dollyjoy:
What were you thinking anyway? Your future isn't sure yet and time isn't on her side. She did the only logical thing any sensible human would have done. Move on,your wife is coming.

is it her own future that is sure>?? all these girls that have nothing to offer other than their body ... smh

Jupxter:



Its not about hustling, date girls with age gap, so by the time they get ready, you would have been prepared, don't date your age mate, date 5-7 years younger

Guy hustle... its nit about age gap. A girl that believes in you will stay regardless age gap. we hear stories everyday. know thyself. what works for A might not work for B. Nigerians are never patient and are always looking for where it is greener rather than make something green.

majekdom2:
Guy hustle... its nit about age gap. A girl that believes in you will stay regardless age gap. we hear stories everyday. know thyself. what works for A might not work for B. Nigerians are never patient and are always looking for where it is greener rather than make something green.

Although i don't need this counsel sha, you've spoken well. I'm of the make things green clique.

luminouz:
Na true o... Me just dey whine u

luminouz:
Na true o... Me just dey whine u

Rainmania:
Ok Scratch that
Are you mad

Go and sit down somewhere. .. Im.becile

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

jux tak hrt nd pursue ur goals nd put it as it wasnt met 2 b.na so nwadays lady b they double date nd normally dnt wait 4 a man 4 too long.but brotha do wat comedy actor charles awurum or so did put in prayers.pray 4 a gud mature woman.also put it as prayer request 2 a strong man of God.nd b wise wit any lady u date nxt.luk out 4 maturity nd hw much she invest in u.

Op just forget about her and pursue your education.

Aww she likes me

Dfinex:


Go and sit down somewhere. .. Im.becile

If you ask me, I'll say be thankful for small mercies. What this episode has showed you is your acclaimed gf was never loyal to you considering the 'short interval' between the break up and engagement

Jupxter:



Its not about hustling, date girls with age gap, so by the time they get ready, you would have been prepared, don't date your age mate, date 5-7 years younger

When did age gap started guaranteeing happiness??

ibkayee:
From the comments I'm seeing, some people think what she did was normal/justifiable?

Yes ke.. very normal

Rainmania:
But bros with this your English sef, how you been take graduate? Na this English you wan use go further? No wonder you couldn't land a job.
Biko just go into spare parts business. Thank you

Pot calling kettle black. How did you graduate with your own English too? Nigga, yours is worse.

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

Sorry for the embarrassment, I understand how you feel about it but bear in mind she never loved you, because within the time she left you ND when your friends congratulated you shows that you weren't the only one in her life. The most important thing in any relationship is love and happiness.
Move on with your life, you will get someone that loves you for who you are and not what you do for a living, cheer up, life goes on.

emusmithy:
I feel your pain bro. One left because of my vocation and pursuit. But I don't care. They only motivate me to outdo myself...

Every 6 months, she'll call and ask, "Are you still pursuing that job?"

Albert Einstein said; "Place your happiness in goals and not in girls." (Paraphrase)

Well, she had to leave. Were you not the one who started a thread about "spinsters above 28"? You want the lady to remain single and become a thread material for you on Nairaland?https://www.nairaland.com/3871579/sudden-increase-single-ladies-above


@OP, It's normal for she to leave you. Women marry up not down (financially and age wise). It's the exception not the norm that coursemates marry themselves. In a country where ladies above 25 are being told to "go and marry", it's important the ladies sieze the opportunity to avoid family pressure, societal and social media "28 years old" pressures.

If Nigerians esp the men begin to lessen the pressure on single ladies, maybe they (spinsters) will begin to marry their first love. But then, females marry up.

She was probably tired or she never really loved you. You should be happy oo... And, you just have to make in life. Good luck bro.

OUCH.....Two bottles of Stella for you.

Welcomme:
Pot calling kettle black. How did you graduate with your own English too? Nigga, yours is worse.

I dey feel for this guy, chai


Some girls are something else, I’m now scared of my gf

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

I always advise guys, hustle, make money then date .....
And as an husler who's in a relationship, never rely on a girl 100%, anything can happen ....... so, when e happen, click eyes then move on ......... Only a sizzy cry when a girl leave am ... Work hard and make the next girl no wan leave !!!

majekdom2:
is it her own future that is sure>?? all these girls that have nothing to offer other than their body ... smh

Use your head before you quote me,if she didn't contribute anything to the poor man's life aside sex,I doubt he will come here to wail over her,sex is very cheap.

missyQween:
That's so painful,You just have to work better and make her regret leaving you.
Life Goes On...

Nice one but what if the guy is 32 and the girl 30??
What do you think?

dollyjoy:
Use your head before you quote me,if she didn't contribute anything to the poor man's life aside sex,I doubt he will come here to wail over her,sex is very cheap.

is her own future sure? Is your future dependent on a man. Did you mother secure her future because she married your father? Dumb girls eerywhere

Bishops10:

Nice one but what if the guy is 32 and the girl 30??
What do you think?

Are those not things they are suppose to put into consideration before entering the relationship ? If they are both comfortable in the age difference at first, Why the sudden change from the lady ?

Jupxter:



Its not about hustling, date girls with age gap, so by the time they get ready, you would have been prepared, don't date your age mate, date 5-7 years younger

exactly

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

You got. what you deserved. You toyed with her emotions. You don't keep a lady waiting endlessly.

After six years, she still can't see where you are taking her. Abba!

You have forgotten that you are not the only good guy out there. Didn't you realise other nice and able guys might have been pestering her for a relationship.

Next time, never assume when a girl is going out with you especially a good girl, that there are no other guys out there trying to snatch her from you if they can. All it takes is for you to make the grave mistake of making her feel you are not as interested as she is. Before you know it, she is gone and you have lost her for good.

missyQween:



Are those not things they are suppose to put into consideration before entering the relationship ? If they are both comfortable in the age difference at first, Why the sudden change from the lady ?

Good point..... It has happened already, the guy should deal with it

Dnt get urself worked up and if u succeed in crying an ocean tear, it still woudnt change nothing. I know it's hard but please move on and focus on ur career, more important, pray fervently, that special woman God has ordained for u will surely come ur way when u are most ready. Its all about Gods perfect timing. Take heart

Dnt get urself worked up and enen if u succeed in crying an ocean ijt still woudnt change nothing. I know it's hard but please move on and focus on ur career, more important, pray fervently, that special woman God whom has ordained for u will surely come ur way when in right time. Its all about Gods perfect timing. Take heart

Bishops10:
Good point..... It has happened already, the guy should deal with it

Yeah, He should just move on

missyQween:


Yeah, He should just move on

Lol.

Berra

Jupxter:



Its not about hustling, date girls with age gap, so by the time they get ready, you would have been prepared, don't date your age mate, date 5-7 years younger

I once dated a guy like dat. Now am done with school and he still broke. Since 100 level d guy dey broke. av bin patient , he doesnt support me at all. always tells me to b patient. guys are already seekin 4 marriage .wat do u tink i shld do?

frozen70:

Sorry for the embarrassment, I understand how you feel about it but bear in mind she never loved you, because within the time she left you ND when your friends congratulated you shows that you weren't the only one in her life. The most important thing in any relationship is love and happiness.
Move on with your life, you will get someone that loves you for who you are and not what you do for a living, cheer up, life goes on.

Where is my birthday day cake plus Xmas chicken?