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How To Know If A Person Truly Love You by Nobody: 7:57pm On Feb 24, 2018
There is no guaranteed way to know if a person truly loves you, but there are a few signs to read in order to figure out what is on the mind of your loved one. If you would like to know if the person you love truly loves you back, then you have to pay attention on how the person acts, what they say, and what they do when you are together. Though love may mean something different to every person, there are many ways to tell if a person truly loves you, just has a crush on you or just being momentarily infatuated with you.


The ways to know if a person truly loves you are divided into three groups namely:

1. Notice How the Person Acts


a. See if the person can act naturally around you. Part of being in love means being completely open to the other person. If you find yourself seeing a whole different side that the person doesn't show the public, then that may be love. For instance, if your partner is pretty serious or polite in public, but shows a more goofy and silly side when you're alone, then they are really opening up to you and loves you.
If the person shares their deepest emotions with you and is comfortable with it, then that could be love.
If the person is comfortable not looking perfect, tripping, or having food stuck in their teeth around you, that means they are okay if you see every side of them.

b. Gauge if the person is happy to be around you. This should be true even during a bad day. If your loved one has had a very bad day but lights up when they see you, then that's a sign of love. If they are in love with you, then the sight of you or the sound of your voice is guaranteed to make them feel better — if only a little bit.
The next time they're grumpy or have a bad day, see how they react in your presence.

Re: How To Know If A Person Truly Love You by Nobody: 8:01pm On Feb 24, 2018
c. Notice if the person gives you googly eyes. [/b]Though this may be silly, check out your loved one's face the next time you see them. Do they look at you in a goofy, watery, silly and adorable way that can only be described as "googly-eyed"? You will know it when you see it. You won't get this look all the time — you can spot it in the morning, or randomly across the dinner table.
You may also be able to catch the person staring at you with the same expression.

d. [b]See if the person is giddy around you
. Love makes people feel giddy, weightless, and like laughing for no reason at all. If you see the person acting this way in your presence, then this may be love. Does your loved one seem hyper, excited, and on the verge of laughing for almost no reason at all whenever they are around you? If so, then this may be love.
If you've said something barely funny and the person cracks up, then they may be lovesick.
If the person shows nervous energy or fidgets around a lot around you, then they may just be excited by your presence.

e. Ask yourself if the person is upset when you are. If you are suffering unbelievable emotional pain or are just bummed because you have the flu, then this should rub off on the person who loves you. If they truly love you, then they'll absorb some of your negative emotions and will be very upset because they'll want you to feel better as soon as you can.
Though they don't have to be as upset as you are, the person should clearly be affected by your mood because all they want is for you to be happy.

Re: How To Know If A Person Truly Love You by BaeMercy(f): 8:10pm On Feb 24, 2018
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Re: How To Know If A Person Truly Love You by Nobody: 8:15pm On Feb 24, 2018
2. Notice What The Person Say

a. Notice if the person talks positively about your future together. If the person really loves you, then the idea of you being in their future is an absolute given, not something that they would ever have anxiety or uncertainty about. If the person routinely talks about what you're going to do in the future, about what your lives will look like one, two, or even ten years in the future together, then they are probably in love with you.
True commitment means seeing a forever with another person. If the person talks about the future and always includes you in it, then there is a good chance they truly love you.
If the person talks about what your kids will look like, where you will retire together, or where you will go for your honeymoon, then they may really love you.

b. See if the person gives you meaningful compliments. There's a difference between saying, "I like your new haircut" and "You have the ability to make me feel better no matter what." If the person gives you compliments that show that they really appreciate the important aspects of your character and personality, then there's a good chance they really love you.
Your loved one doesn't have to shower you with compliments all the time — it's the quality, not the quantity, that makes a difference.

Re: How To Know If A Person Truly Love You by Nobody: 8:16pm On Feb 24, 2018
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