My fiancee and I have been in a relationship for 5 years now. I met her since she was in secondary school. We both love each other and she is very nice, loving and supportive too.we have talked and started planning on settling down and that should before the end of the year but I am beginning to have a second thought. The problem is not my fiancee but her mom. The woman is very nice and welcoming but lately, she did something that I am not comfortable with. Last week she sent me a text asking for financial assistance. That her daughter (my fiancee) is yet to pay her house rent at school and that my fiancee younger brother is yet to pay his registration fee. And so she had asked me to loan her some ammout before the end of the month when she will remit it. That she considered me a son and that's why she confided in me. I later sent her SMS that I dont have anything. I was like why would she asked me for loan when her daughter never asked for one naira in our Five years of relationship? So my fear is, should I marry her daughter,wont she trouble me with further demands? Please is there anyway around this? Please what do I do?

that one is small......wat about those families where they feel once you marry their child you will carry the whole responsibility of the family........black thinking Sha......

In my own opinion leaving your fiance as a result of that is not good enough. More over, it's the daughter you're marrying not the mother, you should be able to do it because of her if you can.

Osinitu:
In my own opinion leaving your fiance as a result of that is not good enough. More over, it's the daughter you're marrying not the mother, you should be able to do it because of her if you can.

Tnx

Very stingy murdafucker.... It's obvious your not igbo cos we Igbos hold our in laws with high esteem more than our immediate family sef..... I reject men like you for my sister's

somadinho10:
Very stingy murdafucker.... It's obvious your not igbo cos we Igbos hold our in laws with high esteem more than our immediate family sef..... I reject men like you for my sister's

The couple isn't married and so technically they are not yet in-laws.

Come op, hope you won't wanna used that as an excuse to dump that girl Go and finish what you have started biko, 5 years in relationship is not a joke

I was even waiting to see, you lent your fiancee:s mum money, and she has refused paying you back