Common Signs of Sick Marriages

1. The couples are deeply suspicious of each other, distrust each other motives and disregard each other's judgment in the major decisions of life

2. The couples are unfriendly with each other and are likely to remain so

3. The couples basic roles in life as husband and wife are confused or neglected, resulting in a dislocation of responsibilities and in power struggle for the mastery of the situation

4. The couples are suffering from communication blackout and keep their thoughts and movement hidden from each other

5. The couples have only their sense of hopelessness in common and their one aim is how to isolate the marriage or bring the union to a successful and hasty end

6. In such marriage real but insignificant injustice are magnified out of proportion to reality

7. Responsibility for failure is always blamed or projected on the other partner

8. Feelings of being misunderstood, mistreated and persecuted permeates the day to day operation of the home.

9. Self-exaltation and delusions of perfection take the place of honest participation in human sharing if responsibility for error

10. Plotting and scheming takes the place of planning and sharing

For couples to enjoy blissful marriages there has to be mutual understanding, love, respect and 100% communication

any marriage like this na bad market

Yawns...