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Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LoRdCaT(m): 11:51pm On Dec 24, 2017
olisehcom:

Lol..... It could only be you, you've always been a cat.
Lol. How are you and where are you?
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Curry30: 11:53pm On Dec 24, 2017
Too much feminine influence distorting your masculinity.

My advice:

1) drink beer daily

2) stop listening to feminine music

3) involve in masculine shhh...football (sports in general)

4) don't think about anything, don't give no fvck about anybody

5) I see you manning up
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by olisehcom(f): 11:54pm On Dec 24, 2017
LoRdCaT:
Lol. How are you and where are you?

Im fine, you know where I am wink , how about you? You left without a word angry
What have you been up to?
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by olisehcom(f): 11:57pm On Dec 24, 2017
jamariwolf:
nice Boobs there.

Errm, coming from a lady shocked, thank you.
But my boobs are properly covered cheesy...
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LoRdCaT(m): 11:58pm On Dec 24, 2017
olisehcom:

Im fine, you know where I am wink , how about you? You left without a word angry What have you been up to?
I am right where you are. wink You knew I was leaving na, did it ever seem like I was going to stay there?
What have I been up to? Read your signature and you have your answer.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 11:59pm On Dec 24, 2017
olisehcom:


Errm, coming from a lady shocked, thank you.
But my boobs are properly covered cheesy...
yeah. I know, jst complementing the shape. And no, I ain't gay smiley
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by olisehcom(f): 12:01am On Dec 25, 2017
LoRdCaT:
I am right where you are. wink
You knew I was leaving na, did it ever seem like I was going to stay there?

What have I been up to? Read your signature and you have your answer.

I never knew you were leaving, I just stopped seeing you around, tried reaching out, I couldn't, your crush even tried tongue..... And before you left you were one hell of an arrogant nigga.......
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LoRdCaT(m): 12:05am On Dec 25, 2017
olisehcom:


I never knew you were leaving, I just stopped seeing you around, tried reaching out, I couldn't, your crush even tried tongue..... And before you left you were one hell of an arrogant nigga.......
My crush? who is my crush?

I thought you knew, I mean the signs were there. How come you couldn't reach me?

Me, arrogant? gentle boy like me.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by olisehcom(f): 12:08am On Dec 25, 2017
jamariwolf:
yeah. I know, jst complementing the shape. And no,I ain't gay smiley

Alright thanks kiss

Thank God you ain't..... grin
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by HIScraziness(m): 12:08am On Dec 25, 2017
JESUSBOIY:
bro, i swear i did not decide to be like this, i grew up to find my self this way.

Why would i choose to behave and act feminine knowing the stigma that comes with it? embarassed

i have tried hard,yet no improvement.

Wish i had my way i would change me.

You're frustrated, can sense that.

Only thing u can do is to love yourself, u need to embrace who you're before depression sets in and bet me, that isn't good at all!! Keep your best friends close, those who love u, those who don't give a flying fvck if you're effeminate or whatever it is you're... Hitting the gym is nice too, that would further build ur self esteem but I bet if it's gonna remove the effeminate factor.

Merry Christmas bruh!!!
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by rewarder: 12:11am On Dec 25, 2017
My simple advice for u is to find a girl that behave like a man... That have all the manly attributes....




On a serious note. Your siblings are they all female?
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by olisehcom(f): 12:12am On Dec 25, 2017
LoRdCaT:
My crush? who is my crush?

I thought you knew, I mean the signs were there. How come you couldn't reach me?

Me, arrogant? gentle boy like me.

After the stunt you pulled when we helped you dig, no one really gave a hoot abt you, you isolated yourself.... And gave people d wrong impression abt you.



How about you inbox me your phone number on Fb, so you can tell me IN DETAILS what you've been up to undecided
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by olisehcom(f): 12:14am On Dec 25, 2017
LoRdCaT:
My crush? who is my crush?

I thought you knew, I mean the signs were there. How come you couldn't reach me?

Me, arrogant? gentle boy like me.

So you don't know your crush, she's still on NL o...... wink wink
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LoRdCaT(m): 12:16am On Dec 25, 2017
olisehcom:


So you don't know your crush, she's still on NL o...... wink wink
I don't oo, tell me now.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by godofuck231: 12:18am On Dec 25, 2017
JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart embarassed , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!

Go and get a cold bottle of orijin, drink it and listen to the elders when they discuss, ur brain go reset
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 12:20am On Dec 25, 2017
jaychubi:


U r a gay bastard
Gbam. you've said it all
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LoRdCaT(m): 12:21am On Dec 25, 2017
olisehcom:


After the stunt you pulled when we helped you dig, no one really gave a hoot abt you, you isolated yourself.... And gave people d wrong impression abt you.



How about you inbox me your phone number on Fb, so you can tell me IN DETAILS what you've been up to undecided
Which stunt did I pull? Do I have partial amnesia? why don't I remember all these things? Well you are right about me isolating myself, I really needed to be left alone during that period so I did my best to annoy everyone so they can just leave me alone. Not just you guys, EVERYONE. I didn't care about the wrong impression then, still don't care now cheesy



I'll send the details.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by olisehcom(f): 12:21am On Dec 25, 2017
LoRdCaT:
My crush? who is my crush?

I thought you knew, I mean the signs were there. How come you couldn't reach me?

Me, arrogant? gentle boy like me.

So you don't know your crush, she's still on NL o...... wink wink
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by olisehcom(f): 12:24am On Dec 25, 2017
LoRdCaT:
Which stunt did I pull? Do I have partial amnesia? why don't I remember all these things? Well you are right about me isolating myself, I really needed to be left alone during that period so I did my best to annoy everyone so they can just leave me alone. Not just you guys, EVERYONE. I didn't care about the wrong impression then, still don't care now cheesy



I'll send the details.

So you're still as arrogant as ever?.......


Alright, we'll talk better on phone......
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by olisehcom(f): 12:26am On Dec 25, 2017
LoRdCaT:
I don't oo, tell me now.


lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LoRdCaT(m): 12:30am On Dec 25, 2017
olisehcom:


So you're still as arrogant as ever?.......


Alright, we'll talk better on phone......
Which stunt did I pull?
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LoRdCaT(m): 12:31am On Dec 25, 2017
olisehcom:


lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Tell me her name.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by olisehcom(f): 12:35am On Dec 25, 2017
LoRdCaT:
Tell me her name.


You know already. You even used her name as you ATM pin....... wink wink
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LoRdCaT(m): 12:38am On Dec 25, 2017
olisehcom:



You know already. You even used her name as you ATM pin....... wink wink
Hahaha, you are funny, I never crushed on gift oo. who ever told you she was my crush needs to have his/her brain checked. I liked her as a friend, nothing more. . delete the number when quoting me so I can modify after you get it. No need for fb
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Texty: 12:44am On Dec 25, 2017
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Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by olisehcom(f): 12:49am On Dec 25, 2017
LoRdCaT:
Hahaha, you are funny, I never crushed on gift oo. who ever told you she was my crush needs to have his/her brain checked. I liked her as a friend, nothing more.. delete the number when quoting me so I can modify after you get it. No need for fb

Tell me something I don't know tongue tongue
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LoRdCaT(m): 12:51am On Dec 25, 2017
olisehcom:


Tell me something I don't know tongue tongue
If I tell you the girl I crushed on and still crush on, you wouldn't believe mewink I really didn't crush on gift, she thought I was crushing on her?
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by UnimkeAk(m): 12:54am On Dec 25, 2017
JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart embarassed , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!

If u have effiminate gestures like letting ur hands fall at 90 degrees, make a conscious effort to stop.
Dont just hit the gym b4 u start looking like a gayasss bouncer.
If u sound like a female , stop speaking that way, change ur syllables

And u have to hang out wit guys, u in this mess because as a kid u didnt hang out wit guys, all the fighting, roaming arnd the hood would hv madeu hard.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by olisehcom(f): 1:45am On Dec 25, 2017
LoRdCaT:
If I tell you the girl I crushed on and still crush on, you wouldn't believe mewink I really didn't crush on gift, she thought I was crushing on her?

I knew so..................... And deep down you know too tongue
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by SHOCK7(m): 1:45am On Dec 25, 2017
olisehcom:



Are you sure you're straight??, ever thought of being gay? wink forget the criticism






Just Kidding lipsrsealed
hello
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by SHOCK7(m): 1:59am On Dec 25, 2017
JESUSBOIY:
this is exactly why i don't talk to my people about this.

Look, i have started barbing skull, because an uncle of mind said that only gay people keep afro.

I am now careful about the colours of cloth i wear, cos some one said pink and yellow etc are for homosexuals .

When i walk or run, i try to raise my shoulders up to look more manly.

Its frustrating that i am trying hard to behave and act most of the things that comes to men naturally .

I can't walk infront of guys cos they will make fun, i can't even sweep or wash cloths around them cos of their mockery.

But please am straight, i am sexually attracted to only women. Thanks embarassed lalasticlala
young man let me be your mentor,first get � by learning a skill & be good at it,trust me when you made u won't have problems getting chicks. Then like everyone says "HIT THE GYM"
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by SirBunky85(m): 2:19am On Dec 25, 2017
why are u even worried abt what people think abt you? Abeg be urself and forget anyone's opinion abt u

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