated for spending on a girl with marriage. It doesn't work that way.

OrestesDante:




If I call you thief now. One mod will come and ban me again. I just dey come from one ban.

I no wan chop another one.

Benita27:
Look up the meaning of a "Thief". Spending on a woman is a product of your benevolence, and not stealing. You can't sue her 'cause she rejected you after spending on her 'cause she didn't ask for it. It's not a loan. That's the more reason why some of you should spend wisely, and not use money to make ladies feel they're indebted. Once they feel indebted they may be dating you for that reason and not because they genuinely want to which is a redflag in any relationship.

OrestesDante:


Good. After the promise of marriage? abi what are you saying?

tosyne2much:
And he had to publicize it? To attract sympathy and or what?

Heart break is what virtually every guy will experience at least once in his lifetime
before your head go correct


I shake my head for the childishness and stupidity of this guy

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

YoungDaNaval:
your post is irritating

YoungDaNaval:
I experienced it once and heaven knows I'll never allow myself experience it again. I always expect the worst from any lady I date now so it wouldnt look like a surprise when it hits me .

And to topic, so the man is trying to tell us he found a new girl he wants to marry within the short period of time he was disappointed​ by the other girl? Which means he's not faithful na, by having reserve when he's in a relationship. lol I applaud his snartless though

yebzman:
A Man Tea Gomos has called out his Ex-Girl friend Ndonima Micah Enoch on Facebook for allegedly deceiving him during the course of their five (5) year relationship. During which he cared and support all through her university days and introduced her to family and friends only to find out she was engaged to someone else, shortly before the wedding.
He claims to have forgiven her and Invited all his friends to her wedding.

Kenzico:
Nsogbu dikwa

biacan:
So sad she took him by surprise

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

tosyne2much:
And he had to publicize it? To attract sympathy and or what?

Heart break is what virtually every guy will experience at least once in his lifetime
before your head go correct


I shake my head for the childishness and stupidity of this guy