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| Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by Emotionless100: 2:58pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
I'm afraid to love, spend (as in dedicate my time and emotions) and care for the lady I so much love, in case she may dump me for another guy likewise I'm also afraid to show love and care to a lady I don't love incase she may not leave me |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:01pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Have ur heart been broken before by a lady?. 1 Like |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by Nobody: 3:01pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Just love em at the brothel. 1 Like |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
You are suffering from low self-esteem.You believe no lady can love you unconditionally and you are scared to invest your time loving someone.op there is always someone for you, just hope you find that someone. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Emotionless100:  |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by Emotionless100: 3:07pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
JONNYSPUTE: Not really |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by donstan18: 3:08pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Too much of LOVE issue these days. 1 Like
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| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by djeezy(m): 3:10pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Emotionless100:And if you don't do all these she may still dump you. Just spend what you can spare to loose but ensure you show her love. |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by ubunja(m): 3:12pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
you are special 1 Like |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by greatnaija01: 3:12pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
wow bro you are in a state called IGNORANCE Firstly you do not know what LOVE is? I mean true LOVE... not the one these days where guys are thinking with their diks Secondly You need to IMPROVE YOUR SELF... so you become a person LADIES will dream to be with, so that gives you a better chance (just in case you find a lady who tries to force herself or seduce her way into your life) Thirdly you need to know that MONEY has nothing to do with LOVE.... these days most ladies take relationship as ADOPTION and they become financially recluse once they have a GUY... cos movies have destroyed our youths to see the GUYS are spenders and the LADYS as sex tools- BUT that is a wrong view FOURTHLY- STUDY STUDY STUDY... if you do not study wide before entering relationship you will not be able to recognize warning signs... POSTS , COMMENTS, TWITS & BLOGS cant help you, only books can. there are signs for cheating, for flirting, for marriage etc.. LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST... UNDERSTAND THE SEQUENCE and you will never be cheated by any lady... and you too will not cheat but most importantly all your fears will leave... here is the sequence GOD FIRST--------> THEN MONEY---------> THEN RELATIONSHIP/DATING If you miss this sequence you may never be able to find your path again in LIFE. LADIES took SOLOMON'S HEART AWAY FROM GOD.... yet solomon had money... and he was wise but he broke God's heart due to LADY'S YOU ARE YOUR GREATEST INVESTMENT... not ladies or things... but YOU. stay cool bro Emotionless100: 1 Like |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:14pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Emotionless100:. So there must be a reason for that. Before anyone can help you solve this problem,you must ve to make up your mind on what you want and try not to allow fear of the unknown affect ur views on women.In as much as we all know that so many ladies out there cannot be trusted,one still got to take risk,because they women are necessary evil. You might be lucky to meet the few good ones available. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by Emotionless100: 3:37pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
greatnaija01: Thanks a lot for dis |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by Emotionless100: 3:43pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
JONNYSPUTE: Thanks, I truly appreciate ur advice |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:45pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Emotionless100:Uwc |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by Tajbol4splend(m): 3:50pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
The relationship has not even started, he has ended it |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by TheSuperNerd(m): 5:20pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
All of life is a risk bro. Suck up your goddamn fears and live!! So because of so many "what ifs" you won't live and love abi? You wanna keep holding yourself back because of "what ifs" Brother, don't be a wimp. Live!!! Live your life but be guided too so that you do not fall into a pit that ends your forever.  Remember, all of life is a risk 1 Like |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by nuggarito: 11:20pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Brother when you make baskard money, you won't be having problems with this thing called love. In essense go and make money , leave this girls alone. 1 Like |
| Re: Help A Brother In A Relationship Problem by Elparaiso(m): 1:02am On Jan 13, 2018 |
Emotionless100: I would advise you love her, but not unconditionally. Love isn't stupid. She might make mistakes; it's up to you to know when to forgive and when not to. As for spending, I assume you're frugal. Spend as usual but I would encourage making provision for her in your budget. If she's wise, she would do the same to you. If she's foolish, please dump her. You don't want a liability, do you? It's not foolproof, but it works 100% of the time it does. 1 Like |
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