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Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by lalasticlala(m): 11:20pm On Jan 22, 2018
'I filed for a divorce from my ex-husband because he was in a gay relationship & we had sex just 11 times in ten years' - OAP Freeze's fiancee Benedicta Elechi reveals in explosive interview

In a new explosive and exclusive interview with Linda Ikeji TV, OAP Freeze's fiancee, Benedicta Elechi revealed all she went through in her marriage to Mr. Paul Odekina, the executive general manager of Human Resource at Total E&P Nigeria Limited.

The C.E.O of TasteBudz Real Naija Cooking and Dictachi Foods Nigeria Ltd, who stopped by to talk to about her food business, spoke on her failed marriage which produced three children.

An emotional Elechi who couldn't contain her emotions, during the interview said she filed for a divorce from her husband because of his 'sexual perversion.' She said during their union they only made love just eleven times in 10 years, until she caught her husband red-handed in gay sex with a man in their living room.

Read an excerpt from the interview below.

LIB: When asked why she filed a divorce from her ex-husband, Mr. Paul Odekina of Total E&P.

Benedicta: I filed for a divorce from him because of his sexual perversion and there's a point where you get to as a human being when you realise that something or what is your aim is never going to work.
Because when I signed a contract to marry him, I believed I was marrying a man that shared the same type of sexuality with me.

Don't get me wrong, I do not have any issues with people that have different sexual orientation but when you come and say you want to get into a marriage contract with someone, you both have to share the same sexual orientation.

So when you get into that marriage and find out it wasn't what you bargained for, it's like you were tricked into the marriage. The marriage is a sham.

For example, we got married in 2002, I filed for a divorce 2012. For the period of 10-years that we were married, we actually had sexual intercourse just 11 times in 10 years. He never let me sleep in his room, I have to stay in my own room.

He would only come to see me when he thinks we should make a baby.

Way into the marriage, I caught him red-handed in gay sex. I walked into him in our living room, at about 1:30, 1:40am with a guy I didn't really know. But he obviously walked in with that person at that time of the night, and I walked into them in our living.

I can tell you it was a struggle. You are living in a society where as a woman you have to do everything you can to preserve your marriage. You can come out of it, you just have to pray, God can change things.

There are certain things that we need to know when God is talking to you. It's a little bit emotional for me because there are a lot of women out there that have gone through what I went through and they can't come out.

I'm sorry, but there are a lot of reasons I never wanted to do an interview. The pain that I went through is real and it can only take a lifetime to forget.

LIB: Did you talk to your family or anybody about it?

Benedicta: When you feel that marriage is something both parties have to work on, You don't want to bring a third party into it, so you can give him some time to change and pray about it.

And this is him begging you constantly, don't leave me. If you do that am going to kill myself. I will commit suicide, I don't want you to tell my parents or your parents about it. I promise you I'm going to change.

You would desperately believe that this person is going to change because you want your marriage to work, and you just find that the years are going by, you are in it, you can't come out.

Who do you really want to tell? It's a stigma and then you have kids, you don't want them to be laughed at in school.

LIB: But do have any evidence to back up your claims he was in a gay relationship while you were married to him?

Benedicta: There were some text messages I saw on his phone which he sent to a man he actually brought home for dinner I made for them.

When I saw the text messages on his phone, I was livid. I had to confront him with it. You can't bring someone to the house and tell me he's a guest that I should entertain him, and this is actually what you do, this is the kind of relationship you have with this person.

Why are you punishing me, and why are you doing this to me. If you know this marriage is a sham, then let me go.

When I saw the text I had to wake up from the couch. I confronted him and he went all crazy on me. He said I have no right to pick up his phone. I told him I had no airtime on my phone and wanted to make a call with his. He said I have no right to go through his phone.

I said to him, is this what you really do, you would bring somebody to the house, for me to feed for dinner and this is it. You are in a sexual relationship with this guy."



Meanwhile, OAP Freeze and Benedicta who have been together for several years have a son together.

Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2018/1/lib-exclusive-i-filed-for-a-divorce-from-my-ex-husband-because-he-was-in-a-gay-relationship-we-had-sex-just-11-times-in-ten-years-oap-freezes-fiancee-benedicta-elechi-reveals-in-explosive-interview.html

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by beycity(m): 11:23pm On Jan 22, 2018
"cat sleep, rat go bite im taily oh.... wahala e dey find...... wahala e go get ohhh"

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by bedspread: 11:24pm On Jan 22, 2018
Hmmmm..... But Freeze might be a worse hubby...... cos the Curses he has carried by insulting a man of GOD might be too much for u to handle......Especially on your son ...,,

Sins of the Father usually continues and transfers on the children

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by MrHistorian: 11:29pm On Jan 22, 2018
Modified! undecided

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by mccoy47(m): 11:29pm On Jan 22, 2018
Jesu!

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by Dshocker(m): 11:30pm On Jan 22, 2018
Who cares

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by donstan18(m): 11:30pm On Jan 22, 2018
So long as I know that someone paid you to say this, all i'll have to say is... FREETHESHEEPLE


No micro-fvck given to your claims


FREETHESHEEPLE

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by MorataFC: 11:30pm On Jan 22, 2018
We know nao

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by Mandynews(f): 11:30pm On Jan 22, 2018
"we actually had sexual intercourse just 11 times in 10 years. He never let me sleep in his room, I have to stay in my own room."

For good 10 years you were busy counting how many times he slept with you? we all knew about his gay-ism tongue He's the best friend to Hushpuppi.

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by Frank3n2(m): 11:30pm On Jan 22, 2018
Jesu!!
Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by momodub: 11:30pm On Jan 22, 2018
Oya come defend yourself
Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:30pm On Jan 22, 2018
shame on pastorpreneurs.

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by MorataFC: 11:30pm On Jan 22, 2018
Dshocker:
Who cares
huuh

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by despi64(m): 11:31pm On Jan 22, 2018
gay smh
Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by 247TechBlog(m): 11:31pm On Jan 22, 2018
Hmmmmmmm

He knew you would be home, then he brought a gay guy to the same house?

This story no dey add up

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by JusticePlanet: 11:31pm On Jan 22, 2018
ok
Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by skillful10(m): 11:31pm On Jan 22, 2018
He who lives in the covfefe should not throw stones

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by Shayneward1: 11:31pm On Jan 22, 2018
Why is she exposing him like this, all these stupid ladies.

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by deafeyez: 11:32pm On Jan 22, 2018
Let me dig for more revelations.

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by Alezy(m): 11:32pm On Jan 22, 2018
Modified
Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by LordAdam16: 11:32pm On Jan 22, 2018
Some IDIOTS would not read the interview comprehensively before commenting.

She was talking about her failed marriage to Paul Odekina.

OAP Freeze's name is Ifedayo Olarinde.

Had to drop this before the religious scammers start their nonsense.

-Lord

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by MorataFC: 11:33pm On Jan 22, 2018

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by dapsoneh: 11:33pm On Jan 22, 2018
Hmmmmmm... Pastors at work... But wait man, only 11 times in 10 years and 3 children, yet u stayed that long.... Its not adding up mam

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by Sarah20A(f): 11:33pm On Jan 22, 2018
Who una two epp tongue
Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by fortune5351(m): 11:34pm On Jan 22, 2018
It's okay
Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jan 22, 2018
if she got married in 2002 and got divorced in 2012,how old is she now?

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jan 22, 2018
So Freeze, over to you. Be ready for steady sex or we go read about you later on Nairaland front-page. grin

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by IYANGBALI: 11:34pm On Jan 22, 2018
She even dey count am

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by Osu175(m): 11:34pm On Jan 22, 2018
My chakazulu don't even stand attention when he sees a bony girl, let alone a man.

this gay stuff must have a serious Mistery behind it

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Re: Benedicta Elechi: Paul Odekina Is Gay, I Divorced Him, We Had Sex 11 Times Only by hardeycute: 11:35pm On Jan 22, 2018
MrHistorian:
Hypocritical Nigerians!!!!!!

Israel is one of the most homosexual friendly countries in the world.

Use your head,Homosexual does not cripple economy.
What else can I say?You have said it all.


How can sexual preference be a determinant of development? It is a pity I find myself in this shithole country

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