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Can An Ugly Guy Date Beautiful Girls? Find Out: by donbellar: 3:19am On Apr 03, 2010
I have met so many girls: different faces, different
places, different way of thinking blah blah -- you
can't win them all!
But when you do get rejected, a lot of
guys will often think,
"She must not have been attracted to me.
I must be UGLY!"
Don't fret, that's a common insecurity that
everyone (women and men) share. We're always
on edge, wondering if we're good looking
enough to get the women that we like.
Well, don't worry, because I've got a secret
I'm going to share with you.
Ready?
Here it comes,
Looks Aren't That Important!!!
Notice I didn't say looks AREN'T important.
I said looks aren't THAT important.
There's a difference.
Looks are important to an extent, but not
as important as you may think. Most women
have a lot of leeway in what they find
attractive in a man, and this can be used
to your advantage.
Many guys think girls look at men the way
men look at women. When a man looks at a
woman, he judges whether or not he's
attracted to her based on her looks.
If she's overweight, has the wrong hair
color, if her breasts are too small, if
her nose is too big, whatever it may be,
the man may dismiss her completely, regardless
of whether or not she's a really great girl.
Because men look at women that way, it's
natural for men to assume that's how women
appraise us.
This belief is both true, but at the same
time misleading.
Women do take looks into account, but in
the overall scheme of things, to women,
looks play a smaller role in deciding whether
they'll sleep with you than it does when it
comes to men deciding if they'll sleep with
a woman.
Let me give you an example from my life
for instance,
I used to date a girl I was madly in love with.
But because I was slightly overweight, I was
always depressed, feeling I didn't deserve a girl
like her. This bad attitude of mine eventually
ended up driving her away.
But we stayed friends, and as time went on,
she met another guy that she fell in love with.
Eventually, I went to visit her and met her new
beau, and to my surprise, I discovered this guy
was 10x fatter than I ever was!
Seriously, he had a good 100 pounds on me.
The difference was, even though he was fatter
and not as good looking as I was, he didn't
care.
He allowed his good traits to shine, whereas I
allowed myself to dwell on my bad qualities. And
this great girl that I had in my life was attracted
to those great qualities and easily overlooked his
shortcomings in the looks department.
Remember that women are emotional creatures by nature.
They are more in-tune with how they feel and therefore
more susceptible to their emotions.
What does this mean?
That women may immediately be attracted to a good
looking guy because he makes her FEEL GOOD right
away. But if that same good looking guy is mean,
or dumb, or turns her off in other ways and
makes her feel bad feelings, she may decide
she really isn't attracted to him at all.
Also, factor in that not all women are attracted
to the same type of guy. Just like all men aren't
attracted to the same type of women. Some women
may prefer short men, or men with long hair, or
fat men, etc.
It comes down to this: You don't know WHAT
physical type a woman is going to be attracted
to. So approach her anyway and find out
if you're the one.
www.withdrsly..com
Re: Can An Ugly Guy Date Beautiful Girls? Find Out: by Pweety4me(f): 3:41am On Apr 03, 2010
undecided
Re: Can An Ugly Guy Date Beautiful Girls? Find Out: by Nignog: 3:52am On Apr 03, 2010
Yes I no be ugly =see me pic in me profile= i get good yumyum woman all da time. oooooooooooooooooo
Re: Can An Ugly Guy Date Beautiful Girls? Find Out: by rascalo: 2:18pm On Apr 03, 2010
don't u know that ladies of nowadays don't want to know how ugly you are once you have your money they will run after you
Re: Can An Ugly Guy Date Beautiful Girls? Find Out: by Kelprince22(m): 4:41pm On Oct 24, 2013
Yes dats true am dating a very beautiful girl but am not dat handsome
Re: Can An Ugly Guy Date Beautiful Girls? Find Out: by Helpers: 7:25pm On Jul 08, 2014
Awkward silence- Sometimes talks with girls tend to get into an awkward silence where both parties do not know what to talk about. This is the worst situation you can ever be in with girls. The moment this starts happening in your talks most girls would most probably put you in the boring talker category and she would never think of you the same way.

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