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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by adrian3000(m): 11:14pm On Jan 10, 2018
Dreyk:
It all started when I was 17. Had access to internet and too many Indecency were everywhere on the net. What started out so weird and looked awkward to me ended up being my means of pleasure. Didn't even think of GF coz to me it was stress. I could stroke my organ for a whole day watching Indecency. I really enjoyed it at first and was even taking drugs to delay "release of sperm"
To me it was all fun.

When I got to 20, I decided to try out a GF, but it didn't work out well so I fully went into masturbation and didn't even think of relationship.

When I became 23, I noticed my joystick wasn't getting the 100% erection like it used to but I didn't even bother. Till the day I decided to have sex and my organ couldn't rise, my gf had to give me a Mouth Gig before I got half erection, she wasn't happy, I saw disappointment written all over her face. I had to lie to her that it was coz I was worried about something else and my mind wasn't on her side or the sex.

Christmas night we decided to have another sex but joystick couldn't even rise. I tried force it into her but it fell out all flaccid. Had to use my hand to pleasure her that night again she was worried and the next day she said we've got to talk about it.

I embarrassingly told her nothing to talk about. She is someone I want to marry. Am 28 years now and my mum is already talking about when will I be getting a wife ??

It's beginning to give me nightmare.
Pls doctors in the house ........have I maybe accidentally broken my dick??

Or does it mean I have over used my organ??
Pls is there a cure??
Engage in rigorous exercises like running, abs exercises, it allows blood flow round your body at ease. I bet you after a week or two of these exercises, u'll begin to experience early morning erections. Also, "you are what you eat" shouldn't be taken lightly. Eat mostly vegetables and Fruits and totally avoid sugary products. The body just needs repair, that's all.

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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by ruggedtimi(m): 11:14pm On Jan 10, 2018
Adefemiaderoju1:
Try eat unripe plantain every day with fresh milk and thank me later.
see wetin u recommend shocked
Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by oshe11: 11:14pm On Jan 10, 2018
Dreyk:
It all started when I was 17. Had access to internet and too many Indecency were everywhere on the net. What started out so weird and looked awkward to me ended up being my means of pleasure. Didn't even think of GF coz to me it was stress. I could stroke my organ for a whole day watching Indecency. I really enjoyed it at first and was even taking drugs to delay "release of sperm"
To me it was all fun.

When I got to 20, I decided to try out a GF, but it didn't work out well so I fully went into masturbation and didn't even think of relationship.

When I became 23, I noticed my joystick wasn't getting the 100% erection like it used to but I didn't even bother. Till the day I decided to have sex and my organ couldn't rise, my gf had to give me a Mouth Gig before I got half erection, she wasn't happy, I saw disappointment written all over her face. I had to lie to her that it was coz I was worried about something else and my mind wasn't on her side or the sex.

Christmas night we decided to have another sex but joystick couldn't even rise. I tried force it into her but it fell out all flaccid. Had to use my hand to pleasure her that night again she was worried and the next day she said we've got to talk about it.

I embarrassingly told her nothing to talk about. She is someone I want to marry. Am 28 years now and my mum is already talking about when will I be getting a wife ??

It's beginning to give me nightmare.
Pls doctors in the house ........have I maybe accidentally broken my dick??

Or does it mean I have over used my organ??
Pls is there a cure??

Honestly this is FUNNY AS F#CKgrin

You have used ur own hand to over stress ur dick too much that it has gone through same stress a DICK of 100yrs wud go through if it was NORMAL sex


In a nutshell, Ur DICK is now 100yrs oldgrin

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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by NASTYNASOSO: 11:15pm On Jan 10, 2018
HMMMMMMMM

IF YOU HAVE HAUSA FRIENDS FROM KANO TALK TO THEM.
BROS NO SEXUAL ISSUE THEM NO FIT TREAT THERE.
YOUR CASE IS MINOR.
I WOULD HAVE SUGGESTED SOMETHING FOR YOU BUT. TALK TO THEM.
TWO DAYS OF SOME SMALL HERBAL DRINK WILL REVERSE YOUR CASE.
YOU WILL CHARGING LIKE A HORSE BETTER THAN EVEN BEFORE

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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Nobody: 11:17pm On Jan 10, 2018
Dreyk:

It's on my 2018 top list. Thanks for the suggestion.

ON YOUR TOPLIST
AM SURE U WAS IN VASELINE MODE WHEN YOU WROTE THIS, YOU SHOULD HAVE KICKED THE HABIT BEFORE COMING HERE TO TALK SHEEET..

WORRY NOT MASERATTI IS UR FRIEND...

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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by BALLOSKI: 11:17pm On Jan 10, 2018
Why do I find this funny? grin grin
Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by fabrestove: 11:17pm On Jan 10, 2018
Her village ppl don catch u at last,
U might probably be tied up in a bottle by now.
Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Mike008(m): 11:18pm On Jan 10, 2018
Other than those encounters with your GF, did it rise on other occasions afterwards, lets say when you try to masturbate?
Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Ejlove4u(m): 11:18pm On Jan 10, 2018
UR VILLAGE PEOPLE DONE COLLECT UR MR DO GUD.. VIA HAND SHACK
Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Bigsolo10: 11:19pm On Jan 10, 2018
Cut off your dick
Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Paulosky1900: 11:20pm On Jan 10, 2018
LifeIsGuhd:
grin cheesy grin
so now men's dick are now car gear..

Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by BlackDeutsche: 11:21pm On Jan 10, 2018
Don't mind all these emergency experts.

Contrary to what everyone here is saying, this is likely perfectly normal. I was in very similar predicament few months back, but I'm totally on-point now.

Do you never ever have erections? Or they're usually just not hard enough? Or only during intercourse your tool seem to fail.

1. If your erections aren't hard enough, it means you self-gratify a lot. Don't masturbate for about 2 weeks, and your tool should reset to its peak performance. By your 7th day, it will be getting hard to anything in a skirt.
No need to stop masturbation permanently. That is inconsequential as it is impractical.

2. Another big problem might be in your head.
I am guessing after your first disappointment, when its time for sex you get nervous and start thinking about it. As a consequence you aren't in the moment and you lose the sensitivity, which prevents you from having an erection.
You look at your dick and think "OMG! IT'S HAPPENING AGAIN!", this then starts you on a downward spiral of nervousness.
Its probably hard to overcome the psychology, but my advice is to abstain from ejaculation at least 10 days prior to your next sex, so you can be at your peak sensitivity. Also you can try to go get a drink immediately before sex. Drink a bit (not excess), enough to distract your mind and reaffirm your confidence.
Please don't get drunk or it will dissapoint you even more. A bottle of orijin or a can of bullet is enough if you're not a light head.

3. Be cautious of your masturbation practices. Do you masturbate with a flaccid dick? Abstain from that. When you masturbate make sure you have a full hard-on. If you stroke your dick when you jack off, emulating the movement of the vagina on it, even better.

4. Make sure you're not stressed before sex, or your dick will take its rest.


Unless you never ever have an erection, you're perfectly fine. Its just a problem of psychology and habit. Take the above precautions, eat healthy, excercise your body, abstain from smoking, excess drinking and anything that affects your heart, and you'll be fine.

If you never ever get an erection (which i doubt is the case) you should forget this nairalanders and seek professional medical help.

Feel free to PM, will be glad to help.

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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Holuwathosyn(m): 11:21pm On Jan 10, 2018
Dreyk:
It all started when I was 17. Had access to internet and too many Indecency were everywhere on the net. What started out so weird and looked awkward to me ended up being my means of pleasure. Didn't even think of GF coz to me it was stress. I could stroke my organ for a whole day watching Indecency. I really enjoyed it at first and was even taking drugs to delay "release of sperm"
To me it was all fun.

When I got to 20, I decided to try out a GF, but it didn't work out well so I fully went into masturbation and didn't even think of relationship.

When I became 23, I noticed my joystick wasn't getting the 100% erection like it used to but I didn't even bother. Till the day I decided to have sex and my organ couldn't rise, my gf had to give me a Mouth Gig before I got half erection, she wasn't happy, I saw disappointment written all over her face. I had to lie to her that it was coz I was worried about something else and my mind wasn't on her side or the sex.

Christmas night we decided to have another sex but joystick couldn't even rise. I tried force it into her but it fell out all flaccid. Had to use my hand to pleasure her that night again she was worried and the next day she said we've got to talk about it.

I embarrassingly told her nothing to talk about. She is someone I want to marry. Am 28 years now and my mum is already talking about when will I be getting a wife ??

It's beginning to give me nightmare.
Pls doctors in the house ........have I maybe accidentally broken my dick??

Or does it mean I have over used my organ??
Pls is there a cure??
Try ale and opa eyin herbs. Thank me later.
Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by jaz(m): 11:22pm On Jan 10, 2018
Seek medical attention. It's nothing new. More so your concern about it would make it worse.

When I was a corper I had similar issues where brotherly refuse to rise. While I don't do p.orn cos I find it st.upid I had cases where my hot gf at the time would come over and brotherly would not rise. I thought about all the babes I Don light for school and I tried to calm down. Story short, after lighting close to a hundred babes over the past years I'm happily married with kids and no sexual concerns. So seek medical attention and give your mind a rest

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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by luckize: 11:22pm On Jan 10, 2018
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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Rikidony(m): 11:24pm On Jan 10, 2018
Dreyk:
It all started when I was 17. Had access to internet and too many Indecency were everywhere on the net. What started out so weird and looked awkward to me ended up being my means of pleasure. Didn't even think of GF coz to me it was stress. I could stroke my organ for a whole day watching Indecency. I really enjoyed it at first and was even taking drugs to delay "release of sperm"
To me it was all fun.

When I got to 20, I decided to try out a GF, but it didn't work out well so I fully went into masturbation and didn't even think of relationship.

When I became 23, I noticed my joystick wasn't getting the 100% erection like it used to but I didn't even bother. Till the day I decided to have sex and my organ couldn't rise, my gf had to give me a Mouth Gig before I got half erection, she wasn't happy, I saw disappointment written all over her face. I had to lie to her that it was coz I was worried about something else and my mind wasn't on her side or the sex.

Christmas night we decided to have another sex but joystick couldn't even rise. I tried force it into her but it fell out all flaccid. Had to use my hand to pleasure her that night again she was worried and the next day she said we've got to talk about it.

I embarrassingly told her nothing to talk about. She is someone I want to marry. Am 28 years now and my mum is already talking about when will I be getting a wife ??

It's beginning to give me nightmare.
Pls doctors in the house ........have I maybe accidentally broken my dick??

Or does it mean I have over used my organ??
Pls is there a cure??

OP don't you have erection during romance

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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by dontbothermuch: 11:25pm On Jan 10, 2018
Halo22:
The truth is that you got so addicted to it that anything apart from that ur normal style of ejaculation cannot move you. Just stop it for a while and see urself going back to normalcy. It z just a habit.
Best advice for now, if this doesn't workout, see a doctor.

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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by jaksmillioniar: 11:26pm On Jan 10, 2018
i knw how u feel instead of mastubate try get a girl dat u pay. is not easy once uve pass 20 d thing begin to heavy u and is not ur fault. most who cant get a girl find anoda way. try get sex regularly. as a girl once u pass 18 if u dont sex u get menstral pains. dont worry u will be heal just stop for like 2 yrs
Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by MISTAICEY02288(m): 11:26pm On Jan 10, 2018
Na wah ooo shocked
So person dey get this kind problem when my own go just dey stand anytime e see fine babe
Me sef dey try control am whenever e happen make e no go embarrass me
Baba go just stand on its own ni ooo angry

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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by correctguy101(m): 11:28pm On Jan 10, 2018
Dyrek, after you've tried everything and it didn't work. Come back to purging your system of all the drugs you've taken and start taking cider, enough vitamin C and regular intake of garlic. And don't forget to feed on enough fruits especially bananas and watermelons.

And my friend, stop regular masturbation. It has damaged your psyche. It would be difficult for a woman to arouse you if you continue, no matter the treatment, you'll only end up getting addicted again to the treatment and it won't be comfy if it's not natural.

I can't imagine the nightmare you're going through, that girl would surely have to bear with you until you heal so stop that nonsense defense of not wanting to discuss it. If she wants to help you, she'll stay but don't hesitate to continue licking and sucking her till she squirts in your face. If she wants to go, save yourself the embarrassment and let her go in peace and work for your healing..... $mh

Be well.

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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by owowa145(m): 11:30pm On Jan 10, 2018
Dreyk:
It all started when I was 17. Had access to internet and too many Indecency were everywhere on the net. What started out so weird and looked awkward to me ended up being my means of pleasure. Didn't even think of GF coz to me it was stress. I could stroke my organ for a whole day watching Indecency. I really enjoyed it at first and was even taking drugs to delay "release of sperm"
To me it was all fun.



When I got to 20, I decided to try out a GF, but it didn't work out well so I fully went into masturbation and didn't even think of relationship.

When I became 23, I noticed my joystick wasn't getting the 100% erection like it used to but I didn't even bother. Till the day I decided to have sex and my organ couldn't rise, my gf had to give me a Mouth Gig before I got half erection, she wasn't happy, I saw disappointment written all over her face. I had to lie to her that it was coz I was worried about something else and my mind wasn't on her side or the sex.

Christmas night we decided to have another sex but joystick couldn't even rise. I tried force it into her but it fell out all flaccid. Had to use my hand to pleasure her that night again she was worried and the next day she said we've got to talk about it.

I embarrassingly told her nothing to talk about. She is someone I want to marry. Am 28 years now and my mum is already talking about when will I be getting a wife ??

It's beginning to give me nightmare.
Pls doctors in the house ........have I maybe accidentally broken my dick??

Or does it mean I have over used my organ??
Pls is there a cure??

First, give ur life to Jesus by putting a stop to xvideos and masturbation. Secondly, get banana (2 or three not too ripe), if u can get a ripe mango too (not too ripe though). Peel them inside blender and add a tin of evaporated peak milk (all) and original honey. Add ice block and little table water (very little). If u wish, u could add two to three spoons of peanut butter (Skippy preferably), Drink this at least thrice a week (a hour before going to bed at night), God will make u see result. Shalom

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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by klax(m): 11:31pm On Jan 10, 2018
Pls see doctor immediately don't waste time but if that does not help and you sense strange hands at work pls seek spiritual intervention quick.

Pls whst I'm saying is go and see doctor and if no solution seek spiritual help before it's too late those bloody wicked night fliers now uses everything means under the heaven to attack pls be very vigilant and act fast.
Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Topestbilly(m): 11:31pm On Jan 10, 2018
Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Prechy08(m): 11:32pm On Jan 10, 2018
Dreyk:
It all started when I was 17. Had access to internet and too many Indecency were everywhere on the net. What started out so weird and looked awkward to me ended up being my means of pleasure. Didn't even think of GF coz to me it was stress. I could stroke my organ for a whole day watching Indecency. I really enjoyed it at first and was even taking drugs to delay "release of sperm"
To me it was all fun.

When I got to 20, I decided to try out a GF, but it didn't work out well so I fully went into masturbation and didn't even think of relationship.

When I became 23, I noticed my joystick wasn't getting the 100% erection like it used to but I didn't even bother. Till the day I decided to have sex and my organ couldn't rise, my gf had to give me a Mouth Gig before I got half erection, she wasn't happy, I saw disappointment written all over her face. I had to lie to her that it was coz I was worried about something else and my mind wasn't on her side or the sex.

Christmas night we decided to have another sex but joystick couldn't even rise. I tried force it into her but it fell out all flaccid. Had to use my hand to pleasure her that night again she was worried and the next day she said we've got to talk about it.

I embarrassingly told her nothing to talk about. She is someone I want to marry. Am 28 years now and my mum is already talking about when will I be getting a wife ??

It's beginning to give me nightmare.
Pls doctors in the house ........have I maybe accidentally broken my dick??

Or does it mean I have over used my organ??
Pls is there a cure??

Guy this Is purely effect of masturbating but never worry, I got remedy
1. Avoid and stop masturbating, delete all porn site, channels, video on ur phone, laptop, etc discard porn cds
2. Avoid staying alone
3. Get urself a girl friend
4. Get #200 garlic, peel it, blend it and pour it content in half bottle of whisky. Dont get coloured ones just the ones that look like water. Get ginger do same, allow the mixture to stay 24hours, take one shot every morning and night 30mins b4 meal for 4 days. Go and try, you will come back to normal..

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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Calito1(m): 11:34pm On Jan 10, 2018
I have a similar experience with my girlfriend because i was a mastubator too but i later got my erection and self confidence back. Trust me you are 100% ok 08039137382 call me lets talk.
Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Bj5all(m): 11:36pm On Jan 10, 2018
BlackDeutsche:
Don't mind all these emergency experts.

Contrary to what everyone here is saying, this is likely perfectly normal. I was in very similar predicament few months back, but I'm totally on-point now.

Do you never ever have erections? Or they're usually just not hard enough? Or only during intercourse your tool seem to fail.

1. If your erections aren't hard enough, it means you self-gratify a lot. Don't masturbate for about 2 weeks, and your tool should reset to its peak performance. By your 7th day, it will be getting hard to anything in a skirt.
No need to stop masturbation permanently. That is inconsequential as it is impractical.

2. Another big problem might be in your head.
I am guessing after your first disappointment, when its time for sex you get nervous and start thinking about it. As a consequence you aren't in the moment and you lose the sensitivity, which prevents you from having an erection.
You look at your dick and think "OMG! IT'S HAPPENING AGAIN!", this then starts you on a downward spiral of nervousness.
Its probably hard to overcome the psychology, but my advice is to abstain from ejaculation at least 10 days prior to your next sex, so you can be at your peak sensitivity. Also you can try to go get a drink immediately before sex. Drink a bit (not excess), enough to distract your mind and reaffirm your confidence.
Please don't get drunk or it will dissapoint you even more. A bottle of origin or a can of bullet is enough of you're not a light head.

3. Be cautious of your masturbation practices. Do you masturbate with a flaccid dick? Abstain from that. When you masturbate make sure you have a full hard-on. If you stroke your dick when you jack off, emulating the movement of the vagina on it, even better.

4. Make sure you're not stressed before sex, or your dick will take its rest.


Unless you never ever have anerection, you're perfectly fine. Its just a problem of psychology and habit. Take the above precautions, eat healthy, excercise your body, abstain from smoking, excess drinking and anything that affects your heart, and you'll be fine.

If you never ever get an erection (which i doubt is the case) you should forget this nairalanders and seek professional medical help.

Feel free to PM, will be glad to help.

This is the only reasonable comment i have read that relates to the solution of the problem. Medically it's called sexual performance anxiety, when it happened to me a couple of years ago i thought the world has ended. Got help from Google search and i just realized that i was just putting myself under pressure to please my babe and a day came that uncle D fell down flat because of too much exhaustion, that was how it all started.

The next day, when i wanted to make use of Uncle D, the thought of previous failure flash to my head and Uncle D collapse immediately and i thought it was all over. The anxiety grown until i realized it was normal and i was just putting too much pressure on myself to perform.

It will take you some time to overcome your anxiety but you are perfectly normal.

Sex involves your emotions and psychology, the problem is both has been screwed up and will need time to reset back to normal.

Please avoid taking drugs so that you don't become drug dependent, you will be fine and you will enjoy sex again

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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by correctguy101(m): 11:37pm On Jan 10, 2018
owowa145:


First, give ur life to Jesus by putting a stop to xvideos and masturbation. Secondly, get banana (2 or three not too ripe), if u can get a ripe mango too (not too ripe though). Peel them inside blender and add a tin of evaporated peak milk (all) and original honey. Add ice block and little table water (very little). If u wish, u could add two to three spoons of peanut butter (Skippy preferably), Drink this at least thrice a week (a hour before going to bed at night), God will make u see result. Shalom

This one is for weak sperm. The guy no get erection at all

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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by Nygma(m): 11:37pm On Jan 10, 2018
Cut it off
Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by ImpressionsNG: 11:38pm On Jan 10, 2018
It is in your best interest to learn about the miraculous combination of garlic and vitamin c and how it can restore full network to your equipment. Read this and thank me later.... http://www.impressions.ng/amazing-benefits-of-garlic-and-vitamin-c-combination-for-men/

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Re: Help I Can't Have Erection Anymore. by ogzille(m): 11:38pm On Jan 10, 2018
You may be suffering from extreme adrenal fatigue.

You need to rewire your brain. And the brain can be counter intuitive a times. To recover from loss of Sexual appetite, take away all Sexual pleasures. There are lots of chemical processes that I do not need to bore you with.

Solution:

1. Stay away from all instances of porn (hard)
2. Stay away from all instances of soft porn (naughty music videos, anything indecent and even threads on nairaland)
3. Do not expose yourself to anything that will ordinarily get you high (deep hugs, kisses and all sorts of activities)
4. Stop testing yourself by trying to kiss or engage in any romantic activity. For every ere... you get after intense stimulation, you get 10 steps worse.
5. Do this for 6 - 12 months depending on how acute your case is.
6. Live healthy (not the root cause, but it will help). this includes good food, sleep and exercise. Weight lifting will aid recovery
7. Never forget 1 - 5 above.

NB: In the course of the therapy, you will first, become worse. When you do, don't despair. Don't test yourself. For every test, you'll need to restart and for a longer period.
Also note that the 6 - 12 is an average duration for people to recover. Due to your body system and depth of damage, this duration may vary.
Also note that, when you get better, start slow. Don't overwhelm your system, even with the real thing.

Goodluck.

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