oyb:


grrr. . .you beat me to it

what is really sad is that the fellow involved is tainted

he clearly has anger management issues, and this will come up in any future interviews/job hunts
no one wants an employee who can be provoked into fighting especially when on the job
lord knows many of us have come across pricks whose smug entitled faces/stomachs we would love to kick in; but you can only do that via business tactics, not violence

mischievous women pull this shi-t all the time. i remember some 13 years ago one morning i was with some people trying to get on a bus. this lady grabs the strap of my bag for support as she tries to get into the bus. the bag was a very expensive bag, and i was very angry. when we were seated, i challenged her. she first tried some silly feminine smiling, then when she saw i was not having that, she started screaming. very disgusting

As at this morning,the guy has filed a law suit against her. She has been served.


Public apology and 5million naira compensation.

JeffreyJamez:




As at this morning,the guy has filed a law suit against her. She has been served.


Public apology and 5million naira compensation.

Yayyyyy.

We are yet to hear the real truth yet you are already condemning ur fellow woman.
SMH.
Pathetic.
Any of them can be right or wrong, so lay low sweery, let the truth explode.
Some Men can do and undo.

Amarabae:
We are yet to hear the real truth yet you are already condemning ur fellow woman.
SMH.
Pathetic.
Any of them can be right or wrong, so lay low sweery, let the truth explode.
Some Men can do and undo.

cheap blackmail, leave he gender out of it....the Driver is a human being like me, a Nigerian like me as well.

Why don't we focus on the issue and not the gender?

Amarabae:
We are yet to hear the real truth yet you are already condemning ur fellow woman.
SMH.
Pathetic.
Any of them can be right or wrong, so lay low sweery, let the truth explode.
Some Men can do and undo.

You also haven't heard the real truth yet you are already siding with the woman just because you are of the same gender. Shame on you

safarigirl:
cheap blackmail, leave he gender out of it....the Driver is a human being like me, a Nigerian like me as well.

Why don't we focus on the issue and not the gender?

God bless you real good

Ten Gbosaas for you

safarigirl:
Over the last few days, social media has been awash with stories of a 'rape/kidnap' incident between a certain Miss Dorcas Shola Fapson and a Taxify driver

I will not go into details of the altercation because we must all be familiar with it at this point, however, I want to touch on a recurring topic that arose from this incident once again

Feminism.

This altercation made me realize that mist Nigerian 'feminists' do not know what feminism is about

Ladies, feminism is about promoting Gender Equality, not Gender Superiority. It is not an us against them theory. It is a do to Paula as you would have done to Paul theory. A feminist is not one who will blindly support a woman, just because she is a woman and 'women should stick together' that is not what feminism is about.

The ridiculousness of the arguments of self-acclaimed feminists concerning that altercation was befuddling. How do you ignore COMMON SENSE and support LIES just because you are a woman and women have been 'oppresssed' by men.

Ladies, we should not be blind to the faults of our fellow women. Believe it or not, the more you stand for shady women, the more feminism is defeated. The actions of these women of questionable character reflect badly upon ALL of us.

Even worse, is the constant, disgusting blackmail tactics many women use to guilt trip sensible people into standing for foolishness:

This will happen to you tomorrow

I can't believe women are standing up for this guy

It could be your mother or sister....

These are some of the rhetorics these people use to drag women into their nonsense arguments and shaky platforms

If your sister frames a man up for doing something he did not do, you should have enough integrity to condemn her actions. That man is someone's brother, son, boyfriend, husband or father and he deserves his own fair hearing, he deserves his own supporters. Everyone should not run to the woman's side because she is the 'weaker vessel'

Today, we look back on that incident and take sides because both parties came out alive, but things could have turned awry in some other situation.

Dorcas accused that man of RAPE, it is not a light accusation, it is destiny-altering. What if that incident had happened during the day when people were around, what if her rape accusation had been taken seriously by people? That man could have lost his life for nothing, just like the ALUU 4 boys lost theirs seven years ago. He would have died and no one would hear his side of the story because the dead don't speak

We bless God that both parties are alive today, but we should take cognizance that tomorrow, this could happen to someone else. Another inocsnt man, just trying to hustle and improve his lot in life will be unwittingly caught in an altercation with some paranoid, stubborn, mannerless female and will be falsely accused and the confused feminists will take the stand with their erring sister because "women should stand for each other"

I am a woman

I refuse to stand for lies, I refuse to stand for cheap blackmail, I refuse to stand for dishonesty and I refuse to stand against men to favour inconsistencies


Nigerian feminists, STOP playing the VICTIM and maybe some day, all women will get the respect they DESERVE. We are not always the victims.


PS: I wasn't sure which section was most appropriate for this and I haven't written any articles in a while, so, forgive any errors.

Well said from someone who understands Feminism. Feminism is not chauvinism. Good one, op.


http://www.mortalpoet.com/men-chill-feminism-not-think/

SpareNo1:
Atleast, I'm having to agree on something with this op.

This is on point

Egbon, I was thinking na you be Teddy A for BBnaija oh. See how you look alike

Hahaha Hope the Teddy A fine well sha lol

Mariinee:
Egbon, I was thinking na you be Teddy A for BBnaija oh. See how you look alike

SpareNo1:
Hahaha Hope the Teddy A fine well sha lol

Yeskeh,that's why I said you look like him keh.

Op is so much on point. Feminism is more about equality and fairness but for naija its all about war against men. Some Women who are the bread winners in their families turning their husbands into domestic house husband. A woman go carry cigar dey smoke while watching the man as e dey clean the kitchen or sweep the house,...shouting at her husband and handing him dirty slaps in public or when he's in the midst of his friends,shouting at him to go to the kitchen to prepare dinner and if he says let him escort his friend first, u will threaten to cease the monthly allowance u give to him . Naija feminism is all about war and jawjaw with men .

So much knowledge in one thread apart from some female wannabee who claims she is married and yet still run after romancelander boys


Smh

I have written, also on NL, that for claims such as rape, murder or kidnap (which could be difficult to prove), there should be full sentence given one way or the other.
From boy-child abuse to a practical disbelief by even Christian mothers that stories like the Biblical Joseph & Portiphar's wife are real, there is a lack of awareness that the woman is sometimes the aggressor. Torn clothes, injuries and even actual medical penetration may not be enough definitive proof.

She was told to get down or be transported. She chose to be transported.

If there were a law that sentences false accusation at par with sentence for actual crime, I believe there wouldn't be a misplaced feminist movement in the first place.

Ride with the mob...

SpareNo1:
Hahaha Hope the Teddy A fine well sha lol

LadyGoddiva:
Ride with the mob...

k

WHAdid I do

SpareNo1:
k

LadyGoddiva:
WHAdid I do

You refused to fvck

How refreshing it is to finally see someone who's a true feminist, a far cry from all the shallow-minded misandrists shouting their silly heads off and littering our cyberspace with utter trash.