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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by jaxxy(m): 3:39pm On Jan 03
For a lady with a baby i like her stature. Nice words
Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by ehix89(m): 3:50pm On Jan 03
The struggle continues, she is Adopting a new strategy since the previous one failed her. Goodluck in her hustle.

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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by Espada10: 3:50pm On Jan 03
Drama queen is written all over her...dating her may be fun though but marriage ..no no no count me out... believe me, single mothers are good for having fun ..they will do anything for you at that initial stage.. sex is the bomb with them..any style you want they will give it to you. they will cook and make you feel like a king....they are desperate like that but once you became stupid enough to marry her then OYO is your case...you will be watching your life going down like in a thermometer tube. You won't even know what hit you and how it hit you. All the thing she use to do for you will stop and her true colour will begin to show.Single mothers and oloshos are the worst set of women you can wife.

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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by gloria34(f): 3:56pm On Jan 03
i'm sure single mothers can relate with this but taking down her pictures? that was too much. well, glad u retraced ur steps. just b patient
Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by chasom(m): 4:01pm On Jan 03
Having affair wit single mother is so complicated trust nija slay mama she gonna make sure u take fully responsible of d baby in d name of luv
Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by dollynnn(f): 4:22pm On Jan 03
by the way, who asked her to be a single mom ? lol guess that was what 5mins enjoyment caused.... Shioor!

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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by lefulefu(m): 4:27pm On Jan 03
shaybebaby:

Funny how that isn't so in my case though. Depends on the players in the situation.
lol shaybebaby conditions overseas on the issues of divorce,child adoption is clear cut unlike Nigeria. In Nigeria a single mom separated from the father of the child is not actually separated cos these men are always involved in their lives. If they have a boyfriend the father of their child sometimes harrases them .many of these men are quite jealous and they won't take it lightly when another man is dating an ex that had a child for them. There are lot of baggages involved here.
Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by shaybebaby(f): 4:41pm On Jan 03
lefulefu:
lol shaybebaby conditions overseas on the issues of divorce,child adoption is clear cut unlike Nigeria. In Nigeria a single mom separated from the father of the child is not actually separated cos these men are always involved in their lives. If they have a boyfriend the father of their child sometimes harrases them .many of these men are quite jealous and they won't take it lightly when another man is dating an ex that had a child for them. There are lot of baggages involved here.
Happens here as well. Besides, what makes you think the father of the child is interested in the mom's personal life. Quite often, he has moved and is otherwise occupied with his new squeeze.
Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by lefulefu(m): 4:54pm On Jan 03
shaybebaby:

Happens here as well. Besides, what makes you think the father of the child is interested in the mom's personal life. Quite often, he has moved and is otherwise occupied with his new squeeze.
even if he has a new squeeze he will hardly move on as long as his child is with the mom.Anyway its left for the new man to accept if he's will be able to resist the pressure he's going to get from the father of the child.
Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by shaybebaby(f): 4:57pm On Jan 03
lefulefu:
even if he has a new squeeze he will hardly move on as long as his child is with the mom.
Well, I did say it depends on the players. Both male and female and how mature they are. If they both have the best interest of their children at heart, none of the issues you tabled would be a problem.

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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by Enemyofpeace: 5:05pm On Jan 03
DreamChaser2000:
I won't mind dating her.
with that your three months old baby prick

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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by Brightgem(f): 5:08pm On Jan 03
humilitypays:
So real men are men ready to carry someone else baggage

So those who don't like embarking on journey they will later regret are not real men ba

I am sure your dad didn't marry your mom a single mother, and I am sure none of your married brothers did,which means your dad is not a real man lol

Ladies and their wacked definition of real men; any man that's taking ladies bullshit and answering yes yes to their nonsense is a real man, a word they use to manipulate feeble and faint hearted men, it no longer work in 2018 lol‎
Much as you have your point, that isn't what she meant, she isnt limiting only men who will accept her as real men but that the more real she is, the more likely to attract genuine men, and yes some men cannot handle this, they have a choice not to, we all hav a choice what we can accept. Bottom line is women shd be careful, as they are the ones who carry evidence that sex happened and society will not be Merciful.

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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by Mccullum: 5:15pm On Jan 03
Ha... what a pity, hmm she can Leann on me, I'm available.
Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jan 03
dollynnn:
by the way, who asked her to be a single mom ? lol guess that was what 5mins enjoyment caused.... Shioor!



That's what u think.

But it's not 5mins enjoyment. Her bf may have convinced her to get pregnant saying he will marry her.
Foolishly she got pregnant and viola! He disappears.

Some men are that wicked.

And she despise abortion, so she kept the beautiful baby.

Ladies stop listening to any bf that says u should get pregnant first. Cause such risk is very very risky. He can bail out at any given fucvking time!
Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by dollynnn(f): 5:26pm On Jan 03
alexialin:




That's what u think.

But it's not 5mins enjoyment. Her bf may have convinced her to get pregnant saying he will marry her.
Foolishly she got pregnant and viola! He disappears.

Some men are that wicked.

And she despise abortion, so she kept the beautiful baby.

Ladies stop listening to any bf that says u should get pregnant first. Cause such risk is very very risky. He can bail out at any given ducking time!

abegi! if she had steered clear off pre marital sex, this wouldn't have happened

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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jan 03
dollynnn:
abegi! if she had steer clear off pre marital sex, this wouldn't have happened




That's also true.

But not all who steered out of premarital sexx are married.

And not everyone can hold body till thy kingdom comes.

Common sense should have made her reject such offer.
Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by od4life: 5:43pm On Jan 03
humilitypays:
All over the world, men are usually scared of marrying a single mom...unless the single mom is very very attractive and rich, if not, she may never find a husband that will stick around for long.

This is one reason ladies must be very careful of taking in for a guy not ready to settle down with them.

Believe me, if Genevieve Nnaji didn't have a baby, she would have been married for long....

Single mothers usually have lots of emotional, material, financial and psychological baggage that scare most men away.

Only divorced men, widowers and gigolos go for single moms, sadly that's how bad the world is.

This lady should focus on looking more attractive in real life not just on IG pictures and should strive to make plenty money to attract some guys that will be ready to marry her if not... lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
What you just posted is trash. Imagine a young lady gets married, has kids & loses her husband to death. Now would you now say because she has kids, she's ineligible for marriage again or men wouldn't like to marry her? I've seen men marry such ladies without any qualms whatsoever. In fact one of such men was even a pastor that married a single mum. My then neighbor married a single mum who had a daughter. The lady's daughter even lives with them.
Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by humilitypays(m): 6:00pm On Jan 03
od4life:

What you just posted is trash. Imagine a young lady gets married, has kids & loses her husband to death. Now would you now say because she has kids, she's ineligible for marriage again or men wouldn't like to marry her? I've seen men marry such ladies without any qualms whatsoever. In fact one of such men was even a pastor that married a single mum. My then neighbor married a single mum who had a daughter. The lady's daughter even lives with them.
Bros, I am not here to be kind in words to make some people feel good, I am here to tell you the absolute truth of what's happening in real life not what we wished is happening.

Many young ladies who lost their husbands to the cold hand of death rarely get remarried again. Its very very difficult for single ladies talk more of single mothers in today world that majority of men are becoming so scared of marriage.

The few single mothers who lost their husbands to death that later get married again are usually very pretty, attractive and rich (either by their husbands wealth inheritance or their parents or their own money).

Do you know how many young single mothers who lost their husbands and are still single and yet to find a man to settle down with They are thousands if not millions.

Yes the world and nature isn't so kind to women in many aspect of life, but who do we blame cry cry

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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by CioAngels(f): 6:08pm On Jan 03
Divay22:
This will only get real men to admire her and go for her smileyand not those fu*ck boys..
Gabriella pls forgive mummy kiss kiss She loves you.

Such a cutie she is.. Thank goodness you came back
Thank God she realise her baby is, after God. Toro, nobody can take the place of your child, just know that. The man that will come should love your baby first before you.

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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by humilitypays(m): 6:09pm On Jan 03
Brightgem:
Much as you have your point, that isn't what she meant, she isnt limiting only men who will accept her as real men but that the more real she is, the more likely to attract genuine men, and yes some men cannot handle this, they have a choice not to, we all hav a choice what we can accept. Bottom line is women shd be careful, as they are the ones who carry evidence that sex happened and society will not be Merciful.
lol, I love women the way they cajole some gullible men into doing their bidding by calling them "real men" lol cheesy

Any man that's ready to marry a single mom with plenty baggage is a real man to ladies lol

Any man who allows his woman do anything she likes and get away is a real man to ladies lol

Any man who supports every bulshit ladies do is a real man to ladies

Any man ready to pamper women no matter their flaws without cautioning them, ladies call him real man and their head swell up grin

The bottom line is, marrying a single mom as a guy is a choice based on value placed on the lady in question, nothing more but unfortunately, majority of men all over the world avoid getting married to a single mom, even Oyimbo men no like am.

They only do it if the single mom is rich and probably have plenty financial and business, political connections to offer to them, sadly that's how the world is.

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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by od4life: 6:18pm On Jan 03
humilitypays:
Bros, I am not here to be kind in words to make some people feel good, I am here to tell you the absolute truth of what's happening in real life not what we wished is happening.

Many young ladies who lost their husbands to the cold hand of death rarely get remarried again. Its very very difficult for single ladies talk more of single mothers in today world that majority of men are becoming so scared of marriage.

The few single mothers who lost their husbands to death that later get married again are usually very pretty, attractive and rich (either by their husbands wealth inheritance or their parents or their own money).

Do you know how many young single mothers who lost their husbands and are still single and yet to find a man to settle down with They are thousands if not millions.

Yes the world and nature isn't so kind to women in many aspect of life, but who do we blame cry cry
And I gave you instances of single mums or widows I know personally that got married or remarried. And for your information those ladies were normal ladies (not rich ladies). You better change this your warped mindset about single mums & remarriage. In Delta State where I'm from single mum dey marry well...unless the lady has a bad character or is unproductive.
Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by humilitypays(m): 6:19pm On Jan 03
CioAngels:
Thank God she realise her baby is, after God. Toro, nobody can take the place of your child, just know that. The man that will come should love your baby first before you.
Your last statement which I bolded is one of the so many reasons men run away from single moms. You can imagine the expectation; what if the man loves the single mom and not ready to love the child, u don't blame him cos nobody can force u to love who u don't wanna love.

Getting married to a single mom requires lots of effort that a man born in this time of our generation that men are faced with various life challenges wouldn't want to try.

I think if I had my way, its to make it compulsory that if a man impregnates his known girlfriend known by everyone, he must marry her.

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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by humilitypays(m): 6:26pm On Jan 03
od4life:

And I gave you instances of single mums or widows I know personally that got married or remarried. And for your information those ladies were normal ladies (not rich ladies). You better change this your warped mindset about single mums & remarriage. In Delta State where I'm from single mum dey marry well...unless the lady has a bad character or is unproductive.
oh nice to hear that some men are really taking on that task; I doff my hat for them.

But the truth remains, in reality, if we are to be real, u and I know that majority of men all over the world don't like to marry single moms unless the man himself is a single dad or widowed or over aged, get real bro.

Even ladies here won't agree if their young, never married brother brings a single mom home as his wife to be, let's get real for once and stop telling people what they want to hear just to make them feel good
Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by od4life: 6:37pm On Jan 03
humilitypays:
oh nice to hear that some men are really taking on that task; I doff my hat for them.

But the truth remains, in reality, if we are to be real, u and I know that majority of men all over the world don't like to marry single moms unless the man himself is a single dad or widowed or over aged, get real bro.

Even ladies here won't agree if their young, never married brother brings a single mom home as his wife to be, let's get real for once and stop telling people what they want to hear just to make them feel good
Stories I'm telling you is not to make anyone feel good. My then neighbor (a young guy) got married to a single mum. He didn't have any child & the lady wasn't rich. That you've not come across such instances doesn't mean it doesn't happen. A pastor who used to live with us in the 1980's in Lagos got married to a single mum.
Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by Nobody: 7:18pm On Jan 03
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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by Blade50002: 7:43pm On Jan 03
Men who marry chicks with kids are referred to as SIMPS in America. Stupid( Stupid Pimping) Over Mediocre Pussy!

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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by Fourwinds: 7:56pm On Jan 03
Divay22:

Pls don't judge them, you don't know the pains and stigma they go through, because of criticism...

Guys will see these ones and call them promiscuous, just because they decide not to kill the baby but bring them into this world ,cause they deserve to live but will hail the ones that commit abortion.

Now tell me who is more promiscuous, who deserves to be shamed..
listen young lady ...those women who eventually give birth outside wedlock are also guilty of committing abortion... don't forget I'm a living thing and I live in this world...so I have witnessed these things...majority of those who later give birth outside wedlock once committed abortion at one time or the other...it is only few that are exempted from these lists...don't paint them as if they are holy and did the right thing...many knew the consequence of engaging in illicit sex...nonsense again

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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by Fourwinds: 8:10pm On Jan 03
Brightgem:
Much as you have your point, that isn't what she meant, she isnt limiting only men who will accept her as real men but that the more real she is, the more likely to attract genuine men, and yes some men cannot handle this, they have a choice not to, we all hav a choice what we can accept. Bottom line is women shd be careful, as they are the ones who carry evidence that sex happened and society will not be Merciful.
now you are talking reasonable things...when we warn you girls about all these things some of take it as competition.... in this world how can a man and a woman be competing they way man and woman were made is different with different responsibilities... they say .....those who have ears let them hear, what the spirit is saying....INFINITY
Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by Fourwinds: 8:16pm On Jan 03
ehix89:
The struggle continues, she is Adopting a new strategy since the previous one failed her. Goodluck in her hustle.

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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by Fourwinds: 8:26pm On Jan 03
graphiti:


With this comment I think ds thread shd be closed RIGHT NOW!
You have said it all!
The one u marry as a virgin sef na palava talkless of....
Moreover, the baby 'dadda' angle hasn't bn touched o.
If u can't match up to him in bed u are in 'soup'.
Also, remember Okafor's law: "A kongo once 'shined' can always be reshined at will"



hmmmm...that Okafor law!!! let me bookmark this
Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by Fourwinds: 8:36pm On Jan 03
Peacefullove:


You have sense. Very true ... I will commend single mums any day anytime over Those who did abortions .

of course, If am asked to choose between the two, I will prefer a single mum over a Murderer .





listen young man..those women who eventually give birth outside wedlock are also guilty of committing abortion... don't forget I'm a living thing and I live in this world...so I have witnessed these things...majority of those who later give birth outside wedlock once committed abortion at one time or the other...it is only few that are exempted from these lists...don't paint them as if they are holy and did the right thing...many knew the consequence of engaging in illicit sex...nonsense again

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Re: Adetoro Adeyemi, Single Mother Deleted Her Child's Pics While Searching For Love by lereinter(m): 10:20pm On Jan 03
DreamChaser2000:
I won't mind dating her.

yu mean f.vcking her

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