Dear Jzhane,


My Fiancee is very friendly to her ex’s family . I mean,I didnt even know that she keeps in touch with them until on her birthday,they sent her a cake. I didnt even know until someone made a comment that hmm,Fola’s family knows how to send amazing cakes o.

I picked it up,I knew she said her ex name is Fola. At that point,I asked why they send her cake and she was like they know its her birthday and they did that for almost six years,even after the break up which is almost like two years ago.

I told her I was not comfortable with it and she replied that I should chill that Fola her ex has a new girlfriend . I must confess that didnt make me comfortable.

I told her to cease communication with them and she flipped out ,saying I was acting immature. I left her birthday angry and as I was leaving,I went through her facebook posts...see more

www.livelystones.com.ng

Totally IMMATURE ACTION.

That they're no longer in a romantic relationship can't automatically erase the fact that they've known themselves.

Ha! Just because of cake? Guy, abeg apologise to the babe ASAP. You're just being unnecessarily jealous and INSECURE.

KardinalZik:
Totally IMMATURE ACTION.

That they're no longer in a romantic relationship can't automatically erase the fact that they've known themselves.

Ha! Just because of cake? Guy, abeg apologise to the babe ASAP. You're just being unnecessarily jealous and INSECURE.

I beg no fes, but I know OP acted immature .

if reverese is the case what do you think will be the reaction?

women and their jealousy attitude


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7me_jF00s8

nigga dont accept such sh!t
u have the right to feel how u feel.never apologize for your feelings.
i can never abide such disloyality from a chick.its either u are mine 100 or the door is open.

there is no smoke without fire oooo!!! play along

LivelyStones:

Dear Jzhane,


My Fiancee is very friendly to her ex’s family . I mean,I didnt even know that she keeps in touch with them until on her birthday,they sent her a cake. I didnt even know until someone made a comment that hmm,Fola’s family knows how to send amazing cakes o.

I picked it up,I knew she said her ex name is Fola. At that point,I asked why they send her cake and she was like they know its her birthday and they did that for almost six years,even after the break up which is almost like two years ago.

I told her I was not comfortable with it and she replied that I should chill that Fola her ex has a new girlfriend . I must confess that didnt make me comfortable.

I told her to cease communication with them and she flipped out ,saying I was acting immature. I left her birthday angry and as I was leaving,I went through her facebook posts...see more

www.livelystones.com.ng

LOL.... dude start searching for another fiancée abeg

ubunja:
nigga dont accept such sh!t
u have the right to feel how u feel.never apologize for your feelings.
i can never abide such disloyality from a chick.its either u are mine 100 or the door is open.

u better work on urself, if not u will end up as a lonely and dejected old man. The world does not revolve around u.
@op, u can do better in handlin dis issue, let her knw how u feel abt her closeness wit fola's family and ask ur gf if she will be comfortable wit u and ur ex family maintainin such closeness.

totally unacceptable,bringing dat cake is jst 2much 4 a relationship dat crashed 2years ago. If truly she has moved on wt u, she cud hv as well avoided d family and anything dat has 2 do wt d ex. If sometin has not started going on now, it will definitely start soon, dnt b surprised dat d family mayb trying so hard 2 convince dia son to go bak 2 her. It's either she's wt u or she leaves 2 avoid anoda man fathering ur kids

pedrilo:
u better work on urself, if not u will end up as a lonely and dejected old man. The world does not revolve around u.
@op, u can do better in handlin dis issue, let her knw how u feel abt her closeness wit fola's family and ask ur gf if she will be comfortable wit u and ur ex family maintainin such closeness.

i love myself way too much to accept this bullsh!t you call love.
love me how i want you to love me or keep your love. i dont need it.

You are being paranoid bro. There is nothing wrong in the family of her ex wishing him ,happy birthday . Anybody one cash wish anyone happy birthday.
She knew them before you.
For one to be Ex,doesn't mean you are enemies.

LivelyStones:

Dear Jzhane,


My Fiancee is very friendly to her ex’s family . I mean,I didnt even know that she keeps in touch with them until on her birthday,they sent her a cake. I didnt even know until someone made a comment that hmm,Fola’s family knows how to send amazing cakes o.

I picked it up,I knew she said her ex name is Fola. At that point,I asked why they send her cake and she was like they know its her birthday and they did that for almost six years,even after the break up which is almost like two years ago.

I told her I was not comfortable with it and she replied that I should chill that Fola her ex has a new girlfriend . I must confess that didnt make me comfortable.

I told her to cease communication with them and she flipped out ,saying I was acting immature. I left her birthday angry and as I was leaving,I went through her facebook posts...see more

www.livelystones.com.ng

ubunja:

i love myself way too much to accept this bullsh!t you call love.
love me how i want you to love me or keep your love. i dont need it.

I see a lonely old man

pedrilo:
I see a lonely old man

better i buy pr0stitutes till i die than approve of the cr@p you advising OP to accept
and OP better prepare to raise that Ex's babies.since he is a simp anyways. and the irony is the GF gonna be telling OP to delete all his Exes from his fone.LMFAOOOOO!!!!!!

lilmax:
LOL.... dude start searching for another fiancée abeg

Your statement might sound funny but you are right.

Op don't place all your eggs in her basket.

At the back of her mind, she may be hoping they reconcile and settle down. And the ex family too may be having such hopes. Better to be safe than sorry.
And like a lady above me said,

Don't end up fathering her ex children thinking and with full confidence believing they are yours.

Be wise.

ubunja:

better i buy pr0stitutes till i die than approve of the cr@p you advising OP to accept
and OP better prepare to raise that Ex's babies.since he is a simp anyways. and the irony is the GF gonna be telling OP to delete all his Exes from his fone.LMFAOOOOO!!!!!!

people like u end up wit very bad partners. U tink u r smart.

ubunja:

better i buy pr0stitutes till i die than approve of the cr@p you advising OP to accept
and OP better prepare to raise that Ex's babies.since he is a simp anyways. and the irony is the GF gonna be telling OP to delete all his Exes from his fone.LMFAOOOOO!!!!!!

lol....bros leave that guy, how providing early solution to the problem makes someone lonely is what I don't get.... it's pure common sense, from what I see here, the parents are trying to win her over and she's not even trying to let go

@op once again, if she doesn't agree, you walk away

pedrilo:
people like u end up wit very bad partners. U tink u r smart.

why are you so determined for OP to accept his GF's continued relations with her Ex's family?
are u from the Ex' family or you just see life as one long walk in the park where everyone is good and noone will ever take advantage of another?
c'mon now dude.even girls are disacouraging it yet here u are pushing it. you are being irresponsible now.u giving bad advice that will end with OP killing someone 15yrs from now when DNA tests reveal the Gf got more than just cakes from those people. stop your emotional d!ck centred reasoning for once and use your head .the bigger head .
please and thank you.

ubunja:

why are you so determined for OP to accept his GF's continued relations with her Ex's family?
are u from the Ex' family or you just see life as one long walk in the park where everyone is good and noone will ever take advantage of another?
c'mon now dude.even girls are disacouraging it yet here u are pushing it. you are being irresponsible now.u giving bad advice that will end with OP killing someone 15yrs from now when DNA tests reveal the Gf got more than just cakes from those people. stop your emotional d!ck centred reasoning for once and use your head .the bigger head .
please and thank you.

immature reasoning. You want to cage her from associating with people because she is dating you? Are you married to her?

pedrilo:
immature reasoning. You want to cage her from associating with people because she is dating you? Are you married to her?

then she might as well spend time with her Exes and go out on dates with them.and while we on that allow her to kiss her Exes.
stay away from relationships my friend. you dont know the first thing about commitment and being exclusive with anyone.

Na how some girl dey take their own hand spoil there relationship...as long as u re off with Ur ex why collect cake again.....to make Ur guy uncomfortable abi.....when he come leave now ....Na den she go dey say her village people dey follow her....

pedrilo:
I see a lonely old man

haba, that is harsh

ORAGBON:
haba, that is harsh

how this matter take concern you!!!!!!

Bloggers and fabricated stories sha

But for them not to be dating doesnt mean they are enemy nah. Anyone can present cake as birthday gift. Moreover, its the ex family not the ex .

IAMSASHY:
totally unacceptable,bringing dat cake is jst 2much 4 a relationship dat crashed 2years ago. If truly she has moved on wt u, she cud hv as well avoided d family and anything dat has 2 do wt d ex. If sometin has not started going on now, it will definitely start soon, dnt b surprised dat d family mayb trying so hard 2 convince dia son to go bak 2 her. It's either she's wt u or she leaves 2 avoid anoda man fathering ur kids

Romanic:
But for them not to be dating doesnt mean they are enemy nah. Anyone can present cake as birthday gift. Moreover, its the ex family not the ex .

when u put your response above the qoute it loses context

if she had avoided dem, dey won't bring dat cake, atleast once in awhile, "hi" on social media is k bt as u can see, d closeness is still much, she has succeeded in hvin d family on her side, d only person remaining is d ex, cnt u see she is gradually winning d game?

Romanic:
But for them not to be dating doesnt mean they are enemy nah. Anyone can present cake as birthday gift. Moreover, its the ex family not the ex .

wen u breakup wt ur ex and u try to move on wt a new person, if u stl keep in touch wt ur ex, it wl b 90% easier 4 d feelings u once shared 2 rise and reconnect dan 4 u 2 develop genuine feelings wt d new person.

we should always consider peoples feelings when we use words...But no vex, didn't mean to offend you.

pedrilo:
how this matter take concern you!!!!!!

Yes. What you said is actually true. But in this case,the story said it's the guys family. He can't just stop them like that nah. Or what do you think he should do to avoid it next time. Pick up a quarrel or what do you think ?

IAMSASHY:
if she had avoided dem, dey won't bring dat cake, atleast once in awhile, "hi" on social media is k bt as u can see, d closeness is still much, she has succeeded in hvin d family on her side, d only person remaining is d ex, cnt u see she is gradually winning d game? wen u breakup wt ur ex and u try to move on wt a new person, if u stl keep in touch wt ur ex, it wl b 90% easier 4 d feelings u once shared 2 rise and reconnect dan 4 u 2 develop genuine feelings wt d new person.