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|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by adrian3000(m): 11:14pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Dreyk:Engage in rigorous exercises like running, abs exercises, it allows blood flow round your body at ease. I bet you after a week or two of these exercises, u'll begin to experience early morning erections. Also, "you are what you eat" shouldn't be taken lightly. Eat mostly vegetables and Fruits and totally avoid sugary products. The body just needs repair, that's all.
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by ruggedtimi(m): 11:14pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Adefemiaderoju1:see wetin u recommend
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by oshe11: 11:14pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Honestly this is FUNNY AS F#CK
You have used ur own hand to over stress ur dick too much that it has gone through same stress a DICK of 100yrs wud go through if it was NORMAL sex
In a nutshell, Ur DICK is now 100yrs old
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by NASTYNASOSO: 11:15pm On Jan 10, 2018|
IF YOU HAVE HAUSA FRIENDS FROM KANO TALK TO THEM.
BROS NO SEXUAL ISSUE THEM NO FIT TREAT THERE.
YOUR CASE IS MINOR.
I WOULD HAVE SUGGESTED SOMETHING FOR YOU BUT. TALK TO THEM.
TWO DAYS OF SOME SMALL HERBAL DRINK WILL REVERSE YOUR CASE.
YOU WILL CHARGING LIKE A HORSE BETTER THAN EVEN BEFORE
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Nobody: 11:17pm On Jan 10, 2018|
ON YOUR TOPLIST
AM SURE U WAS IN VASELINE MODE WHEN YOU WROTE THIS, YOU SHOULD HAVE KICKED THE HABIT BEFORE COMING HERE TO TALK SHEEET..
WORRY NOT MASERATTI IS UR FRIEND...
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by BALLOSKI: 11:17pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Why do I find this funny?
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by fabrestove: 11:17pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Her village ppl don catch u at last,
U might probably be tied up in a bottle by now.
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Mike008(m): 11:18pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Other than those encounters with your GF, did it rise on other occasions afterwards, lets say when you try to masturbate?
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Ejlove4u(m): 11:18pm On Jan 10, 2018|
UR VILLAGE PEOPLE DONE COLLECT UR MR DO GUD.. VIA HAND SHACK
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Bigsolo10: 11:19pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Cut off your dick
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Paulosky1900: 11:20pm On Jan 10, 2018|
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by BlackDeutsche: 11:21pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Don't mind all these emergency experts.
Contrary to what everyone here is saying, this is likely perfectly normal. I was in very similar predicament few months back, but I'm totally on-point now.
Do you never ever have erections? Or they're usually just not hard enough? Or only during intercourse your tool seem to fail.
1. If your erections aren't hard enough, it means you self-gratify a lot. Don't masturbate for about 2 weeks, and your tool should reset to its peak performance. By your 7th day, it will be getting hard to anything in a skirt.
No need to stop masturbation permanently. That is inconsequential as it is impractical.
2. Another big problem might be in your head.
I am guessing after your first disappointment, when its time for sex you get nervous and start thinking about it. As a consequence you aren't in the moment and you lose the sensitivity, which prevents you from having an erection.
You look at your dick and think "OMG! IT'S HAPPENING AGAIN!", this then starts you on a downward spiral of nervousness.
Its probably hard to overcome the psychology, but my advice is to abstain from ejaculation at least 10 days prior to your next sex, so you can be at your peak sensitivity. Also you can try to go get a drink immediately before sex. Drink a bit (not excess), enough to distract your mind and reaffirm your confidence.
Please don't get drunk or it will dissapoint you even more. A bottle of orijin or a can of bullet is enough if you're not a light head.
3. Be cautious of your masturbation practices. Do you masturbate with a flaccid dick? Abstain from that. When you masturbate make sure you have a full hard-on. If you stroke your dick when you jack off, emulating the movement of the vagina on it, even better.
4. Make sure you're not stressed before sex, or your dick will take its rest.
Unless you never ever have an erection, you're perfectly fine. Its just a problem of psychology and habit. Take the above precautions, eat healthy, excercise your body, abstain from smoking, excess drinking and anything that affects your heart, and you'll be fine.
If you never ever get an erection (which i doubt is the case) you should forget this nairalanders and seek professional medical help.
Feel free to PM, will be glad to help.
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|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Holuwathosyn(m): 11:21pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Dreyk:Try ale and opa eyin herbs. Thank me later.
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by jaz(m): 11:22pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Seek medical attention. It's nothing new. More so your concern about it would make it worse.
When I was a corper I had similar issues where brotherly refuse to rise. While I don't do p.orn cos I find it st.upid I had cases where my hot gf at the time would come over and brotherly would not rise. I thought about all the babes I Don light for school and I tried to calm down. Story short, after lighting close to a hundred babes over the past years I'm happily married with kids and no sexual concerns. So seek medical attention and give your mind a rest
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by luckize: 11:22pm On Jan 10, 2018|
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Rikidony(m): 11:24pm On Jan 10, 2018|
OP don't you have erection during romance
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|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by dontbothermuch: 11:25pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Halo22:Best advice for now, if this doesn't workout, see a doctor.
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by jaksmillioniar: 11:26pm On Jan 10, 2018|
i knw how u feel instead of mastubate try get a girl dat u pay. is not easy once uve pass 20 d thing begin to heavy u and is not ur fault. most who cant get a girl find anoda way. try get sex regularly. as a girl once u pass 18 if u dont sex u get menstral pains. dont worry u will be heal just stop for like 2 yrs
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by MISTAICEY02288(m): 11:26pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Na wah ooo
So person dey get this kind problem when my own go just dey stand anytime e see fine babe
Me sef dey try control am whenever e happen make e no go embarrass me
Baba go just stand on its own ni ooo
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by correctguy101(m): 11:28pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Dyrek, after you've tried everything and it didn't work. Come back to purging your system of all the drugs you've taken and start taking cider, enough vitamin C and regular intake of garlic. And don't forget to feed on enough fruits especially bananas and watermelons.
And my friend, stop regular masturbation. It has damaged your psyche. It would be difficult for a woman to arouse you if you continue, no matter the treatment, you'll only end up getting addicted again to the treatment and it won't be comfy if it's not natural.
I can't imagine the nightmare you're going through, that girl would surely have to bear with you until you heal so stop that nonsense defense of not wanting to discuss it. If she wants to help you, she'll stay but don't hesitate to continue licking and sucking her till she squirts in your face. If she wants to go, save yourself the embarrassment and let her go in peace and work for your healing..... $mh
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by owowa145(m): 11:30pm On Jan 10, 2018|
First, give ur life to Jesus by putting a stop to xvideos and masturbation. Secondly, get banana (2 or three not too ripe), if u can get a ripe mango too (not too ripe though). Peel them inside blender and add a tin of evaporated peak milk (all) and original honey. Add ice block and little table water (very little). If u wish, u could add two to three spoons of peanut butter (Skippy preferably), Drink this at least thrice a week (a hour before going to bed at night), God will make u see result. Shalom
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by klax(m): 11:31pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Pls see doctor immediately don't waste time but if that does not help and you sense strange hands at work pls seek spiritual intervention quick.
Pls whst I'm saying is go and see doctor and if no solution seek spiritual help before it's too late those bloody wicked night fliers now uses everything means under the heaven to attack pls be very vigilant and act fast.
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Topestbilly(m): 11:31pm On Jan 10, 2018|
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Prechy08(m): 11:32pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Guy this Is purely effect of masturbating but never worry, I got remedy
1. Avoid and stop masturbating, delete all porn site, channels, video on ur phone, laptop, etc discard porn cds
2. Avoid staying alone
3. Get urself a girl friend
4. Get #200 garlic, peel it, blend it and pour it content in half bottle of whisky. Dont get coloured ones just the ones that look like water. Get ginger do same, allow the mixture to stay 24hours, take one shot every morning and night 30mins b4 meal for 4 days. Go and try, you will come back to normal..
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Calito1(m): 11:34pm On Jan 10, 2018|
I have a similar experience with my girlfriend because i was a mastubator too but i later got my erection and self confidence back. Trust me you are 100% ok 08039137382 call me lets talk.
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Bj5all(m): 11:36pm On Jan 10, 2018|
This is the only reasonable comment i have read that relates to the solution of the problem. Medically it's called sexual performance anxiety, when it happened to me a couple of years ago i thought the world has ended. Got help from Google search and i just realized that i was just putting myself under pressure to please my babe and a day came that uncle D fell down flat because of too much exhaustion, that was how it all started.
The next day, when i wanted to make use of Uncle D, the thought of previous failure flash to my head and Uncle D collapse immediately and i thought it was all over. The anxiety grown until i realized it was normal and i was just putting too much pressure on myself to perform.
It will take you some time to overcome your anxiety but you are perfectly normal.
Sex involves your emotions and psychology, the problem is both has been screwed up and will need time to reset back to normal.
Please avoid taking drugs so that you don't become drug dependent, you will be fine and you will enjoy sex again
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|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by correctguy101(m): 11:37pm On Jan 10, 2018|
This one is for weak sperm. The guy no get erection at all
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Nygma(m): 11:37pm On Jan 10, 2018|
Cut it off
|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by ImpressionsNG: 11:38pm On Jan 10, 2018|
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|Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by ogzille(m): 11:38pm On Jan 10, 2018|
You may be suffering from extreme adrenal fatigue.
You need to rewire your brain. And the brain can be counter intuitive a times. To recover from loss of Sexual appetite, take away all Sexual pleasures. There are lots of chemical processes that I do not need to bore you with.
1. Stay away from all instances of porn (hard)
2. Stay away from all instances of soft porn (naughty music videos, anything indecent and even threads on nairaland)
3. Do not expose yourself to anything that will ordinarily get you high (deep hugs, kisses and all sorts of activities)
4. Stop testing yourself by trying to kiss or engage in any romantic activity. For every ere... you get after intense stimulation, you get 10 steps worse.
5. Do this for 6 - 12 months depending on how acute your case is.
6. Live healthy (not the root cause, but it will help). this includes good food, sleep and exercise. Weight lifting will aid recovery
7. Never forget 1 - 5 above.
NB: In the course of the therapy, you will first, become worse. When you do, don't despair. Don't test yourself. For every test, you'll need to restart and for a longer period.
Also note that the 6 - 12 is an average duration for people to recover. Due to your body system and depth of damage, this duration may vary.
Also note that, when you get better, start slow. Don't overwhelm your system, even with the real thing.
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