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I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 5:09pm On Jan 03
I decided to drop this here. I had casual sex with Abigail(not real name) for some months before we stopped seeing each other.
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Fastforward to now, and i met Ada(not real name), was deeply in love with her and now wants to marry her. Problem is, her sister is Abigail. We've not done formal introduction yet, Abigail doesn't seem happy, and i already told her she was a part of my past, but she still seems unhappy.
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I really love Ada and want her for a wife, but what problems could Ada pose to the marriage?
MATURED ADVICE PLS.
Lalasticlala, mynd44.
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 5:10pm On Jan 03
Space booked
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Tosinex(m): 5:13pm On Jan 03
Reallyyyyyyyyyyyyy... grin
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Exceptionalgod(f): 5:15pm On Jan 03
I ll advice u tell Ada what transpired between u and Abigail and convince her that its ur past and can never happen again... if she truly loves u, she ll accept it and continue with u.. but never allow Abigail to seduce u... never grow love for Abigail again... wish u best of luck

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Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by greatnaija01: 5:16pm On Jan 03
HAVE YOU TOLD ADA? or she is ignorant about your past.

entering marriage with secrets like this may cause issues later o,

I am also not saying you should go into detail but you could have discussed this passively when you met Ada knowing she was a sister to the lady you slept with. its polite to make it known that you were once close else you may cause a rift in the family and ADA would be the victim.

Since you love her, let her know you met her sister first and also, try an get on Abigail's good side else you will come to know that HELL HAS NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED... Ladies like abigail may be vengeful and you do not know how far they will take it just to cause you the pain they are currently feeling.

JayIlych:
I decided to drop this here. I had casual sex with Abigail(not real name) for some months before we stopped seeing each other.
.
Fastforward to now, and i met Ada(not real name), was deeply in love with her and now wants to marry her. Problem is, her sister is Abigail. We've not done formal introduction yet, Abigail doesn't seem happy, and i already told her she was a part of my past, but she still seems unhappy.
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I really love Ada and want her for a wife, but what problems could Ada pose to the marriage?
MATURED ADVICE PLS.
Lalasticlala, mynd44.
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by dingbang(m): 5:18pm On Jan 03
U shouldn't tell Ada..


I insist you settle with Abigail first before the wedding
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by valgbo(m): 5:22pm On Jan 03
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Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by AryEmber(f): 5:23pm On Jan 03
You have entered one chance my brother! Well sha, listen to the advice of the people above me.
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Sage7(m): 5:25pm On Jan 03
Be sure not to let the father hear this.

But you wicked, sleeping with sisters and now you want to separate them.

If you don't tell Ada, you might think you are the smart one....even if you tell Ada and she still wants to marry you...something bigger than you is bound to happen and you will be at the receiving end!

Be guided!

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Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by AryEmber(f): 5:27pm On Jan 03
dingbang:
U shouldn't tell Ada..


I insist you settle with Abigail first before the wedding
Settle what exactly? Don't listen to this dude Op! Secrets destroys like fire!
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 5:43pm On Jan 03
greatnaija01:
HAVE YOU TOLD ADA? or she is ignorant about your past.

entering marriage with secrets like this may cause issues later o,

I am also not saying you should go into detail but you could have discussed this passively when you met Ada knowing she was a sister to the lady you slept with. its polite to make it known that you were once close else you may cause a rift in the family and ADA would be the victim.

Since you love her, let her know you met her sister first and also, try an get on Abigail's good side else you will come to know that HELL HAS NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED... Ladies like abigail may be vengeful and you do not know how far they will take it just to cause you the pain they are currently feeling.


BRO, HOW DO I TELL ADA? IT MIGHT CAUSE PROBLEMS WITH HER SISTER(EVEN THO WE WERE NOT DATING THEN) AND THE MARRIAGE. EVERYONE HAS A PAST, I'M JUST HOPING ABIGAIL WOULD UNDERSTAND THIS. sad.
THANKS FOR YOUR INPUT.
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 5:47pm On Jan 03
abokibuhari:
Mumu form story come book space for first to comment



If you don't have anything to contribute, don't insult me pls. Nobody knows who's who beyond this platform. Be warned
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 5:49pm On Jan 03
Exceptionalgod:
I ll advice u tell Ada what transpired between u and Abigail and convince her that its ur past and can never happen again... if she truly loves u, she ll accept it and continue with u.. but never allow Abigail to seduce u... never grow love for Abigail again... wish u best of luck
If i tell ada, she'll never trust me around her sis. She'll always wonder if i'm straffing abigail behind her back.
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 5:51pm On Jan 03
dingbang:
U shouldn't tell Ada..

I insist you settle with Abigail first before the wedding
How do i settle with her? What steps do you recommend?
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by LessNoise: 5:52pm On Jan 03
This is for OP

Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 5:53pm On Jan 03
Sage7:
Be sure not to let the father hear this.

But you wicked, sleeping with sisters and now you want to separate them.

If you don't tell Ada, you might think you are the smart one....even if you tell Ada and she still wants to marry you...something bigger than you is bound to happen and you will be at the receiving end!

Be guided!

OGA, PLEASE I NEED GUIDE, THAT'S WHY I POSTED IT ON THIS FORUM
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 5:54pm On Jan 03
JayIlych:

If you don't have anything to contribute, don't insult me pls. Nobody knows who's who beyond this platform. Be warned
Tell your wife to be. Just come clean so Abigail won't have a blackmailing chip.
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 5:56pm On Jan 03
AryEmber:
Settle what exactly? Don't listen to this dude Op! Secrets destroys like fire!
PLEASE TRY AND PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES, WHICH OPTION WOULD BE LESS DAMAGING?
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 5:59pm On Jan 03
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Tell your wife to be. Just come clean so Abigail won't have a blackmailing chip.
THANKS. THIS WAS HELPFUL.
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by babyfaceafrica: 6:02pm On Jan 03
Lies
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by AryEmber(f): 6:17pm On Jan 03
JayIlych:

PLEASE TRY AND PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES, WHICH OPTION WOULD BE LESS DAMAGING?
In which of the sister's shoe to be precise?
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 6:27pm On Jan 03
AryEmber:
In which of the sister's shoe to be precise?
Ada. She's the one i want to marry. Everything revolves around her
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 6:29pm On Jan 03
Lalasticlala, please move this to fp for more feedback. Thanks.
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nelly21: 6:30pm On Jan 03
From your write up it's obvious you knew they are sisters before you went after Ada...Why would you do something like that when you know it is sure to lead to strife between the two of them? I mean there are other girls why go for her sister in particular? I don't doubt that you may truly love the girl but if she ends up with you there will always be a coldness between the siblings unless Abigail gets married too
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Nobody: 6:31pm On Jan 03
JayIlych:
Space booked
you must be joking
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by dingbang(m): 6:43pm On Jan 03
JayIlych:

How do i settle with her? What steps do you recommend?
invite her for a date, bring d topic up for discussion, insist u wana marry her sis and if she were a good person, she wouldn't do anything to hurt her sis. Ask her what she wants... If she says she can't deal then you threaten her that u will tell her sis everything dat aspired BTW u two and its Gona be her loss if she doesn't grow up and act like an adult.
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 6:55pm On Jan 03
dingbang:
invite her for a date, bring d topic up for discussion, insist u wana marry her sis and if she were a good person, she wouldn't do anything to hurt her sis. Ask her what she wants... If she says she can't deal then you threaten her that u will tell her sis everything dat aspired BTW u two and its Gona be her loss if she doesn't grow up and act like an adult.
I'm afraid i'll be the one to lose. I hope she even agrees to the date and sees reason. So i shouldn't tell ada, right?
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by xlander(m): 7:01pm On Jan 03
Continue to bleep them both
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by AryEmber(f): 7:05pm On Jan 03
JayIlych:

Ada. She's the one i want to marry. Everything revolves around her
What's there to feel bothered about? As an human, I may be worried for a while but as long as you're the one who told me and I didn't hear it from outside, I would count her as your past. Is she a virgin? What if she has screwed a friend of yours before nko?
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by Gofwane(m): 7:20pm On Jan 03
JayIlych:
I decide
I really love Ada and want her for a wife, but what problems could ADA pose to the marriage?
MATURED ADVICE PLS.
Lalasticlala, mynd44.
@Bolded, you meant ABIGAIL. Right??
Re: I've Had Casual Sex With Her Sister Before We Dated. Now I'm About To Marry Her by JayIlych(m): 7:28pm On Jan 03
Gofwane:
@Bolded, you meant ABIGAIL. Right??
Probably an error. Thanks for pointing it out

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