nkwuocha:


Possible.
Once upon a time I called a beautiful lady I was trying to date "baby".She told me plainly that I shouldn't call her such,as the right to that name calling is exclusively for her man.I called her yet again,she stopped talking to me,and eventually blocked me on WhatsApp.

anochuko01:
If I call you sweetie, its sure i have something for you.
if a lady calls me that, especially a Lady of my age, i feel somehow.
I'm that sensitive to words.

ndidibabe:
Na wha o...

Diso60090:





Come beat me now since na tolerance

anochuko01:

sweetie, wetin happen

nkwuocha:


No time.

ndidibabe:
I tire o. Common say dem call persin sweetie, im body dey shake...

Diso60090:








Come and take the one you left here i don't need it since you said you don't have any time left with you

Donjazzy12:

This is pure madness! Calling someone sweetie is not sexual harassment but in the West where men foolishly lost all their rights because of pussy, anything a man does is considered as rape until the woman says otherwise.

bilms:
Lady quite job because her boss calls her sweetie
http://mrrightsng..com.ng/2017/12/lady-quite-job-because-her-boss-calls.html


A lady, who goes by the name Sarah Mcgovern on social network site Facebook, has quite her job over what she described as harassment and persistently being refereed to as sweetie by her boss. Sarah took to Facebook on December 7th 2017 to narrate her experience. She wrote: I don't post many deeply personal things online, but I want to share this. I quit my job about a month ago because of harassment. Below is my letter of resignation. I think it's important to share this truth, and to know that many of us will not tolerate the abuse. We can and should walk out. #metoo "Hi Elias, This is my letter of resignation, effective today, October 31, 2017, my last partial day of employment. Since the second day of my employment, on October 12, 2017, I have asked you not to call me "Sweetie." I have asked you not to call me Sweetie more than 5 times since then, and you have still not respected this request. I nearly walked out because of this last Tuesday, October 24, 2017. I stayed to give you one more chance, because you said you finally understood how important this request was, and that you would stop this specific behavior immediately and for good. You only agreed to this after I told you in anger and tears, ready to quit, how important it was that you stop. I was very upset not only from the name calling, but also because I knew you were discussing this dynamic with Tony, who just days before had come up and said to me, "Sarah and Sweetie both start with an S" - a completely inappropriate comment, seeking to instigate an upsetting situation for me, brought on by your behavior. Now, even after all of that, and with your own agreement to stop, this morning, October 31, 2017, you called me Sweetie again. This is unacceptable. I have never heard you call any of the men at your company "Sweetie," which shows that this is clearly only a behavior that you are directing at me as a woman. Your team is even aware of your poor treatment of new female employees. One team member actually told me, while laughing, that they take bets on how long "each one [referencing females] will last." That was shocking to hear, to say the least. For these reasons, I am resigning. Gender-based discrimination is one of the most overt and harmful ways you can create a hostile work environment, an environment that is very damaging to one's health and well being. This is what you have done, and I will not tolerate it. Please confirm your receipt of this letter, voice any disagreements that you may have. Please also send my final paycheck (for 45 hours, 40 last week + 5 today) to my home address at .... Street, Garden Grove, CA .... as soon as possible, and let me know once it is mailed. I hope in the future you are more careful in your treatment of others. It means more than you realize.

Sincerely,

Sarah McGovern"


http://mrrightsng..com.ng/2017/12/lady-quite-job-because-her-boss-calls.html

Sterope:
Secual harrasment is different from rape.

Calling someone sweetie is sexual harassment. Sexual harassment is an unwanted sexual advances. Besides, IT IS A WORK ENVIRONMENT. You don't call your colleague ‘sweetie, dear, darling'. What happens to calling them by their given names? You should be formal and polite not flirtatious and sweet.

How about the fact that she didn't appreciate the term and she made her feelings known several times but guess what he ignored it and even discussed it with a fellow colleague. That should not be acceptable. It can be very uncomfortable and awkward for the recipient.

KhalDroggo:



Calling anyone by a name which makes them uncomfortable can never be justified. What if she is a married woman and her husband overhears another man referring to his wife as "sweetie?" That would mark the beginning of the end for that marriage.
Judging from most of the comments I've read here, Nigerians are a primitive and unsophisticated lot.

Donjazzy12:

So women who always refers to other women as sweeties and my love are sexually harassing them? If that is true, then every Nigerian young lady is a sexual harasser because I hear them call each other sweetheart every time.

MhizzAJ:

Oh you think everyone is like you without principles

She's clearly not a woman of easy virtues

Some ladies can't tolerate those kinda behaviour from men

unitysheart:


Chai, Mr Misunderstood

bilms:
Not all ladies are unprincipled.

confistified:
oga boss.... Compliments of the season

unitysheart:


I hail you boss.