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Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by Newboss(m): 10:23pm On Jan 01, 2018
MhizzAJ:
Instead of the husband to teach her he decided to use that time to tell you about his bedroom activities
Some men sef
***
Why is the husband complaining
Every man wants a virgin wife these days nah
Minus me! angry

I don't even want a wife at all sef! angry
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by Nobody: 10:26pm On Jan 01, 2018
To all you advocated of marriage before sex, YOU ARE HYPOCRITES?

Y'all are telling men to teach virgin ladies.

Where did the men learn the art from?

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Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by OyeBay: 10:27pm On Jan 01, 2018
The husband should just sit her down and mould her to his taste!
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by CaptainG00D: 10:33pm On Jan 01, 2018
sekxy:

gbachi ya nkiti,,makana ekweghim ka onaram nòmba m,,mburuzie onye adigboroja..hahaha
kedu ka imere??

Adigboroja... grin grin grin. (Ezigbo ada ka ibu)

Adim mma nwanyi oma.. imere nke oma biko.
Ohugo na future gi di bright ya ka ona acho inapu gi.. chukwu kpoo ya oku.

I swaer ihe ogwu ego ahu dizi too much diz days.
Eziokwu ahujuom anya nujuo nti.

Odi very real...Hana ejizi destiny umunwayi eme ogwu ego.
Otutu umunwayi hav been used but ha amaghi.. ana ako ya odika film.. biko kpachara anya my dear anywhere u dey.
Some bu jst date agreement... mana onye ahu jee ha enye ya ogwu ula... buru ya baa nime ulo mee ihe ha cho eme hapu ha puo.

biko nnem Ha sigodi 1million si ha mba... maka na ihe ha na ahu nime gi kariri 1millionkiss

Hope u are good dear? smiley
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by nuggarito: 10:34pm On Jan 01, 2018
Some men are not just patient enough to understand what people are.The husband in question is the luckiest man on earth, I'm dating such lady , all he needs to do is be soo close to her, when I mean close I mean joke, fool around with her, watch porn together, let her feel very free with him once she is too free with you, be her beginning and her end and the story will change, you will see her true colors, like I said it takes a lot of patience and understanding. My POV

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Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by Teeeecash(m): 10:40pm On Jan 01, 2018
MhizzAJ:
I dunno I'm a Vlipsrsealed
u mean V for vegetarian ?
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by vislabraye(m): 10:41pm On Jan 01, 2018
MhizzAJ:
Instead of the husband to teach her he decided to use that time to tell you about his bedroom activities
Some men sef
***
Why is the husband complaining
Every man wants a virgin wife these days nah

As long as he's a trustworthy friend. Afterall, people tell their stories to pastors.
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by diluewunmi: 10:47pm On Jan 01, 2018
Tocheagle:
Maybe her husband looks like this guy

Hahahshshz. U no nice o
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by RealMillennial(m): 10:47pm On Jan 01, 2018
ubunja:
God i love virgins!!!
but virgins are not for everyone.
virgins are for guys like me who can train a prude into a hoe.a virgin is like a lump of clay you can mould into anything you want; pot, bowl, etc. you cant sit back and expect the clay to mould itself.Train your Virgin. teach her how to please you. break down her walls of shyness and timidness. work on her to bring out her inner slut in all its blinding glory.

Guy you slay!
From 'safe mode' to wild.
Takes time though n a lot of patience, if at all d student is teachable.
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by halexito(m): 10:48pm On Jan 01, 2018
MhizzAJ:
I dunno I'm a Vlipsrsealed
p V as in 'Vagabond '?........lol No kill me, na joke o
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by kachdviruz(m): 10:57pm On Jan 01, 2018
shot for you
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by unbitchable(m): 10:57pm On Jan 01, 2018
sisisioge:
grin grin grin

She should take on the habit of wearing her birthday suit any time she wants it. Abi start by kissing him, offering a lap dance, offering to buestfeed him...etc. How hard can this thing be o jare grin
Oshey maami, gbesunmo, gbogbo ere, no time. Maami wey no dey dull.
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by mikool007(m): 11:55pm On Jan 01, 2018
Tocheagle:
Maybe her husband looks like this guy
where did you evn get this picture from
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by Nobody: 12:09am On Jan 02, 2018
Yeah right, your friend indeed. grin

Stylish post.
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by Jungpablo: 12:14am On Jan 02, 2018
gistsky:
Hello people.
This is a friend issue right now. She got married recently and things are going on well. She was a virgin till her wedding night. She has no good social life. Her husband of a recent started complaining abt her not initiating the play. She actually enjoys it but finds it almost impossible to ask for it.
How does she start please? One of the husband's new year resolutions is that if one doesnt ask then nothing should be given.
I need your sincere and creative response.
God bless you.


what a new year resolution the man is foolish instead of him to help his novice wife he is busy making stupid resolutions
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by Eaugusta(f): 12:49am On Jan 02, 2018
OgahBohz:
There is something, most guyz don't understand, you cannot expect a girl who has had sex jst twice or the times to act same way with a laidy who's lost count .... talk more of A VIRGIN ! ...cmon they guy should be patient enough, he should talk to her , if he wants her to ask let him show her how to ask, u CNT expect her to jst say hey boo, I want sex ..cmon .. the guy should teach her basic tinz like handling, soft talks, etc ... he should study her nd what she finds easy to do, nd use that as a point of contact ...



THE GUY SHOULD BE PATIENT ...! PLS
I RESPECT VIRGINS ALOT
.. I know nairaland girls will try make mockery of her ....awon Olosho oshodi
....

and you think you can't find a virgin in nland
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by 9ja083: 12:52am On Jan 02, 2018
She reminds me of myself. Well, she should end the shyness step by step and approach her husband gently. Her husband should also play alone. Its two ppl's work. Na her husband na! No bi boyfriend.
The earlier She learns that, the better for her. Or else, the spirit of conji will send her husband outside. One thing leads to the other and next thing will be...... he MARRIED A VIRGIN AND CHEATED ON HER. embarassed
She should remember that they are legally married.
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by Awoo88: 1:32am On Jan 02, 2018
The husband Na fat idiot
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by 1Sharon(f): 2:31am On Jan 02, 2018
AheadMarket:
To all you advocated of marriage before sex, YOU ARE HYPOCRITES?

Y'all are telling men to teach virgin ladies.

Where did the men learn the art from?

This !
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by Nobody: 2:38am On Jan 02, 2018
CaptainG00D:


Adigboroja... grin grin grin. (Ezigbo ada ka ibu)

Adim mma nwanyi oma.. imere nke oma biko.
Ohugo na future gi di bright ya ka ona acho inapu gi.. chukwu kpoo ya oku.

I swaer ihe ogwu ego ahu dizi too much diz days.
Eziokwu ahujuom anya nujuo nti.

Odi very real...Hana ejizi destiny umunwayi eme ogwu ego.
Otutu umunwayi hav been used but ha amaghi.. ana ako ya odika film.. biko kpachara anya my dear anywhere u dey.
Some bu jst date agreement... mana onye ahu jee ha enye ya ogwu ula... buru ya baa nime ulo mee ihe ha cho eme hapu ha puo.

biko nnem Ha sigodi 1million si ha mba... maka na ihe ha na ahu nime gi kariri 1millionkiss

Hope u are good dear? smiley
daalu nke oma smiley


I'm fine and you?

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Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by Nobody: 2:41am On Jan 02, 2018
She should just open up and let nature take its course...open ye ya gates
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by Nobody: 3:13am On Jan 02, 2018
gistsky:
Hello people.
This is a friend issue right now. She got married recently and things are going on well. She was a virgin till her wedding night. She has no good social life. Her husband of a recent started complaining abt her not initiating the play. She actually enjoys it but finds it almost impossible to ask for it.
How does she start please? One of the husband's new year resolutions is that if one doesnt ask then nothing should be given.
I need your sincere and creative response.
God bless you.
Must she ask? He should teach her how to do it instead of coming up with new year resolution of "asking and receiving". With time the shyness will die or does he prefer she change to something else and later regret why he forced her?
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by Nobody: 3:15am On Jan 02, 2018
hertz9te:
blue film
Blue film isn't advisable. What they do there are fake so it's advisable it comes natural moreover they are couple
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by CaptainG00D: 4:00am On Jan 02, 2018
sekxy:

daalu nke oma smiley
I'm fine and you?

Yea dear m gud.. too.

Hope onweghi onye na enye gi nsogbu offline cheesy

They better keep off my butterfly oh
Before m wee iwe.. lol
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by Nobody: 4:03am On Jan 02, 2018
CaptainG00D:

Yea dear m gud.. too.
Hope onweghi onye na enye gi nsogbu offline cheesy
They better keep off my butterfly oh Before m wee iwe.. lol
cha cha cheesy

goodmorning dear
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by CaptainG00D: 4:06am On Jan 02, 2018
sekxy:

cha cha cheesy
goodmorning dear


Ok bby.. cheesy.

Morning dearie u still awake?
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by Nobody: 4:13am On Jan 02, 2018
CaptainG00D:


Ok bby.. cheesy.
Morning dearie u still awake?
yes ofcourse
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by ImperialYoruba: 4:36am On Jan 02, 2018
@topic

Heelooo, guys are on standby to wean the shyness out of her and put her in position to be sexually aggressive in bedroom. Thats not a big task at all. grin
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by queenfav(f): 4:55am On Jan 02, 2018
She doesn't need to ask with words. Let her just wear something sexy gstring and nice bra, seductively walk up to her hubby and start kissing him.The rest is history! She has to get wild for her husband, them no dey do good girl for marriage knacks! D man has paid, let her learn to ask for it. It even turns a man on knowing he is wanted by his wife. She has to be spontaneous, there is no point being shy around a man that has married you.

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Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by Mrkumareze(m): 5:15am On Jan 02, 2018
Very boring
I have the experience and it's not what you can understand until you become a victim. The taste of sex is the reciprocate you get from your partner but when she doesn't respond or even complain it's giving her pains, oh boy u 'll become weak and never wished to initiate it nezt time.
Someone up there said something about adult film; well, you ought to know some are going for diverance to quite their habbit of watching porns so you dont expext a wise man to get sucj into his own growing family.
Re: She Is Too Shy To Initiate Lovemaking With Her Husband by supereagle(m): 5:50am On Jan 02, 2018
gistsky:
Hello people.
This is a friend issue right now. She got married recently and things are going on well. She was a virgin till her wedding night. She has no good social life. Her husband of a recent started complaining abt her not initiating the play. She actually enjoys it but finds it almost impossible to ask for it.
How does she start please? One of the husband's new year resolutions is that if one doesnt ask then nothing should be given.
I need your sincere and creative response.
God bless you.

The husband should show understanding. He should understand her background. As for initiating , it is simple. She should start by caressing or cuddling the husband tightly , kissing him. I hope the the husband wont start denying that she is not in the mood. Dirty talk during love making can do the magic as well. Learn the way here.
http://badgirlsbible.com/dirty-talk-phrases

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