makydebbie:
Exactly! He said he'll want to have sex. See ehn, Ishi. Let's drop emotions and argue logically. How can you lead a guy to the point of head.
They were cuddling too, if she was serious about the no sex, she would have cautioned the guy immediately when cuddling started. But no! She opened her legs for head! Ahn an!

Xda59:


And the guy must have finger fůcked her while sucking her pussy and she let him do all the exploration lol.

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

Ishilove:

It's still no excuse for rape

Papiikush:
Slut!

A guy who is not your boyfriend, what in the world were you doing in his house overnight?

Forget the whole rape brouhaha...she is trying to play the victim card here because all I read is about a one night stand gone wrong.

Wait... How in the world will someone rape you with oral again?

I mean he was licking your pussý comfortably and you couldn't do anything? Ha aye mi!!!!

If a guy can be so comfortable to the extent he goes down on you, removes your panties and use his tongue to wipe your pussý clean without you breaking his neck with your laps, then you are a slut

I need to start telling these Unilag girls I have free WIFI maybe they'll come and spend the night in my apartment too. Awon olosho gbogbo

Forget self control, bìtch if you come to my apartment and you running around in your bumshort I'll fück that pussý.

If you are looking for men with self control don't sleep in my house go and sleep in your pastor's house.

Ishilove:

but he pinned her down and sucked that puzzy like a vacuum cleaner!

Papiikush:
Slut!

A guy who is not your boyfriend, what in the world were you doing in his house overnight?

Forget the whole rape brouhaha...she is trying to play the victim card here because all I read is about a one night stand gone wrong.

Wait... How in the world will someone rape you with oral again?

I mean he was licking your pussý comfortably and you couldn't do anything? Ha aye mi!!!!

If a guy can be so comfortable to the extent he goes down on you, removes your panties and use his tongue to wipe your pussý clean without you breaking his neck with your laps, then you are a slut

I need to start telling these Unilag girls I have free WIFI maybe they'll come and spend the night in my apartment too. Awon olosho gbogbo

Forget self control, bìtch if you come to my apartment and you running around in your bumshort I'll fück that pussý.

If you are looking for men with self control don't sleep in my house go and sleep in your pastor's house.

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

LadyGoddiva:
Like I said before, sometimes we do stupid things without expecting the terrible outcome. Since Nigerian men here have proven to be wild animals with no iota of self control, then we have no choice but to guard ourselves against them

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

Papiikush:


Men are not dogs but if you are trying to lead a guy on, be ready to take that D.

I am sure she could have asked to sleep in the living room. That will be a message saying 'I ain't here for no dick"

What am I even saying sef, don't go around sleeping in men's houses. That shìt is bad, you don't know who he truly is. Nigga might be a Yahoo guy looking for his next' victim'

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

LadyGoddiva:
That’s where I’d disagree with you. The girl is already going through enough trauma, that’s if this story is true and she doesn’t need more people reminding her of how much of a LovePeddler she is. Plus, we don’t even know what really went down that night. She was foolish to trust someone she barely knew, yes, but sometimes we do stupid things without ever expecting a sordid outcome. And I don’t see anyone calling out the man, they’re all laying it heavy on the girl which is so disheartening.

bukatyne:


The girl is fish brained for
1. Visiting him with intent to stay overnight
2. Changing out of her wear into shorts
3. Sleeping on the same bed with him
4. Accepting oral & co.
5. Telling us the story with a unanonymous handle
6. Calling the guy out.

This is why guys should have values and principles. See one olosho looking for 5 mins of fame dragging this guy's name into the mud.

Even if he is freed, the stigma is for a long while.

Rozaytee:
mehn..d gal was foolish... very foolish.... I blame her very well... for making such mistake... wat if d guy harmed her... Hmmmm.... and... some guys can be perverts must u rape?

onegig:


As much I would want to address her concerns. I have never seen such naivety and stupidity combined in one person. So she has a boyfriend and what actually did she tell him before agreeing to spend the night with the guy?

That she is going to sleep over in her cousin's house or what? I guess. Someone you barely knew. Someone your so called boyfriend doesn't know . You just knew him from a friend of a friend.

As much as you want to avoid victim blaming, this case turns every common sense discussion upside down. What if he were to be a ritualist and had kidnapped her? What if her friends actually pawned her in for the slaughter?. People just don't for once just think things through. No one even knew the address of the guy . He just booked an Uber for her and like her sil..ly self hoped into the car in the middle of the night. Like why for heaven's sake ladies can't just even think about their personal safety for once. Once most hear basic things like ice cream, fast food and night outing. All commonsense jump out of their head. Like are you guys that fuc.king hungry or what's so special about things not more than 5k that you could treat yourself to?

She should call her mum and narrate her ordeal to her and hear her mum sing her praise to high heavens. Mtshweee

I still can't believe an adult above 18 actually did what she did.

bukatyne:
How do they train girls these days?

You have a BF and decided to sleep over at another guy's place? Alone?

You slept on the bed and changed to your shorts? I am guessing hot pants here?

He wanted to cuddle and you let him?

You 'needed' free Wi-Fi and couldn't go there in the day to download or whatever?

He 'raped' you and still put you in Uber and gave you money for drugs?

If you go to a guy's house alone/with friends and comfortably change into shorts and share a bed with him, sex is on the table.... #commonsense 101.

Some ladies need brain surgery to reset their thought processing. This is typical fish brain I swear!

All these fish brained girls would not let genuine rape victims get reserved help.

LadyGoddiva:
Like I said before, sometimes we do stupid things without expecting the terrible outcome. Since Nigerian men here have proven to be wild animals with no iota of self control, then we have no choice but to guard ourselves against them

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

bukatyne:


Why do you think they never tell their parents and result to twitter and instagram?

I wonder why people think it is cool to publish nonsense stories about themselves online.

Don't they see past their noses into the future?