Ishilove:

You are a very difficult person and if I knew your girlfriend, I'd advice her not to go into marriage with you. If she has nothing in her schedule what do you want her waking early for? To kiss your balls and massage your feet? To pound yam and prepare banga soup?

When she has children she will adjust so I don't know why you're bitching. Mscheeeew

greenhulk:
But seriously if the lady is my sister I will advice her against marrying this op. So just because someone comes to visit u and wakes up 7am (probably on a weekend) then that makes her not fit enough to be a wife material? I know ur type, u are one of those rigid '
This is Africa ' kind of men. Those that will beat their wife up and see nothing wrong with it . R u looking for a housegirl or a wife? So let me see... U expect her to wake by 5am, make ur food and serve u breakfast in bed and she must be on her knees while serving u the food abi. See this hustler dey form big man, so what will u do then when u become really rich, u will tie a rope to her neck

Realitycheck007:
How do u expect me to talk to her? Or what should I do to make her wake early

Daeylar:
But op it's a free world last last, if you really don't like your girl's sleeping habits,
Leave her and find someone whose habits you prefer,
Your choice.

Realitycheck007:
Good day,

Good people of nairaland, I am new to the thread so please bear my mishaps. Nairaland was Introduced to me by a colleague of mine at the office yesterday. So i said i should seek your advice on an issue bothering me.. Back to the topic.

Name withheld, My fiancee has been my girl for over 4 months now, and by early next year am thinking of taking it to the alter by God's grace but here is the problem....

On 3 or 4 occasions i have invited her to spend the night at my place, she do agrees but the problem is she over sleeps. She would sleep from 11 till 7am, A working class lady. I dunno how to tell her again, Cause i told her jokingly she laughed about it and said Is It my sleep. Imagine marrying her and she wakes by 7 or 8, Were is the time to take care of our kids nd d home I.E, Preparing breakfast and bathing the kids and also preparing for her work hour..... Please Nairalanders, Your opinions will be highly welcomed. I thought you had a more serious problem. Can everybody imagine ? So what you mentioned now is your problem? Oga calm. So tell me will you leave a girl you claim you love because she sleeps and wake up by 7am. Ask yourself ? and about the kids... just watch and see if she is lazy or not, if she is lazy then talk to her about it with seriousness not jokingly. If she is not then no problem.

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Dimples129:


If she is working then yes! You do it regularly.

HarunaWest:
lol....I thought you had one serious problem as such....she shud sleep early then so she could wake up early,,and start ringing it into her ear that you would not marry a jobless lady....she will adjust

Preetiex:
dat is ur opinion anyway

Preetiex:
y bring his parent into dis because of a comment? Do to other wat u want others to do to u o,besides we all have different ways of living our lives

Realitycheck007:
Good day,

Good people of nairaland, I am new to the thread so please bear my mishaps. Nairaland was Introduced to me by a colleague of mine at the office yesterday. So i said i should seek your advice on an issue bothering me.. Back to the topic.

Name withheld, My fiancee has been my girl for over 4 months now, and by early next year am thinking of taking it to the alter by God's grace but here is the problem....

On 3 or 4 occasions i have invited her to spend the night at my place, she do agrees but the problem is she over sleeps. She would sleep from 11 till 7am, A working class lady. I dunno how to tell her again, Cause i told her jokingly she laughed about it and said Is It my sleep. Imagine marrying her and she wakes by 7 or 8, Were is the time to take care of our kids nd d home I.E, Preparing breakfast and bathing the kids and also preparing for her work hour..... Please Nairalanders, Your opinions will be highly welcomed.

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Realitycheck007:
This has got me laughing my chin hurts

Jimi23:


You are a fool. Your parents are both lunatics for bringing forth a buffoon like you to planet earth. You are the foolish OP operating under a different handle obviously. With your English I ain't gonna stoop to a dumdum head like you. Na people like you with your brainlessness who encourage gigoloism and woman slavery. You are a monkey born by animals. Gerrarahia man! Stupid.d OP.

SmellingAnus:
nah... Because your anus has a pleasant aroma especially after defecation...

Gofwane:
lol the op never know wetin dey happen inside town

nairanaira12:


It is not just an individual thing. It is a norm in a safe society. A sensible woman won't be sleeping till 7am when she has to get to work by 8am

Is she sick or went on a vigil the previous night?

Mrnairalandd:


Bleep off

So what is the point of hiring a maid who can’t take care of her child?

So the young man should hire her for what? Decoration i guess

Lazy ass

Her main job in that house is waking up in the morning to take care of her child and make breakfast. Period! The only exception to that is if she is the one making money available for all these things.

A maid who knows her responsibility will be up by 6am(7hours sleep enough for lazy ass maid, only poor people sleep that long) and begin to make breakfast and bath her child.

nairanaira12:


So, waking up early to clean the home is your own idea of suffering? This your generation has gone to the dogs.

Will you encourage your daughters to sleep till 7am when they have to arrive at work by 8am?

Humanistme:


If waking up early to clean the home everyday is left for one person alone when it is the two of you that work, then complain when she is too tired to do it on certain days then to me it is suffering.

This generation is actually better, we technologically advanced, slavery has reduced, black people can vote, we have women emancipation etc

I will encourage my my daughters to wake whenever they want as long as they manage the time they have left well.