Fazemood:


Kai. Berrar I keep my hustle and get my own stuff than have a lady do anything 4 me. Dammit!

Reading a whole bunch of monsterous plans here. Men are never safe with women incharge, you guys never offer anything free not even love.

To the guys hoping to get a house/benz/whatever from these she-humans, better be ready 4 re-colonization.
:O :O Isorit :\

XhosaNostra:


Lol, personally I have this thing of being really possessive of my things & my space. So it's interesting to see a different perspective.

You still wouldn't mind sharing if YOU acquired more stuff than he did during the course of the marriage?

Lol. Girl , learn to share with other kids. But I hear you though, used to be like that at some point .


Well by that time I wouldn't have a choice but to share, whether I like it or not . Law is law lol. Firstly the only way I would open my doors to a man is if he has a concrete plan and I believe in it fully and he is enthusiastic about the execution of that plan. I would never let a man who is looking for direction enter my home , he had better try next door lol. The one with a plan would be in need of support in order for the dream to be realized and I'm all for that, I would be 100% behind him . Therefore If he succeeds I succeed and if we divorce, I get to take my share. Same if I bring in more fruit , it will be possible with his support and encouragement so I would think he is entitled to it as well.

MhizAJ:
She tried

Ordinary 2 bedroom flat and he fainted
If to say na duplex nko

Funny enough this same man will still fvck different girls right in that flat that his hard-working girlfriend got for him

I don't think it's wise to invest in a man or do any thing good for/to them

I hope u don't apply this principle to your husband.

westernized:
Bro, not wen d paper work was done in his name.

Only if it was....

[quote author=XhosaNostra post=65298792]I hope she's bugged the flat & placed hidden cameras everywhere

I'm just saying. [/quote

she doesn't need to do all of these things

murphyibiam15:

must you divorce??

Yes , if the marriage isn't working. I can't sacrifice my peace of mind for a ring lol.

Lionessza:




I would move a guy into my house lol. But if we get married then , we would have to get a prenup ( whatever you came with into the marriage , it's yours and upon divorce we won't touch there . But whatever we achieve during the union we should share) I think that's fair enough for both sides.

Feminist conversing, una mama dey wait for una pikin o

slowpoke, why are you jumping to conclusions that the man doesnt have a job or is a womanizer? bloody haters everywhere.

MhizAJ:
She tried

Ordinary 2 bedroom flat and he fainted
If to say na duplex nko

Funny enough this same man will still fvck different girls right in that flat that his hard-working girlfriend got for him

I don't think it's wise to invest in a man or do any thing good for/to them

MhizAJ:
She tried

Ordinary 2 bedroom flat and he fainted
If to say na duplex nko

Funny enough this same man will still fvck different girls right in that flat that his hard-working girlfriend got for him

I don't think it's wise to invest in a man or do any thing good for/to them

do you know you just made a mistake,

Biggers82:

you talking about divorce and sharing of assets already una dey badt ooooo

Lol, these things do happen. So before embarking on this journey, you have to put your emotions aside and use your head.

Lionessza:




Lol. Girl , learn to share with other kids. But I hear you though, used to be like that at some point .


Well by that time I wouldn't have a choice but to share, whether I like it or not . Law is law lol. Firstly the only way I would open my doors to a man is if he has a concrete plan and I believe in it fully and he is enthusiastic about the execution of that plan. I would never let a man who is looking for direction enter my home , he had better try next door lol. The one with a plan would be in need of support in order for the dream to be realized and I'm all for that, I would be 100% behind him . Therefore If he succeeds I succeed and if we divorce, I get to take my share. Same if I bring in more fruit , it will be possible with his support and encouragement so I would think he is entitled to it as well.

Lol, what if he's not been supportive?
I get where you coming from though. I just don't see myself parting with 50% of my things without a WW3 in the process though. I'm too petty for dat

westernized:
God bless u, dz is y some men refuse to move into houses built by their wives because of the thought pattern of some ladies.

As in, if it were unusual maybe I won't have debated with them but so many girls think like that. So there is no point.

Best thing, a man should always stay in his own house. Except your wife is not a Nigerian. It may not makes sense, but a man should always stay in his own house. Dazall.

MhizAJ:
She tried

Ordinary 2 bedroom flat and he fainted
If to say na duplex nko

Funny enough this same man will still fvck different girls right in that flat that his hard-working girlfriend got for him

I don't think it's wise to invest in a man or do any thing good for/to them

its unbelievable

XhosaNostra:


LMFAO.

But would you move a guy into your own house? I don't think I ever would. I also would never marry a guy if I have a house, unless it's understood that he has no claims to any of my assets should we divorce. He'll leave just as he came & that applies to both of us. I don't wanna deal with the stress of splitting assets & fighting about who gets what.

I give up on you

djfabmusik:



Feminist conversing, una mama dey wait for una pikin o

Lol, what are you saying ?

[quote author=Martin0 post=65301389][/quote]

It's for his safety

Lionessza:



Yes , if the marriage isn't working. I can't sacrifice my peace of mind for a ring lol.

OK oo.. I see.. do you mind a PM?

Martin0:


I give up on you

MhizAJ:
She tried

Ordinary 2 bedroom flat and he fainted
If to say na duplex nko

Funny enough this same man will still fvck different girls right in that flat that his hard-working girlfriend got for him

I don't think it's wise to invest in a man or do any thing good for/to them

But is okay for a man invest in a woman, right?

Relationship should about quid pro quo and the other way round.

MhizAJ:
She tried

Ordinary 2 bedroom flat and he fainted
If to say na duplex nko

Funny enough this same man will still fvck different girls right in that flat that his hard-working girlfriend got for him

I don't think it's wise to invest in a man or do any thing good for/to them

See you! lol but men can do for girls. Haven't you ever broken up with a boyfriend that gave you lots? We all need to learn how to give freely without asking back

biacan:
She will soon regret it

shuuu how Biko

MhizAJ:
She tried

Ordinary 2 bedroom flat and he fainted
If to say na duplex nko

Funny enough this same man will still fvck different girls right in that flat that his hard-working girlfriend got for him

I don't think it's wise to invest in a man or do any thing good for/to them

It is not also wise for a man to invest in a woman.

Lionessza:




Lol. Girl , learn to share with other kids. But I hear you though, used to be like that at some point .


Well by that time I wouldn't have a choice but to share, whether I like it or not . Law is law lol. Firstly the only way I would open my doors to a man is if he has a concrete plan and I believe in it fully and he is enthusiastic about the execution of that plan. I would never let a man who is looking for direction enter my home , he had better try next door lol. The one with a plan would be in need of support in order for the dream to be realized and I'm all for that, I would be 100% behind him . Therefore If he succeeds I succeed and if we divorce, I get to take my share. Same if I bring in more fruit , it will be possible with his support and encouragement so I would think he is entitled to it as well.

Please just make sure your guy is aware of how you think before you get marry. Some will be very OK with it. Others will quickly run away. Either ways it saves everyone lots of trouble

Lionessza:



Yes , if the marriage isn't working. I can't sacrifice my peace of mind for a ring lol.

What about the kids?

In as much as I'm not in support of a man to be lazy. From d comments from d ladies so far, u can see d reasons 95% can never make a wife. What they know how to do best is fight, divorce and collect what they gave u as a gift. What is wrong for a girl to buy her guy a gift? and why must u give a gift knowing fully well dat u can't let it go after fight? Change ur ways and emulate ur mums and make a home.

XhosaNostra:

GAD MEHN! that smile, that scary smile, I hope you haven't done something like that already?

Wait lemme ask, what if he built the house and offers you a key to access it whenever you want without putting a ring on it, would you accept?

chyy5:
Where can I meet such gal? Why is my case different?
Please if you are a lady with a good heart stop hiding and show yourself. Every gal I've met practically demands everything, I mean everything from me. I know when they bleed every month because she will demand for money to buy pad. Despite I hate it when she says" baby I'm on". I've told her don't just tell me about it, tell me u need some cash.
The last one I dated turned the Genesis fast food opposite my house to her private kitchen. We buy food there morning, afternoon and night.
Coming back every night to hear "baby, ur plantain porridge from Genesis is kinda cold, let me microwave it" meanwhile she's been around since morning watching Zee world.

Dude you funny dye, go into comedy you will excel

MhizAJ:
She tried

Ordinary 2 bedroom flat and he fainted
If to say na duplex nko

Funny enough this same man will still fvck different girls right in that flat that his hard-working girlfriend got for him

I don't think it's wise to invest in a man or do any thing good for/to them

You are to old to compose this shit.... Smh

XhosaNostra:


A realist.

Your earlier post reeks 'prejudice'.

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Lionessza:




I would move a guy into my house lol. But if we get married then , we would have to get a prenup ( whatever you came with into the marriage , it's yours and upon divorce we won't touch there . But whatever we achieve during the union we should share) I think that's fair enough for both sides.

good girl