ekensi01:
They are treated the way they chase after money.

I don't need to explain further.

AccessME:
women are used as sex objects. They don't have much values in the eyes of men aside satisfying their sex huge, giving birth to children, taking care of the children while growing up and looking after the house.


And after these effort by housewives, some men will still have the Gods to raise hand to beat their wife.

it just so saddening and disheartening!

brosci:

when i was in delta state, i had a friend who was far older than me and was married to a beautiful lady. he did everything he could for this woman, supported her finacially and even started a business for her.
unfortunately the man was dischared from the army and was no longer finacially competent. his beautiful angel decided to show her true colours; she cheated publicly with every guy she found desirable, insulted the man and even stayed away from home for days......

so pls op do you know what the average nigeria man go through from women alone?
may feminism not kill you.

AccessME:
women are used as sex objects. They don't have much values in the eyes of men aside satisfying their sex huge, giving birth to children, taking care of the children while growing up and looking after the house.


And after these effort by housewives, some men will still have the Gods to raise hand to beat their wife.

it just so saddening and disheartening!

gloria34:

a Baptist pastors wife was told her baby is not properly positioned. his legs were down instead of up. she had to go through a Cs. husband refused and threatened 4 divorce. wife went through hell while he was outside praying. thank God she came out alive

eleojo24:


Seriously?

Na wa o!

Tobiloba84:
What about you coming out as a female that you are and never have to disguise as a male? That aside OP, we world is created and designed in an orderly manner and most things that wants to equate women to men if done would cause a lot of imbalance. N. B:this isnt an approval that women are less human or should be treated as such. Just know your place abd act accordingly. My 1kobo tho

saggis:
This may surprise most 'Akata' feminists, but most Nigerian women prefer things the way they are in Nigeria. Even educated ones. Nigerian women are the second most pampered women in the whole world. second only to Arabian women.

Most do not have to do any serious work, but has everything paid for and provided for by Nigerian men. This applies to both stinking rich Nigerians and the okada men, brick layers, bus drivers and conductors.

Ask the Alaye bus drivers and conductors in Nigeria how many of them their wife WORKS. Not very many I can assure you. The small scale biz most of them run were set up and funded by their husbands.

In the west the financial loads are shared almost equally between man and wife.

Thegamingorca:



If hin like make him turn here to congregation.

Nothing will change

What won't change?
This is 21st century! A lot has changed and lot more will still change.

I would have typed more in my post but I just lack the strength and will today . Bros wake up

RuthDaniels:
What won't change?
This is 21st century! A lot has changed and lot more will still change.

I would have typed more in my post but I just lack the strength and will today . Bros wake up

eleojo24:


Seriously?

Na wa o!

Heliaca:
Yeah good women are treated unfairly by men but much of it has to do with the way the men were raised. You can't expect a man who wasnt taught how to treat a woman to all of a sudden develop such traits when he becomes of age.

I could site an example where a dude Mum was woken from her sleep to go pound yam at 11pm and the mum got up to go do it, the boy protested that it was late that why should he not have something else to eat and the father gave him a hevty slap. I then asked the chap if he was going to do so to his wife, he said why not? That his own mother endured it, why shouldn't his wife do so too? That was the least of what I heard from him and his family.

That a man will treat a woman in a right way is heavily dependent on the sort of mother he had and how influential she was in the making of him to become a man. Ask most of these dudes who treat women like trash the sort of mother they had and the dynamics in their family. You will find the answers to your question.

hot1sauce:
The Op sounds like a feminist. But the op is right. As a 21st century man I do actually feel for Nigerian women, they are in all complete honesty regarded as horse sh!t but hey after all this is a sh!thole country. Oops i told the truth

brosci:

when i was in delta state, i had a friend who was far older than me and was married to a beautiful lady. he did everything he could for this woman, supported her finacially and even started a business for her.
unfortunately the man was dischared from the army and was no longer finacially competent. his beautiful angel decided to show her true colours; she cheated publicly with every guy she found desirable, insulted the man and even stayed away from home for days......

so pls op do you know what the average nigeria man go through from women alone?
may feminism not kill you.

Thegamingorca:



Baby, this is nigeria we are talking of.

Girls will still be used as oranges by the swarming insatiable animals toasting them.

This is a world where Girls are girls problems...Instead of a slut to join her fellow girl in dealing with a bobo who is married. She will instead break that cheated girl's marriage and marry the mofo.

All because of money.

Let's face facts here. Your folk will always be dispensible down here

Dont know about you honey, but when Im talking about Female gender, I mean Women and Ladies. The smart ones who knows what they want and where they are headed and not "girls". Nah nah! There is a difference between those two!

With my folks getting more oriented, educated, independent, wiser, outspoken, and knowledgeable I think you have to upgrade your mentality because we are getting there.

The point is things are no longer the way they were before, women are still being treated unfairly in some places but not as worse as before.You know it, but just don't want to admit it

brosci:

when i was in delta state, i had a friend who was far older than me and was married to a beautiful lady. he did everything he could for this woman, supported her finacially and even started a business for her.
unfortunately the man was dischared from the army and was no longer finacially competent. his beautiful angel decided to show her true colours; she cheated publicly with every guy she found desirable, insulted the man and even stayed away from home for days......

so pls op do you know what the average nigeria man go through from women alone?
may feminism not kill you.