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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Gloryr: 11:46pm On Jan 13, 2018|
[quote author=damichworld post=64158349]
What is wrong in a woman owning a property to her name solely?
Madam , 100% wrong
Mathematics Marriage Calculation
1 + 1 = 1
As a man is my duty to guide,provide and secure her wellbeing....No woman under my roof can carryout d act
I got married 2012, before d wedding my wife informed me about a property(land) she brought which am happy to hear that .Right now am d advising her to start something on it
Marriage is all about understanding and been honest to each other.
Op. ...I have a big uncle that wasted 14yrs of his life waiting for rhetoric fruit of the womb. ..his own is even better because his wife was humble and loyal....he impregnated his coworker and she got pregnant one hand.......I suggest u take a work.
I will never support cheating and betrayal of trust.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by dancok(m): 1:08am On Jan 14, 2018|
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 6:00am On Jan 14, 2018|
You already moved on so why are you here ranting. Oga the thing pain you small
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by eyinjuege: 6:31am On Jan 14, 2018|
Only one person has no ovulation, blocked tubes, fibroids.
For every point raised here, you have a counter argument.
Just last week, you claim to have married a new wife, who is joining you in Abuja.
So many important stories you're coming up with when questioned which you never mentioned in your initial post.
Are you sure you're not just making things up as points are being raised?
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Efewestern: 6:46am On Jan 14, 2018|
Bros good morning sir!!
Read through all your post, believe me your wife don't have your interest at heart, I read a place where you said you saw some signs in your courtship days but you ignored, bro that was the genesis of the problem.
And I hope you are also building your own house somewhere, do whatever makes you happy man.. and 6 years is not too long she can still get pregnant. am more concerned about her attitude. (modified : mogbe the issue strong o)
You seems to give more in this relationship, marriage is a two way thing . Just know this , the power of every relationship is the hand of the person who cares less.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Adamrealman78: 8:32am On Jan 14, 2018|
eyinjuege:In all honesty, I have been truthful in all I shared.I want people to learn from real life issues. I have been silent for too long.if not for the grace of God, I would have been admitted into a mental institution.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Adamrealman78: 8:37am On Jan 14, 2018|
Efewestern:,God shall bless every work of your hand. If I told her marriage is an effort of both partners, she would reply, that the Bible said a man should provide everything for the home. See brainwashing! Men please be aware of the use of religion to coerce in marriage
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Efewestern: 8:55am On Jan 14, 2018|
Sir I admire your courage and perseverance, even after knowing she couldn't conceive easily you still kept your vows, trying everything to make her happy, why she on the other hand was living her life just for herself, that's selfishness bro.
@ bolded, am naturally not a religious person, I'd burst her bubble if she tries using that as a tools for controlling me.
What's up with your new wify, hope you are treating her right? ,
Na man you be.
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by olisehcom(f): 9:01am On Jan 14, 2018|
You've been cheating on her all this time....and she knows.......she hasn't given u a child.......your family don't like her......
I don't blame her at all
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by PSTEMMA1960(m): 9:14am On Jan 14, 2018|
Adamrealman78:my brother if u are to be honest u saw all those signs b4 the marriage took place, bt u decided to continue..
marriage it's not what u will jst wake up one day and call it off, u have to endure it since she is nt cheating on u.. unless u are nt a christian..
i had 2 girl friends sometimes ago, one was always asking me for money and i always give to her, bt one day her uncle gave her 50k i asked her to borrow me 10k from it bt she refused.. that was how i left her because this was a lady i have borrowed money from friends jst to make her happy..
bt the other friend of mine gives without me asking, and when she gives she does nt ask for pay back, where she is working now any day she takes her salary she will call and tell me.
now i am nt yet married bt i have been able to see a good wife material..
finally: still talk to her about it, it's easy to end a relationship than a marriage, she may even think that it's because of her childless-ness..
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Adamrealman78: 9:50am On Jan 14, 2018|
olisehcom:ladies like you are the problem, you assume that things are worst than they seem. My parents kicked against our wedding, I stood my ground and kept my vow.after feeling used ,I decided to move on.I didn't fight her. So what's the big issue?
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Adamrealman78: 9:58am On Jan 14, 2018|
Efewestern:imagine my so called loving wife calling me after 4 days of leaving Lagos to Abuja.I told her I didn't have anything to eat and was broke, she didn't ask I am faring.I was the one that actually texted before her call.she said she didn't know if I would pick the call.see lame excuses.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Adamrealman78: 10:06am On Jan 14, 2018|
Latest update- she just called and started Trying to explain her way out of her rash behavior,which she is habitual of doing for the past 6yrs.she would want to rationalize a mistake claiming the Bible said women are the weaker vessel. Men have really been undermined ,well new year new system. Dem go hear am.I rest my case.God bless all the people in the house. Shalom
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by FloraEC(f): 10:43am On Jan 14, 2018|
To be honest, I don't blame your wife. I wonder how many times you've called her barren maybe telling her, her tubes are blocked and she can't release an egg that's why she's not ovulating e.t.c
The magic you supposed to do is for her to undergo an operation to remove the uterine fibroid, tubal flushing or taking drugs for it and also taking drugs that aids ovulation. Did you do that?
And now you're trying to be all emotional, all of a sudden you remembered your parents warned you cos she borrowed herself sense to build a house since you and your family members obviously don't love her or accept her. Now you trying to blame her, calling her sorts of names so you'll garner sympathy.
I wish you the best with the girl you've already slept with and wants to marry, may she karashika your life very well.
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by realborn(m): 11:03am On Jan 14, 2018|
1. Blocked tubes - IVF
2. Uterine fibroids - Surgery
3. No ovulation - corrective medication to address hormonal imbalance
Suggested order - 2-3-1
As alleged by you, it is quite unfortunate that she reacts to money and material possessions the way you claim she does. Quite a significant percentage of women are adduced with the ideology that a man provides all. Several men experience a similar fate when tables turn. Acquiring and developing a property without your knowledge is also very common. These are exigencies of marriage. I have one significant prayer daily, "Lord bless me exceedingly, grant me the grace to provide beyond expectations".
Living apart while married, can break the strongest of bonds, and encourages adultery. Your wife's not-so-caring attitude may have stemmed from the consequences of this, coupled with the propensity to covet what belongs to her for herself.
Inability to conceive after 6 years is not a basis to end a marriage. If indeed you want a child, and you are unwilling to go through the process outlined above, you should sensitize her of your intent to impregnate another. She would feel very bad, but will eventually appreciate your gesture after months or years. Getting married to another may not be the solution (emphasis on "May". There is no perfect man or woman. Everyone comes with a defect.
I have known my wife for about 2 decades and married for 8 years. We have had delays in childbirth (quite similar to your reasons), stayed apart for circa 4 years within the period, had our issues, but remained resolute to stay strong. Despite our issues and desire to leave many times (perhaps she must have felt same too sometimes), I still love her exceedingly.
I strongly believe that a marriage that is not physically abusive can be salvaged.
I pray you find peace as you turn 40 this year
If you both jointly decide to go your separate ways, it will be a fantastic decision. Marriage should be enjoyed not endured!
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Amarabae(f): 11:39am On Jan 14, 2018|
You are overreacting!
Divorce is not the answer now.
But come to think of it, the money that she used in the building of house, she would have used some of them to adopt a child.
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Espada10: 1:58pm On Jan 14, 2018|
Adamrealman78:I just want to say , I am proud of you.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by jasper83: 2:49pm On Jan 14, 2018|
Bros I salute your courage and victory, may God bless your new job, happiness and whatever makes you happy. Don't allow any rubbish person make you unhappy or angry about your decision, you have taken the best decision of your life because anybody that life gives a second chance like you 98% of the time excel exceedingly.
When the time is right I have a story to share too, majority of females are opportunist and self centered, I have learned in hard way that love is not everything but mere feelings that can grow well if nurtured with right person. Guys beware " EMOTION IS NOTHING BUT A KILLER". Lets see marriage as a contract to be given to best qualified individuals, no sentiment attached.
Congrats bro, u have escaped may God delivered the rest of us from the hands of evil,destiny delaying demons. Peace out!!!
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Duru009(m): 5:05pm On Jan 14, 2018|
You marry the wrong woman !
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by frozen70(f): 6:10pm On Jan 14, 2018|
keepingmum:You dont know the poster from Adams, you were attacking him instead of the advice he needed.
He wasn't bracing that he maintains two homes he is just telling us the sacrifice he made for their comfort, though he wouldn't have said he has never beaten the wife that's not what a man should be proud of.
Yes its wrong for a wife to set up a building with out the knowledge of the husbands, but like the husband said that probably she is sensing danger because she is yet to give birth. I think the man should notify the wife family his intention to get separated or divorce their daughter ,it might not be easy but it's one of the way out.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by enabledgoddess(f): 6:31pm On Jan 14, 2018|
you sounded so sure that she can't change. you saw the attitude long ago yet you ignored it and thought pure love could reform her? no one can change any one except they make personal decision to change.
Any union that the parents are against are often times not fruitful. you are in this already so I won't be quick to say you should divorce her. on a second thought, why are you living separately? and you are trying to conceive? since she is operating her own shop, what stops her from joining you in your base? the distance alone has put strain on your marriage . both of you should find a way to go appeal your parents and gradually work on your flaws. she can't be all at fault you have your own part too. As for the money part, she's probably reacting . if there is love, communication, closeness, agreement I don't think she will find it hard to give her hubby 20k when she is expecting 800k from you. she was able to erect a building without informing you because the distance has create a hole in your relationship. work on that first and gradually watch things fall in place.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by enabledgoddess(f): 6:47pm On Jan 14, 2018|
Did you go for medical checks before you tied the knot? I feel your pains and I could only imagine the woman's pains. I know how painful it is to badly want a child , I have been there. I don't know what to say further since you have revealed that you are seeing someone else already
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Adamrealman78: 8:12pm On Jan 14, 2018|
enabledgoddess:she told me categorically that she can't relocate to Abuja cos of her shop.I promised to get another one in Abuja and restock. She said that she has established herself in ogudu GRA,claiming that sales would never be the same.
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Diamond23(f): 8:44pm On Jan 14, 2018|
[color=#770077][/color] Y painting her black simply because ur family didn't approve of her nd majorly because she has not giving u a child .
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:21pm On Jan 14, 2018|
Amarabae:Please, what is the answer?
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Seahawk: 6:50am On Jan 15, 2018|
Adamrealman78:So you’ve been cheating on her?
I’m happy she’s smart enough to make her escape plan. I have zero sympathy for you.
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Seahawk: 6:52am On Jan 15, 2018|
Under your roof as in?
Do you consider your wife a partner and equal owner or someone under your roof? Reasonings like these are why you men aren’t having happy marriages
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Seahawk: 6:54am On Jan 15, 2018|
Yes you’re a saint but you have a woman on the side
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by judgedredd22(m): 10:28am On Jan 15, 2018|
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by judgedredd22(m): 10:30am On Jan 15, 2018|
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Diamond23(f): 11:11am On Jan 15, 2018|
[quote author=judgedredd22 post=64213059][/quote] u v been noticed, xo fuckoff nd get lost
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by judgedredd22(m): 1:07pm On Jan 15, 2018|
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