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I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Troubledmind: 10:38pm On Jan 20, 2018
Hi nairalanders, I'm pete(pseudonym), I'm 22, and a virgin, I come from an average family, I won't say I'm too handsome but I'm averagely good looking, they was a phase in my life where I was hyperactive and always drawn to the opposite sex that mere looking at a pic I get erection, this made me chased a lot of girls with different tactics( sweet mouth, dressing, money) they all rejected me despite my looks and money, I resort to porn but find it disgusting, I switched to masturbat,ion it didn't work infact nothing is enjoyable about it and sex workers are a no no for me,

after trying desperately for years to get a real girlfriend for the first time in my life I gave up on searching, I kept loosing intrest in girls, now I never get sexually aroused anymore, even when I see naked women physically or we get locked in a room I will feel nothing, the only erection I get now is the early morning erection, I'm not gay but I am really starting to get worried

Lalasticlal.a please help a brother

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Nobody: 10:42pm On Jan 20, 2018
Simple thing. Just stop work or school for 2 weeks, dont visit friends. Just remain indoor. When you dey idle with unoccupied mind, na that time you go know whether ur case need spiritual consultation or not.

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Daniel2289(m): 10:44pm On Jan 20, 2018
U are very OK because u are still very young to be thinking about girls at this your age. Why not focus on your hustle and make money for yourself. Very soon, u will see girls craving for your attention.
Just try it.

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by mhisbliss(f): 10:55pm On Jan 20, 2018
Daniel2289:
U are very OK because u are still very young to be thinking about girls at this your age. Why not focus on your hustle and make money for yourself. Very soon, u will see girls craving for your attention.
Just try it.
there you go with the wrong stereotype again, (girls are drawn to money) you're right about focusing on his hustle but wrong about the money thing, any girl that is after your money is not different from a prostitue so don't generalize, his problem is not the fact that girls aint throwing themselves at him, his fear is the fact that he's loosing his sex drive, not getting attracted to girls is a big problem, he might be transcending into homosexuality, my advice to you is try to know why those girls rejected you, you can befriend them and get acquainted to the point that they're comfortable talking to you, they'll tell you one way or the other why they rejected your advances, if you're lucky, they'll have similar reasons, looks and money isn't all you need to woo a girl I feel it has something to do with your personality so work on yourself

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by doyinisaac(m): 10:57pm On Jan 20, 2018
Pele

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by pocohantas(f): 10:59pm On Jan 20, 2018
Daniel2289:
U are very OK because u are still very young to be thinking about girls at this your age. Why not focus on your hustle and make money for yourself. Very soon, u will see girls craving for your attention.
Just try it.

You didn't see this?

"this made me chased a lot of girls with different tactics( sweet mouth, dressing, money) they all rejected me despite my looks and money"

Or you deliberately ignored it?

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by HOLYDICK(m): 11:00pm On Jan 20, 2018
R.i.P to dick op.. fare well cry

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Daniel2289(m): 11:03pm On Jan 20, 2018
mhisbliss:
there you go with the wrong stereotype again, (girls are drawn to money) you're right about focusing on his hustle but wrong about the money thing, any girl that is after your money is not different from a prostitue so don't generalize, his problem is not the fact that girls aint throwing themselves on him, his fear is the fact that he's loosing his sex drive, not getting attracted to girls is a big problem, he might be transcending into homosexuality, my advice to you is try to know why those girls rejected you, you can befriend them and get acquainted to the point that they're comfortable talking to you, they'll tell you one way or the other why the rejected your advances, if you're lucky, they'll have similar reasons, I feel it has something to do with your personality so work on yourself
U can only speak for yourself. There are girls that are drawn to money. Anyway u are right to some point.

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Daniel2289(m): 11:05pm On Jan 20, 2018
pocohantas:


You didn't see this?

"this made me chased a lot of girls with different tactics( sweet mouth, dressing, money) they all rejected me despite my looks and money"

Or you deliberately ignored it?
Hmmm!! I think I skipped this place.
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by mhisbliss(f): 11:06pm On Jan 20, 2018
Daniel2289:

U can only speak for yourself. There are girls that are drawn to money. Anyway u are right to some point.
I didn't deny it either, I'm only saying such girls aren't different from runs girls and prostitutes so don't generalize, and he even stated it clearly that he has tried enticing them with money, from his writeup its obvious money aint a problem

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by donstan18: 11:11pm On Jan 20, 2018
I have an advice, but it's a really bad and immoral idea that might help.

I'm trying to help, don't get it wrong.


Meet a prostitute, narrate this story to her and tell her to help.

She can savage your situation.

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Daniel2289(m): 11:14pm On Jan 20, 2018
mhisbliss:
I didn't deny it either, I'm only saying such girls aren't different from runs girls and prostitutes so don't generalize, and he even stated it clearly that he has tried enticing them with money, from his writeup its obvious money aint a problem
Yeah. I think he really has a problem by saying this.. ( even when I see Unclad women physically or we get locked in a room I will feel nothing). He needs to see a therapist.

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by mhisbliss(f): 11:18pm On Jan 20, 2018
Daniel2289:

Yeah. I think he really has a problem by saying this.. ( even when I see Unclad women physically or we get locked in a room I will feel nothing). He needs to see a therapist.
now you get what I'm saying

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Daniel2289(m): 11:31pm On Jan 20, 2018
mhisbliss:
now you get what I'm saying
Yeah!. I really have to read his post again.
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Xionez(m): 11:44pm On Jan 20, 2018
OP, you have nothing to worry about.
At 22, its best to concentrate on your future.

From what i read, i can interpret that you are actually frustrated at not being able to make sexual contact with a woman. The worry sets in because you feel that you should have made some since, I assume, your mates must be making such moves easily.

Masturbating, watching porn and not feeling anything shows you really want the actually contact of a woman's skin.

Also , not having an erection when you get locked up with a woman of if an unclad one walks by you only shows that they are not your specs.

Trust me, its just a phase in your life that you seem to be passing. Where you should be worried is if you finally meet your specs, she makes sexual advances to you, goes down on you...and you don't feel a thing afterwards.

At this point, its psychological. If you are desperate, then you need to see a therapist. While you are on that, try attending parties, weddings, festivals etc to increase your chances of meeting your second. Someone that will rekindle your arousal.

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Maccarthy(m): 1:14am On Jan 21, 2018
mhisbliss:
there you go with the wrong stereotype again, (girls are drawn to money) you're right about focusing on his hustle but wrong about the money thing, any girl that is after your money is not different from a prostitue so don't generalize, his problem is not the fact that girls aint throwing themselves at him, his fear is the fact that he's loosing his sex drive, not getting attracted to girls is a big problem, he might be transcending into homosexuality, my advice to you is try to know why those girls rejected you, you can befriend them and get acquainted to the point that they're comfortable talking to you, they'll tell you one way or the other why they rejected your advances, if you're lucky, they'll have similar reasons, looks and money isn't all you need to woo a girl I feel it has something to do with your personality so work on yourself
Exactly what i had in mind, he excluded his attitude which could be the major cause.

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by tsamson(m): 7:46am On Jan 21, 2018
Buy S*x doll

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by habsydiamond(m): 8:09am On Jan 21, 2018
Nigeria change don dey affect u spiritually...Ur pastor need to flash anointing into Ur life fast fast b4 it's too late

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by afonja112: 8:14am On Jan 21, 2018
tsamson:
Buy S*x doll
sharrrap your dirty mouth

There is nothing wrong with the OP. When you meet the right babe you will be fine, dont worry yourself unnecessarily. I was in your shoes a long time ago sha, I was at some point scared that maybe I was deviating, but no.

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Veraatabeh(f): 8:15am On Jan 21, 2018
Troubledmind:
Hi nairalanders, I'm pete(pseudonym), I'm 22, and a virgin, I come from an average family, I won't say I'm too handsome but I'm averagely good looking, they was a phase in my life where I was hyperactive and always drawn to the opposite sex that mere looking at a pic I get erection, this made me chased a lot of girls with different tactics( sweet mouth, dressing, money) they all rejected me despite my looks and money, I resort to porn but find it disgusting, I switched to masturbat,ion it didn't work infact nothing is enjoyable about it and sex workers are a no no for me,

after trying desperately for years to get a real girlfriend for the first time in my life I gave up on searching, I kept loosing intrest in girls, now I never get sexually aroused anymore, even when I see naked women physically or we get locked in a room I will feel nothing, the only erection I get now is the early morning erection, I'm not gay but I am really starting to get worried

Lalasticlala please help a brother
yes u re okay
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Espada10: 8:50am On Jan 21, 2018
I know your remedy( since you get money)

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by BruncleZuma: 4:06pm On Jan 21, 2018
grin grin grin grin

Your story no complete...you dey sexually attracted to males?
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by nairavsdollars(f): 4:06pm On Jan 21, 2018
try sexdolls

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Nobody: 4:07pm On Jan 21, 2018
This is easy bro, have a lot of female friends, dont try to woo any of them, trust me one or two will be attracted to you before you know it, start from there wink

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by addikt(m): 4:07pm On Jan 21, 2018
Have you checked if you have body odor? ....could be a big reason bro, might be a mouth odor as well, ODOR IS A BIG TURNOFF!!! ....as for your sex drive arousing in the morning, it means you're still a man , for you not to get aroused while with girls , you must have been suffering from low self esteem or maybe depression ....maybe I'm wrong though but it happens.

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by SalamRushdie: 4:08pm On Jan 21, 2018
mhisbliss:
there you go with the wrong stereotype again, (girls are drawn to money) you're right about focusing on his hustle but wrong about the money thing, any girl that is after your money is not different from a prostitue so don't generalize, his problem is not the fact that girls aint throwing themselves at him, his fear is the fact that he's loosing his sex drive, not getting attracted to girls is a big problem, he might be transcending into homosexuality, my advice to you is try to know why those girls rejected you, you can befriend them and get acquainted to the point that they're comfortable talking to you, they'll tell you one way or the other why they rejected your advances, if you're lucky, they'll have similar reasons, looks and money isn't all you need to woo a girl I feel it has something to do with your personality so work on yourself

Exactly ..I have never dated a girl that followed mentor money .

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by soberdrunk(m): 4:09pm On Jan 21, 2018
Young man if truly you have "absolutely" no attraction to you men then you are suffering from "post rejection depression" with a little "financial depression", when money comes your full erection and sexual desires will come back......

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by mestrophil(m): 4:09pm On Jan 21, 2018
You are ok..... Bro......nothing do you...nah mindset
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by tetralogyfallot(m): 4:10pm On Jan 21, 2018
The cause is low testosterone level otherwise called hypogonadism.

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by goingape: 4:10pm On Jan 21, 2018
Troubledmind:
Hi nairalanders, I'm pete(pseudonym), I'm 22, and a virgin, I come from an average family, I won't say I'm too handsome but I'm averagely good looking, they was a phase in my life where I was hyperactive and always drawn to the opposite sex that mere looking at a pic I get erection, this made me chased a lot of girls with different tactics( sweet mouth, dressing, money) they all rejected me despite my looks and money, I resort to porn but find it disgusting, I switched to masturbat,ion it didn't work infact nothing is enjoyable about it and sex workers are a no no for me,

after trying desperately for years to get a real girlfriend for the first time in my life I gave up on searching, I kept loosing intrest in girls, now I never get sexually aroused anymore, even when I see naked women physically or we get locked in a room I will feel nothing, the only erection I get now is the early morning erection, I'm not gay but I am really starting to get worried

Lalasticlal.a please help a brother
you are very OK!

Don't ever feel sexually attracted to those apes called naija women undecided

What you need now is to start looking for foreign girls.

I myself naija women irritate me and I have never for once feel sexually attracted to those piece of shiit angry

Try and date a wihite woman and you will know that you are very normal!

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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by pejuakinab: 4:10pm On Jan 21, 2018
Gayism dey worry u

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