cococandy:
hey you

djon78:
For all those ladies saying lack of ambition, that is not true. Most of those ladies go on with their careers. My wife is doing Bsc Nursing, she still wanted to get married, was 25 when we married, I am late 30s. Still give birth to our babies, soon finish her studies, has a very loving caring, supporting and understanding husband, still is a home maker.

It is all those ambitions that has left the carnage we are seeing today. Women focus on career, by the time they feel they are ready, it may get harder. And the scary thing is that most guys now go for younger women because, of high fertility and submission, because majority of those career ones they can't even listen to you. Unlike my wife, she is very submissive, obedient and loyal, obeys every instruction she is given innocently not questioning you.

I am not coming here to mock anyone, in fact it pains my heart when I see what is going on. That's why I always advised my younger ones and relations. Once as a young woman, men are hovering around you, be wise, close your legs, prayerfully and watchingly chose among them and marry and go and use this your youth and born for your husband. Simple people should not pay attention to some vekry dangerous cultures allien to us that our people have copied. The two girls I senior, my mama no give them space at all, she made sure they married immediately after graduation. One a doctor the other works as a top manager in a leading Telecom company in V I Lagos and they are happy today with children, loving husbands, and still career women. So let's stop all these. Young women be wise. Martured ones I pray God see you through

PDPGuy:

What’s up dear

cococandy:

Just meh.

How was your super bowl weekend? So much hype around here. I don’t even get it.

desreek9:



So you this guy your married and you're saying nonsense to me today abi, smellos

PDPGuy:


I had fun yesterday, only because the Eagles won. When they took the lead in the first quarter, I didn’t celebrate much because I knew Tom Brady could do some magic in the 4th quarter and steal victory from defeat, like he did last year.

I ordered some Chinese food with drinks, just to ‘calm’ myself if my team lost, again, to the Patriots. But this time, Tom Brady was powerless.

MIKOLOWISKA:
no wahala,the wall is waiting and it no send your akant.
if you marry a useless man it means you're also useless,disrespectful,unfaithful and very very stupid or despe..see only stupid ppl marry stupid ppl

YOUNGrapha:
AMA-DI-HOT I WANT US TO UN-GHOST OUR SELF

ShyCypher:



She's past 30 already.
Just like cococandy, she has 2 more years till menopause.

gloria34:
i disagree, I've seen good women marry to wolfs in sheep clothing. I don't intend to argue more on dis issue, every1 is entitled to his\her own opinion

cococandy:

Lol see? It’s like French to me. No clue.

Besides I was in advanced cardiac life support class almost all freaking day.
I’m glad it’s over. Now we can celebrate normal things like valentines.

Although I’m very glad you had fun

MIKOLOWISKA:
you can disagree all you want
won't change the fact,being meek,dumbb,unintelligent,emotional,illogical,lazy,desperate or plain stupid with low self esteem does'nt equal good.if you are not these aforementioned you will easily spot and avoid wolves even if they wear lambs cloth

MIKOLOWISKA:
you can disagree all you want
won't change the fact,being meek,dumbb,unintelligent,emotional,illogical,lazy,desperate or plain stupid with low self esteem does'nt equal good.if you are not these aforementioned you will easily spot and avoid wolves even if they wear lambs cloth

gloria34:
can u mind ur business now? u can't force me to accept ur opinion na

PDPGuy:


I'll be watching Champions League football (soccer) that day

The advanced cardiac life support class sounds intense, and for only smart folks like you. I doubt I would survive the first day of the class

Gamesmart:


Yes, older guys go for small girls but as you will be a doctor try and incorporate knowledge of nutrition and exercise in your learning so you can compete with the small girls too when you are ready.

It is good you are aiming not to be a liability.

HeyBee27:
Seconded,how can a sane single guy marry a lady who is above 30 as a wife?

Kennybix:
So I have been following this topic since yesterday.

I must say that guys should stop 'carrying this topic on top their head'.

I'm of the opinion that everyone is entitled to live his/her life. I guess that's one thing I like about westerners; they mind their businesses and don't porknose into other people's affairs.

Also, I am attracted to only matured and career oriented ladies; they are less drama. I wouldn't even date a lady that's is still struggling with school. I think they should concentrate and not be disturbed.

It's a busy world, please let's get to work and stop shillyshallying about this topic.

safarigirl:
Marrying a guy above 30 must be the same

TreasuredGlory:
Be careful cos no one knows tomorrow. People including me have made some derogatory comments/remarks about people and later found myself in that same situation. Fear God. He alone has the final and only say about people. My piece.

Blacckrod:
Lol so this is where the term “EVENING NEWSPAPER” came from?

charain:

I just pity some guys who thinks, the younger the better. Most ladies below 27 arenot fit for
marriage because they are still "exploring". They give nothing but drama.

LordBaelish:


You think marriage ain't a big deal in Tier 1 countries? guess again.

The idea that African values are backwards is just shameful. What made American values useful? Do Asians give a Fvck about those? SMH

LordBaelish:


Reason why I used that analogy is because you don't want someone who's just "settling" for you. because if her spec comes, bye bye.

The idea of people being young and immature is just a generalisation. Maturity comes from exposure and life experiences

streamsofjoy:


Most of them aren't. Just the few are and for that few if God does not help, the ambition will either die or be delayed.
And if the husband does not support. Let's be frank sir, most men who go for small girls are made and busy men who need to settle down and have their own kids, so they dnt need another busy or ambitious person in the house. They only need a WIFE not PARTNER

but wait o! our girls starts slaying from age 15, sleeps with assorted teachers n headmasters through secondary school, area boys get their full share, university empties the brezst, BBnaija takes its cut, Nysc frenzy fvcking bastardizes the kpekus more, Facebook/social media hoeing takes its toll....and so on, so at 35 or +, the unfortunate husband is actually buying tokunbo or better still, 'a vandalised pipeline.' (evening newspaper)

streamsofjoy:


Kk, I get u now. But funny enough, these older guys go for small girls. That's by the way.
One of the reasons I would want to be a Lil established is not to be a financial liability. So, if I, on my own I have money I wouldn't be looking so much for a guy with plenty money-cos I have the money already. I'd rather go for a hardworking, intelligent and any guy I knw I can do life with. And not someone who will bear all my liabilities. That's my idea.