If that's the kinda a lady his willing to spend the rest of his life with, he should continue.. After knowing what to do, you are here asking nasty question. Who is gonna stay in the marriage with him here? So the ball is in his court! Marrying out of pity and what will people say, that's a no no!
Smh

ndy87:


Not all ladies are cheats o. Good ones are still out there. I have never double dated in my life. And I won't.....

how many are there?

let me ask you: whats the difference between a girl who goes from one to the next practically every 3months and another who is double dating and another who just collects cash per do?

to me all are SHESHEWO!

SHARING , SEARCHING, TESTING, LOVING.. SELLING

all na the same.. DONT DO ! SIMPLE

Is your friend intending to father and nurture bastard kids after his wedding to that creature?
If yes, then he can go ahead.

delors:
U know the funny thing about stories about catching your partner in the act? Why is it that he came home when they were in bed? I mean were they funking all day since he travelled? How come they were not just relaxing in 5he sitting room after banging the shhhiiit outta each other? Or that she's in the kitchen making after-seex meal for the dude and the did is just in the sitting room in boxers shorts alone etc etc.. How come he walked straight into the bedroom and caught then right in the act?

Anyways, if this is true I feel sorry for the guy...Gid forgive me but it's hard to trust any girl who's not super koko spiritual...even spiritual girls gan are no saints but mehn any girl who's got a bit of flex in her no matter how modest she dresses is a sheep in wolf's jeans. This is coming from personal experiences.

Hahaahahaha hahahah hahaahahaha.....my belly o. Any girl who got a bit of flex in her is liable to be a sheep in wolf's top.

MUYEEKFIRST:
I knew it, she is a Christian all Christian ladies are olosho

Is this what you're being taught in your mosque?

Man, money is not everything. you're feeding her mouth and ignored her pussy, that maybe the case.
but if not
Why wasting your money on shameful woman? if you're to spend all the money you can cancel bro, you don't need that relationship, if she is to spend all the money think twice before you cancel oh.

Freijcindy:
Some people here can’t read to understand, they just read half way and start saying thrash ... this is my advise , Atleast he is very sure that no more marrying her but for excuse to tell friends and family , just tell them you changed your mind and your reasons are personal to you ... cover her the shame ... she will live for the rest of her life to regret it ...

it will be wise he speaks up cos if he don't, the girl's parents will blame him for wasting their daughte's time,the girl's friends will tag him a fukboy, while the guests invited will tag him as a man who just got coldfeet over marriage..he should speak up and clear his mind.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z3ClHP-Yzg4

I would save her disgrace bcus that's disgrace to her family especially her mother. So i would marry her and would not tell anybody. But after wedding, I will make her life miserably unbearly to the point that I would do another simple secret wedding only with my parents' knowledge.

I will inflict the worse possible pain on her that she will pack out by herself and confess herself to people. shameful woman.

Wetin dey worry dis guy self, instead him for dey dance shorky say him public wife don give am reasons to cancel wedding e dey here talk rada rada.

Next2Bezee:
He is still thinking marriage when he has already been lucky enough to see the real face of the adulterer he planned to marry?

If he still decides to marry her, that is his cross to carry. If he were smart, he'd tell his parents and her parents the truth, cancel the wedding and tell curious guests the truth as well.

The cheating fiance will be disgraced. Which is less than what she really deserves.

d guy sound lik a soft guy.dt y is nt gud 2 b gud 2 ladies b wise 2 dem.nd 4 we guys e no wise 2 dey playful/informal wit ur guy babe.dey formal.because many ladies sumtyms hav a thing or temptatn 4 their guy friend.hw e start is wen d relatnship is getting old nt stale nd u d guy friend dey mak am laugh even wen u nn get bad thin 4 mind.smal smal she gn start 2 dey giv u greenlight.dt y u c guy men always keep a distance.

ndy87:


Not all ladies are cheats o. Good ones are still out there. I have never double dated in my life. And I won't.....

So u f4ck one dick at a time

The lady is only worried about shame and insult. Trust is the bedrock of marriage. Where there's no trust, there's no marriage.

If i were to be in your friend's shoes, i will kick her to the curb. Three weeks will be enough for me send notice of the cancellation to invited guests. I will also tell both parents the reason for my action. Well the money spent on the wedding, i can't do anything about, take it as a bad investment and move on.

You have done the right thing. Anytime you catch your fiancée in bed with the best man go straight to Nairaland they will sort it out for you

delors:
U know the funny thing about stories about catching your partner in the act? Why is it that he came home when they were in bed? I mean were they funking all day since he travelled? How come they were not just relaxing in 5he sitting room after banging the shhhiiit outta each other? Or that she's in the kitchen making after-seex meal for the dude and the did is just in the sitting room in boxers shorts alone etc etc.. How come he walked straight into the bedroom and caught then right in the act?

Anyways, if this is true I feel sorry for the guy...Gid forgive me but it's hard to trust any girl who's not super koko spiritual...even spiritual girls gan are no saints but mehn any girl who's got a bit of flex in her no matter how modest she dresses is a sheep in wolf's jeans. This is coming from personal experiences.

you think it can't be possible?. Did you hear of 39yr old US guy who caught his wife in bed in her boss house?. He couldn't find his iphone so he activated Google tracking and tracked his phone to the man's house. Luckily the man didn't close the door. He walked in and caught them in bed. He put it on camera while the her boss screamed at him to get out of his house. The worst part is that the husband is sentenced to jail for burglary, tresspassing etc.

Read it here. A lot is happening under the sun bro
https://www.concisenews.global/tabloid/man-charged-court-catching-cheating-wife/

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I am amazed that you guys are buying this BS, people that have sex with their partner without fear of being caught knows when the door to their house is opened not to talk of someone cheating plus how stupid would one be to have sex in the house of your fiance few weeks to the wedding. Made up twitter story if you ask me but then again no one is asking me

There are unforgivable sins and men or women who want to live longer must enforce them.

Well,Brethrens in THE WORLD,my comments are in verses.
Vrs 1. The story sound so untrue.they said d bros used is own set of keys to get into d house.this can only be possible of d couple(u knw d couple na) removed their own key from d door as they were going into za oza room.(have u ever tried opening a door while a key is still in d keyhole from d oda side)
Vrs 2.If it all happens to be true(afterall they say 1 single mosquito can fall a fully loaded Airbus)the first thing d guy needs to do is sack his event planner and employ me as the new planner for the wedding.Then,The guy shd call d couple to a private meeting,let dem know how disappointed and betrayed he felt,but as things are,he just have to forgive dem,cos d day must go on to save all their families from shame.
Vrs 3. He should look for more money for more publicity and to make d wedding bigger dan d initial plan.
Vrs 4. He shd go home to his own mum,tell her d whole truth but tell her to calm down and keep praying for d wedding.
Vrs 5. Fast forward to the wedding week,if the guy is rich enough,let him send his mum on a week-long shopping trip in Dubai,(yes,mama need to miss this wedding),then the guy,d best man and d babe with as many of the babe's family as they can find,they shd all move to one nice hotel from Thursday.On Friday,the guy shd contact the event planner to confirm if everything is ready for the big day.
Vrs 6. On the wedding day.the guy and his entourage leaves for the church,and the bride's entourage comes in shortly after.
A few minutes into d service,d guy goes out to use the rest room,and from there,he join his driver outside.on their way back to the hotel,he will call me and I will join them at the hotel with my own entourage of 1st class "hoeloeshoos",we throw the girl's load and that of her family members out of their hotel rooms and replace them with my own escorts,1 to each room,2 in my own room and 3 of the best in d guy's room.
We then proceed to throw a big near nude pool party.whatever happens at the church or the hotel gate later no concern us.
Vrs 7. Finally,the following Sunday,we proceed to that same church for a massive thanksgiving.
HAPPY WEDDING IN ADVANCE MY BROTHER AND FUTURE CLIENT.
P.s nairaland and Lindaikejisblog must cover the wedding day and thanksgiving by force!!!(cos na jeje I dey fight mosquito for my room,wen nairaland gimme d gist.)

HELLO GOOD PEOPLE OF NAIRALAND,I'm d new guy around here and we'll have a lot of sensible fun together.

Now assuming this story is real, Best to tell the girl to inform everyone she is not doing again, her spirit doesn't carry it and let everyone believe she broke your heart, which she did but just let the real story be between you guys

Chari4:
I am amazed that you guys are buying this BS, people that have sex with their partner without fear of being caught knows when the door to their house is opened not to talk of someone cheating plus how stupid would one be to have sex in the house of your fiance few weeks to the wedding. Made up twitter story if you ask me but then again no one is asking me

U get sense my brother abi na sister u be.would have sounded more understandable if the author said they forgot to lock d door.
I mean if u don ever bleep a girl for her own apartment self,u go know sey man fit respond to ANY sound at d speed of light...not to talk of doing a girl in her fiancee's apartment 3 weeks to dia weeding.a wedding wia u r to be d best man....talking from experience sha!

This is a simple case. He should just cancel the event, then tell all the reason why.

goldcoinhub:
Just three weeks to walking down the aisle with his fiancee, a Nigerian man was heartbroken to stumble upon a dirty secret between his heartthrob and his best man.

It was gathered that the man’s girlfriend of 5 years was sleeping with his best man. Here’s @Jenniieey’s tweets;





https://lailasnews.com/nigerian-man-finds-fiancee-sleeping-best-man-3-weeks-wedding/

Another story wey dey make man weak.

This is why I don't waste time wooing any lady cos the lady you are having headache over is a s.x toy for another guy...

This marriage thing sef

The matter be like one film dat i watch,rita dominic and desmond elliot acted it.if this is tru, tank yhur GOD for opening/showing d akuna matata wife dat yhu wanna marry,there is no need to hide anytin frm ur mum,her mum n everyone dat suppose to be at the wedding.tell eveyone wat she did n i the wedding must nt hold.

He has to cancel, its just a wedding, if he tells his mum, then she would back him up.

But if I were the guy I will continue with the wedding and even print more invites and if possible announce on media.

And on the DDAY I will burst her bubble and announce to everyone present what I saw...and I will simply walk out of the hall.

Needs no counseling! Cancel the wedding. Nonsense!

U have just witness one of d signs of a wrong person to live with for d rest of ur life . She is not remorse but to tell d mum it was a fight. Save urself n break off before she break u down totally

ndy87:


Not all ladies are cheats o. Good ones are still out there. I have never double dated in my life. And I won't.....

I have heard this line several times from ladies who are comfirmed chronic cheats.

Which kind Love,bro call it off, tell your parents,let your parent tell her parents, from your end, contact your guests and tell them of the wedding cancellation and they (your suppose inlaws) would stop their guest from coming. You both can stop guest from coming. Only few may not hear the cancellation. Set up people in the venue to attend to the few guest that you would see there. It May not be easy with you,but I assure you would find love again

Stay away from marriage so your life will be long in the land.

It is the fakest thing under the sun...followed by religion.