No matter how anyone tries to rationalise this, it's a very wicked act.

The excuse that men cheat around with these women doesn't fly.

The decision to cheat, get pregnant and keep the child is solely that of the woman. The repercussion of such actions should be hers too.

The man has a large heart.

tensazangetsu20:
Men should do DNA test for their kids it's very cheap.

Cheap like how much?

desoul2004:


Cheap like how much?

It's like 60k now. Even if it's 1 million training and raising someone's child from 0 to even 18 years will cost more than a million in school fees talk less of feeding and miscellaneous. Do a DNA test as the child is born before you even sign the birth certificate.

ladygudhead:
Lol oh coco you are sounding like you are guilty of such too. Dont u think if some1 had 'amebod' in the past all that would have been prevented. I'm sure who knew then did not want to be taggered 'the amebo'. gudmorning love!

Yea I’m guilty. My first son belongs to the gateman.

Blackfyre:


Obviously, you know nothing about me. If you did, you wouldn't ask me that question.

I do not condone cheating from either sexes, it is bad and especially bad for the child born outside wedlock. This man here just has enough large heart to put the interest and concern of the boy first and ignore his ego or pain.

Mmm: I’ll take your words for it until I catch you in action defending make cheaters. Until then keep up the good work. As of now, I don’t send anymore.

cococandy:

Mmm: I’ll take your words for it until I catch you in action defending make cheaters. Until then keep up the good work. As of now, I don’t send anymore.

Terribly funny someone thinks she will catch me defending male cheaters...

You see why it's necessary for one to be careful about their choice of life partners? A lot of evil go on in this world now.

God help us. And may I never be this cruel, selfish and secretive to my husband.

And may we never turn each other to monsters & start competing for who will be more heartless.

cococandy:
So all women are bad because of what this woman did?
Are you willing to accept responsibility for the actions of other men?

This story is an excuse for you sorry ass misogynistic buffoons to come and vent. carry on.
Cry me a river

I have personal experience with this, okay? So I know where I am coming from. Aproko.

I have said it and I will keep saying it no matter how much I love or trust my wife DNA most take place Without her notice for All my children Women Hmmm.

Blackfyre:


Terribly funny someone thinks she will catch me defending male cheaters...

okay. I’m subliminally happy and hoping I won’t

braine:


I have personal experience with this, okay? So I know where I am coming from. Aproko.

so you experienced all women?

This man has just taken the best of all options.
He is definitely going through a rough heart aches, but knowing that there is no fault from the little boy whom he had always know as his son bring consolation.
Women are not helping themselves and their offsprings.

cococandy:
so you experienced all women?

I dont need to have experience to know this. A handful sample size I have had is enough to justify my assertion. It may be very accrurate. But at least, you have an idea.

Nice one...

DNA tests do not break families it even cements their bonds.


For reliable DNA tests please click on my username and check our signature for our contact numbers and office addresses.

Hell no!!!!! she cheated on me & I even had to take care of the other guys son

braine:


I dont need to have experience to know this. A handful sample size I have had is enough to justify my assertion. It may be very accrurate. But at least, you have an idea.

mmm I see

I can't!... in fact I'll pray not to deal with the lady.

simplemach:
Same also is the case of many here in Nigeria, Just they are hidden. Especially gate men and drivers, the women will explain better

Pass a thousand Nigerians through a lie detector interview, and you will see that 99.99% haven't seen anyone let alone themselves had any personal experience of the gateman-sleeping-with-madam bull-crap that has so saturated our psyche.
I laugh seeing young men hoping against hope to someday meet that older s*x-starved cougar lady.
I burst their fantasy bubble by telling them "We are a very classs-conscious society, even if a lady wants to cheat, she will most likely do it with someone her class or higher...so, boy, go and make money!"

ladygudhead:
I personally knw of an aunt dat has done this same bullsh1t 4 yrs.The son is a grown man now but does'nt knw his real root.Wheneva i see him i just pity him 4 not knwing dat d man he bears his name n has called father all his life is not his real dad, Gross wickedness on part of d mother! To even think dat he is originally 4rm an entirely diff ethnic group hmm (smh). Na promiscuity dey cos all this kind things, notin else. Ok don't ask me hw i got 2 knw such secret ...

Please tell us how you got to know. We might learn a lesson or two.

cococandy:
You’re an amebo. Nobody cares. Least of all the guy in question

Amebo, how? It seems you are the type of lady that would do same to a man. It's the height of wickedness to have a man raise a child you know is not his. Then when he is getting old, you inform him that he is not the father.

ladygudhead:
Lol oh coco you are sounding like you are guilty of such too. Dont u think if some1 had 'amebod' in the past all that would have been prevented. I'm sure who knew then did not want to be taggered 'the amebo'. gudmorning love!

Yep. She will obviously do same to a man, if she has not done that already.

Hahahah lets fish them out

cococandy:

Yea I’m guilty. My first son belongs to the gateman.

That explains your reaction. Please let your husband know asap.

Ladyhippolyta88:
See them women are this and that this is just one in few cases.What is the difference when a woman also discovers her husband had kids outside and she didn't know.The man should take heart the bond is there already and the child would love you.

my dear, I have learnt to Ignor their stupid generalizing. if it were d other way round, d woman should forgive but since its a woman, all women are demons.

cococandy:

He’s just trying to promote his misogynistic forum or whatever nonsense that website is.
They will go there and share ideas on how to mistreat women, perfect their blame game and give each pats on the back for abusive behavior. Even subtly encourage rape.

One of such male-only websites was recently exposed (I don’t remember what it’s called) and it was appalling the kinds of things they share among themselves there.

yet they speak of how bad d future is going to b because of how bad women her. such persons might end up with broken marriages because of their mindset and will still blame their wives

Only the woman knows the true paternity of the child/children!

Ariel20:


Maybe you are dumb... Did a "cheating woman" sleep with herself.... Is it not with someone who is obviously a cheat and a man. Stupid African man with their repressive mentality.

no o! all men are angels

poseidon12:


Please tell us how you got to know. We might learn a lesson or two.

For some reasons i will not like to say every here on the net but if you still curious to know u can call the number on my signature. and i'm sorry about Adolf.

Hmmm o ga oo

cococandy:


unfortunately, one can’t happen without the other. The more you promote male philandering, the more you people father kids for other men. I don’t feel sorry for any man who raises kids that are not his unless he has been faithful to his wife since he got married. Otherwise, he’s raising another man’s child while another is probably raising his. It’s a community project

By the way our ‘wise’ forefathers used to say “it takes a village to raise a child”.

cococandy! I just luv d babe

Not on my life. I no dey do. After all, fatherhood appears to be a thankless job, especially with today's breed of women.
Same Jezebelian breed tried this poo with me, but was exposed by the diligence of my ancestors.

poseidon12:


Yep. She will obviously do same to a man, if she has not done that already.

lol don't believe her jor. i have another interesting story of how a lady's long hidden true identity was found ...too bad i can't type long.