Constituting a positive culture in our society is preparing a flowerbed for generations to plant on.. If we must have a hopeful and boastful future, we all have a great task on our sleeves both as a peace abiding citizen, as a social luminary, as individual and as a responsible government that care about the future of it's nation.


It’s quite disheartening that we allowed our day to day experiences over rule our social responsibilities and humanitarian conformity as human, which consequently turned our World to a type which anger and frustration knows no limit, where violence and aggression rules..


Despite the perplexity, I still believe, not within the figment of my imagination, but with apparent fortitude, that somehow, there is a World waiting to be born.


Our World awaits a rebirth and the only way to nurture this child to be born is by showing kindness, calmness, sincerity and gentleness as the case may be.


In contrast, majority of us see gentleness and perceive weakness, on the phase of reality, we use phrases like “if you want to get on in life, get tough”, be ruthless.. and yet to have “ruth”means to have pity or compassion, to be without ruth, to be ruthless is to be heartless which is damaging to the society, damaging to souls and destructive to the World at large.


On the contrary, When someone is assumed to be tough, we perceive strength and power. Sadly, we live on and on like that condoning violence and vices that kick against a positive human principles, using harsh words and tough actions,encouraging and teaching the upcoming generations the act of ruthlessness as claimed.


A child will naturally stretch his or her self and others for learning and will mostly look up to an adult, look up to his parents, and look up to his teachers, such child will not learn by our beautiful phrasal expression alone, but also by examples..


A parent who talks tolerance but shows non will surely breed an intolerant child. A parent who preach charity but gives non is expected to raise a charitless child. Any parent who campaigns patience but exhibit aggression will definitely raise a violent child, and any individual who encourage communication and talk so much but fails to listen will raise a product who screams, shout and yell without communicating.


Every child was born beautiful, pure, gentle and sensitive.


Every act we noticed in a child is not a cruel act but an indication of his or her direct experience, development,sensitivity and growth around the parents and society as a whole.


A child act only by example imposed on him or her by the society.


Let’s be the changes and beauty we want the World to project, lets be conscious to look beyond our actions, rather concentrate our interest majourly on the consequences of what every impact we make actually connote.


Children are the greatest asset, we owe them love, kindness and a well guided compassion for our flowerbeds to bringfort a beautiful, bountiful and sustainable harvest.

Dotun Adeyemi
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