If a guy isn't texting you back, do not I
repeat, do not; freak out and think of 100
possible things he could be doing right now.
Don't wonder who he's with, why he doesn't
want to answer you, etc. These mind games
are anxiety-inducing, and they are a waste of
your time.

Why would you want a man like that? You
don't. This is a big world, and sometimes it's
hard to see the endless possibilities it
offers when you're so wrapped up in a
person. I promise you, there will be other
men. There are plenty of men out there
who are willing to treat you right and answer
a damn text every once in a while.



If this is the beginning of a new thing, and
you're not sure what the “terms” are, then
the same rules apply. Even if you guys are
just getting to know each other and hanging
out, if he has interest in you, he should be
going after you.
Don't play games. They're dumb and will get
you nowhere. Don't wait three hours to
text him back just because he took three
hours to answer you. That is also dumb. Be
straightforward about what you want, and you
are more likely to get it than if you beat
around the bush. It also drives a man crazy (in a good way)
when he has to chase a woman. Men always
want what they can't have. The more
unavailable you seem, the more desirable you
are to them. Ladies, you don't need to be
throwing yourself at guys. Don't make it easy
for them. Make them work for it, as they
should. Unfortunately for me, I had to learn this by
living through it myself. So trust me when I
say if a guy wants you, he'll come after you.
He's going to be pull out all the stops for you
because he wants to show you his best side
in hopes that maybe, if he's lucky, he will be
good enough for you.
Ladies, everyone deserves to meet a guy who
is going to pull out all the stops for
her. Don't try to make excuses for him. Trust
me, I know. I convinced myself he just wasn't
good at texting, wasn't into romantic
gestures or just had a really busy lifestyle.
But the truth is, if a guy wants something or
wants to spend time with someone, he will
make time for it in his life regardless of how busy he is.
Usually, what you see is what you get. It really
is that simple. If you have a sketchy feeling
about a guy, ditch him. Stop putting
his feelings above your own. Stop thinking
about his body and his pleasure, and think
about your own.
If he wants you, he'll come and get
you. And if he doesn't, then drop him.
Because in the end, you don't want to be
stuck with an assh*le who doesn't treat you
as his number one. You want a significant
other you can communicate with, in a
relationship rooted in mutual respect.
F*ckboys will only get you so far.

Find someone who treats you the way you deserve and answers your freaking
texts. Remember: If he's not texting you
back, do nothing. Personally, I say don't even
textt him in the first place. Make the boys
come to you.....DON'T GET OBSESS!

The world is gradually changing, babe. Gone are the days when a guy will chase a girl for more than 3 months... Change your mindset if you don't want to end-up in your father's house... If you don't, a time will come when you'll be left with no choice to make!

daben1:
The world is gradually changing, babe. Gone are the days when a guy will chase a girl for more than 3 months... Change your mindset if you don't want to end-up in your father's house... If you don't, a time will come when you'll be left with no choice to make!

Leave d mumu. She think say we still dey 1970. If babe try all those shitz wey she write I go dump am instant.

it's like you don't want to marry on time.

zealkane:
it's like you don't want to marry on time.

story!!! d source of their income no gree answer dem nd u say make dem no freak out.