Traditional wedding is what is recognized in the bible.. after you have paid her bride price and the necessary rites.. she's your wife...it is man that invented white/church wedding..

Self imposed religious dogmas. Mscheeew

PenlsCaP:
Tho we now see it as norm.. becoz conji is a bastard. ...But spiritually its wrong.
It should be only after marriage by right.

And what. Is marriage by right....
God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob don change abi.... Who be the priest or Reverend when wed Isaac or Jacob, abi in the wedding of Cana of Galilee dem write say Jesus read solemn matrimony vows for the couple.. In the scripture once the family of the Man pays the bride price they are married...
Any other thing is just addendum... Which is not compulsory, its just a borrowed culture of the white because they didn't accept African beliefs.

IT IS ONLY ISLAM THAT PREACHES NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE.
SUFFICE IT TO SAY THAT IF YOU DO NOT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE THEN YOU ARE A MUSLIM AND IT IS A GOOD THING. YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO ENJOY YOUR NEW BRIDE.
BUT YOU PREFER TO CARRY SLAY QUEENS TO D ALTER.

wwwtortoise:
Traditional marriage is the recognized and generally accepted rite to perform in our culture.

Once this nuptial rite is fulfilled couple is free to consummate their union whenever, whichever and however they so desire.

Say no to Western copycatism.

Hmmmm.
I love your "Copycatism ".

Be deceiving yourselves on Nairaland, as if anyone Of you can even wait till introduction, how many people disagreed on cohabiting the other time it was brought on this forum. , only few persons.
Marriage is honorable , bed undefile.
if you do after introduction, go for marriage blessing.
Or let any genuine pastor lead you to your marital vows, Monday-Sunday.
it could be anyday.
not a fake prophet oooo

To my future husband
After trad, better don't go waiting for some white wedding before giving me babies
If you want to invite God who I'm sure knew that we were going to get married even before we were born, we could just kneel down in front of our bed and tell him that we have decided to make babies. I believe he will bless our union. He's to good a God
After all, Jesus changed water to wine during a trad not a white wedding.

Yes naa, before nko?

May I asked if your wife is a virgin before I comment please?

Yes from the African view and no from the Christian view because according to Christianity, you are not yet married if you have not exchanged your vows before God

olasunkanmii:
Both are mutually exclusive. Reason; by the traditional wedding, you have performed the customary rites required for the marriage ( the peoples' mandate), but by crowning it with the white (church) wedding, you are entrusting your union into God's hand. So, no "chucking" until the white wedding is done

White or church wedding is not God's wedding . It is a white man's culture. There is no record in the Bible the isrealites wedded in synagogue. Even the one Christ personally attended was traditional wedding. White wedding is colonial imitation

White/church wedding is oyinbo traditional ceremony
What we call traditional wedding is African traditional ceremony.

They are both traditional to their places of origin, and so just as valid. So far as the couple and witnesses accept the validity of the wedding, and the couples are sincere in there hearts, I don't see anywhere in the Bible where it says you have to have a wedding in a "church", officiated by a priest, before it's valid in the eyes of God.

You just need an officiant and witnesses. The couple's patriarchy (or matriarchy in Ghana) is the officiant in African traditional ceremonies, both sides agree to the marriage, bless it, bind it.

Don't let the traditions of Europeans confuse you.

[quote author=PenlsCaP post=63074148]Tho we now see it as norm.. becoz conji is a bastard. ...But spiritually its wrong.
It should be only after marriage by right.
[spiritually wrong how]

Is it for people who didn't have sex before the traditional marriage?. Coz only few go for traditional marriage without fvcking like minks and raising rug rats.

Virgin for where..

firstolalekan:
Very stupîd and irrelevant question if one or both couple are not virgins

Don't have sex after ur OWN marriage (traditional marriage). Instead, have sex after the White's traditional marriage (white wedding)
Inferior complex

bizzai:


https://www.modernghana.com/amp/lifestyle/10419/can-christian-couple-have-sex-after-traditional-marriage-cer.html

No. Not even after church wedding. The groom shouldn't make love to the wife at all because they are now brother and sister! Oloshi!

Sex that they have been having before they dream of planning to Wed

About 99% of Christians always have sex before marriage. Those who can endure that are very few.

White wedding is western culture.it is not scriptural. The white wedding dress is not scriptural, the ring is from white pagan culture, There is a difference between scripture and theology sold to you by white man

olasunkanmii:
Both are mutually exclusive. Reason; by the traditional wedding, you have performed the customary rites required for the marriage ( the peoples' mandate), but by crowning it with the white (church) wedding, you are entrusting your union into God's hand. So, no "chucking" until the white wedding is done

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Yes once he has paid the bride price and families have agreed. That is scriptural requirement. White wedding is just western culture not scriptural.

Keneking:
No

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bizzai:


https://www.modernghana.com/amp/lifestyle/10419/can-christian-couple-have-sex-after-traditional-marriage-cer.html

No wait till 10 years time when fibroid hook ur womb, or when cobweb tie ur pubic hair

Yes once he has paid the bride price and families have agreed. That is scriptural requirement. White wedding is just western culture not scriptural.
The church has no authority in given hand of woman in marriage it is the parents that God gave this authority to according to scriptures.
White wedding is not scriptural it is just western culture sold to us. The pastor has no say when it comes to marriage it is the couple and parents that have a say.
People need to know the difference between scriptural truth and western theology

No they can't. The pastor must bless the pussy first.

YES cause traditional marriage is even the marriage recognized in the bible....Once a man pays a woman's dowry....they are married

olasunkanmii:
Both are mutually exclusive. Reason; by the traditional wedding, you have performed the customary rites required for the marriage ( the peoples' mandate), but by crowning it with the white (church) wedding, you are entrusting your union into God's hand. So, no "chucking" until the white wedding is done

Rubbish!! So the traditional marriage is not entrusted into God's hand abi? Slave mentality. Is the white wedding not the tradition of white people? Have you seen this white wedding anywhere in the Bible? Emancipate yourself from mental slavery. How can you think your marriage is not in God's hand except you observe the white man's tradition?

Niggaz have been fvcking before anything started.

No please