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My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Djbond(m): 1:28am On Feb 25, 2018
Please do not mind my grammar or the way I present this.

She broke the news back in December last year. I told her "let's abort it" and she said NO, she said, I quote "I'm ready to have your child". But recently, she told me her brother (a junior brother to her father living with them) slept with her. I found out when we was about to have sex, I met fresh sperm (not more than 2 days sperm) in her vagina. This was 2 weeks ago. I was really heartbroken as she calmed me down not to tell anyone that this so called brother of hers use to take advantage of her sometimes and this oloriburuku brother she's talking about has impregnated his girlfriend too that is staying in the same house with them there o. But she made me assured me that I own the pregnancy in her womb. True, I've also confirmed that.

What I'm really worrying about now is what will happen to the baby as this her nonsense brother released inside her. Though when I saw the sperm she first told me that she masturbated and she released by herself (wonder if that's even possible in the first place, please doctors and experts confirm this if it's possible) but I did not believe her so i pressed her more to confess how the sperm really got into her vagina since it has been 2 weeks since we had sex together. Then she told me that it was her brother's work.

Please doctors and experts in the house, I need proper guidance and advice to go about this please as I'm confused because I'm ready to marry her as I've met her parents to confirm I'm responsible for the pregnancy. What's remaining now is introduction. I love her and she loves me. I think we are compatible with each other.

I'm a young man and I'm not ready to risk my life and make any mistake concerning having babies. Please I need y'all insights on this and what to do
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Gebbson007(m): 2:03am On Feb 25, 2018
sure sperm can last days inside inside a woman n yes they cum too its creamy but doesn't draw like sperm ... I will advice you to pressure your gf to report her uncle to her father to avoid future sexual abuse that's if she's telling the truth bout her uncle or she's probable sleeping with another man...

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Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Djbond(m): 2:06am On Feb 25, 2018
Gebbson007:
sure sperm can last days inside inside a woman n yes they cum too its creamy but doesn't draw like sperm ... I will advice you to pressure your gf to report her uncle to her father to avoid future sexual abuse that's if she's telling the truth bout her uncle or she's probable sleeping with another man...
sure, you are right about sperm lasting for days in a woman but biologically, it doesn't spend more than 3-5 days latest in the vagina. On the day I saw the sperm, before I found out, when I inserted my joystick, it went in so easy as if it had been the vagina was ovulating unlike the usual force penetration.

I'm scared bro. Don't wanna raise another man's child
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Gebbson007(m): 2:11am On Feb 25, 2018
Djbond:
on the day I saw the sperm, before I found out, I inserted my joystick and it went in so easy unlike the usual force penetration.

its possible she had sex before she came to you or she ws wet .. but you know when a woman is wet right

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Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Djbond(m): 2:13am On Feb 25, 2018
Gebbson007:


its possible she had sex before she came to you or she ws wet .. but you know when a woman is wet right
no please, I don't know when a woman is wet, can you please explain?
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Gebbson007(m): 2:25am On Feb 25, 2018
Djbond:
no please, I don't know when a woman is wet, can you please explain?

you ll feel it on ur DK,its the wetness that makes penetration easy ... its very possible for a lady to get wet without stimulation ; it's possible through sex chat or maybe she's already in the mood n its also possible she's had sex bfr she visited.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by modik(m): 2:48am On Feb 25, 2018
@OP, don't get it twisted.

Any woman who happens to be in the mood of having S*x normally gets wet which lubricates the virginal tract for easy penetration.

That said, the secretion you saw on her can be mistaken for a sperm, however you need to be doubly sure she is saying the truth cos those confessions are not ordinary.

If she has been sharing the cookey with another guy, she wouldn't be so naive to visit you unprepared knowing fully well you will also eat the cookey same day.

Bottom line, investigate every confessional statement she makes to you properly for your own good so as to avoid stories that touch in future.

After God, fear woman!

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Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Epositive(m): 2:54am On Feb 25, 2018
I'm more concerned about her having sex with her uncle. According to your write-up, It wasn't rape or something of sort. You've taken the issue too lightly. angry

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Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Gebbson007(m): 2:54am On Feb 25, 2018
Djbond:
no please, I don't know when a woman is wet, can you please explain?

it's the wetness that makes the passage easy for penetration ...n its possible for a woman to get wet with out contact..
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Djbond(m): 3:00am On Feb 25, 2018
Gebbson007:


it's the wetness that makes the passage easy for penetration ...n its possible for a woman to get wet with out contact..
thanks for the enlightenment
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Gebbson007(m): 3:01am On Feb 25, 2018
Epositive:
I'm more concerned about her having sex with her uncle. According to your write-up, It wasn't rape or something of sort. You've taken the issue too lightly. angry

what do you suggest
I know someone in such situation ,her uncle is harassing her n she's like her folks wunt bliv her if she reports him n the most annoying part is shes the type who forgives easily the next day you will see her smiling with this same uncle.
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Gebbson007(m): 3:05am On Feb 25, 2018
Djbond:
thanks for the enlightenment
ya welcome sir, happy to contribute..
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Djbond(m): 3:08am On Feb 25, 2018
Gebbson007:


what do you suggest
I know someone in such situation ,her uncle is harassing her n she's like her folks wunt bliv her if she reports him n the most annoying part is shes the type who forgives easily the next day you will see her smiling with this same uncle.
this was what she told me too. She told me that no one would believe her if she tells anyone in the family. Last week Saturday, I broke the news to their eldest uncle in which I sent a recording clip of all what she told me about that her yeye brother. It was a sensitive information so I had to be smart. She did not know I was recording when she was telling me everything. I recorded it for a purpose. Her eldest uncle thanked me and told me that her father has been suspecting them by the way they sleep together sometimes anytime he enters their room cos she shares the same room with this nuisance brother.
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Gebbson007(m): 3:21am On Feb 25, 2018
Djbond:
this was what she told me too. She told me that no one would believe her if she tells anyone in the family. Last week Saturday, I broke the news to their eldest uncle in which I sent a recording clip of all what she told me about that her yeye brother. It was a sensitive information so I had to be smart. She did not know I was recording when she was telling me everything. I recorded it for a purpose. Her eldest uncle thanked me and told me that her father has been suspecting them by the way they sleep together sometimes anytime he enters their room cos she shares the same room with this nuisance brother.

had that in mind too ,was about to open up to her folks too buh she begged not to, since that day I've kinda stopped seeing her as a Bestie but she doesn't no .. don't wanna become an ALÀSÈJÚ , so when she comes up with the talk I just wave it away or hang up on her..

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Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Epositive(m): 3:25am On Feb 25, 2018
Gebbson007:


what do you suggest
I know someone in such situation ,her uncle is harassing her n she's like her folks wunt bliv her if she reports him n the most annoying part is shes the type who forgives easily the next day you will see her smiling with this same uncle.

And this is where the problem lies. Fela tagged it "suffering and smiling". It's painful trying to look alright while bottling up those agonizing pain and sorrow. Something needs to be done for this wounded heart that cries for hope and vindiction. sad

The first step to solving a problem is admitting that such problem exists. She should be ready to face reality unless she likes everything done to her. undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Gebbson007(m): 3:30am On Feb 25, 2018
Epositive:


And this is where the problem lies. Fela tagged it "suffering and smiling". It's painful trying to look alright while bottling up those agonizing pain and sorrow. Something needs to be done for this wounded heart that cries for hope and vindiction. sad

The first step to solving a problem is admitting that such problem exists. She should be ready to face reality unless she likes everything done to her. undecided


"unless she likes everything done to her."

my thought too another annoying thing is she doesn't listen to my advise so I stopped advising n talking bout the matter to avoid being an ALASEJU
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Epositive(m): 3:55am On Feb 25, 2018
Gebbson007:


"unless she likes everything done to her."

my thought too another annoying thing is she doesn't listen to my advise so I stopped advising n talking bout the matter to avoid being an ALASEJU
Ofcourse bro, she should be the frontman, not you! Maybe she is scared of stigmatization, sadly, sexual abusers (especially relatives) capitalize on their victims' "secret-keeping defence". If only she's brave enough to let it out so as to be saved from this dungeon, if only! cry

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Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Artzdanielsz(m): 4:22am On Feb 25, 2018
you met sperm ? hope you asked the sperm it's owner. bros your matter ugly pass Nigeria joor.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by radiokilla(m): 6:03am On Feb 25, 2018
Is that not incest I'm hearing here? Please op, do not condole abomination. Investigate and duly speak out. Hold on with your marriage plans until she gives birth, so you can confirm whether the son is actually yours.
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Kobicove(m): 7:50am On Feb 25, 2018
I think you should be more concerned that your girlfriend is sleeping with her uncle who is a very close biological relation undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Djbond(m): 7:54am On Feb 25, 2018
Gebbson007:


it's the wetness that makes the passage easy for penetration ...n its possible for a woman to get wet with out contact..
I think this was the case because the V really looked wet on that day and it was morning which I'm sure there's no way she could have gotten to another guy's house same morning. I mean this her brother has his own pregnant girlfriend and he's well aware that I've impregnated her sister, why else would he have sex with her. Maybe she's lying or what do you think?
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by CAPSLOCKED: 2:12pm On Feb 25, 2018
Djbond:

She broke the news back in December last year. I told her "let's abort it" and she said NO, she said, I quote "I'm ready to have your child". But recently, she told me her brother (a junior brother to her father living with them) slept with her. I found out when we was about to have sex, I met fresh sperm (not more than 2 days sperm) in her vagina.

grin


Djbond:
This was 2 weeks ago. I was really heartbroken as she calmed me down not to tell anyone that this so called brother of hers use to take advantage of her sometimes. But she made me assured me that I own the pregnancy in her womb. True, I've also confirmed that.


SORRY, YOU SAID YOU'VE ALSO CONFIRMED WHAT?
THAT THE PREGNANCY IS YOURS, OR THAT YOU'RE A FOOL? undecided



Djbond:

What I'm really worrying about now is what will happen to the baby as this her nonsense brother released inside her. Though when I saw the sperm she first told me that she masturbated and she released by herself (wonder if that's even possible in the first place, please doctors and experts confirm this if it's possible) but I did not believe her so i pressed her more to confess how the sperm really got into her vagina since it has been 2 weeks since we had sex together. Then she told me that it was her brother's work.



SO,
YOU'VE BEEN DATING THIS GIRL FOR A LONG TIME NOW. (SAME TIME SHE'S BEEN HAVING SEX WITH HER RELATIVE).

LAST DECEMBER SHE TOLD YOU SHE'S PREGNANT, AND STILL WENT ON WITH HAVING SEX WITH HER RELATIVE.

KUDOS TO YOU FOR BEING ABLE TO RECOGNIZE "FRESH SPERM" IN HER VAGINA. I DOUBT I'D EVER BE ABLE TO GET THAT LEVEL OF "MASTERY".

SO, SHE'S PREGNANT WITH YOUR CHILD BUT STILL SLEEPS WITH HER RELATIVE, WITHOUT PROTECTION, AND ALLOWS HIM TO POUR IT INSIDE HER. NOW SHE'S CLAIM HE'S BEEN TAKING ADVANTAGE OF HER.

PLEASE, IS SHE BOTH DEAF, DUMB, BLIND, AND PARALYZED?

BECAUSE UNLESS THIS STORY IS MADE UP, WE THE READERS WONDER HOW A FULL GROWN LADY ALLOWS ANOTHER MAN TO SEXUALLY ABUSE HER, NOT JUST ONCE, BUT CONSTANTLY.

ARE YOU NOT A FOOL TO FALL FOR THIS TRICK?



Djbond:



What I'm really worrying about now is what will happen to the baby as this her nonsense brother released inside her.

Please doctors and experts in the house, I need proper guidance and advice to go about this please as I'm confused



THE ONLY THING THAT WILL HAPPEN TO THE BABY IS THAT IT'LL BE BORN WITH THE GENES OF YOUR FOOLISHNESS, YOUR CONFUSION, YOUR WEAK PULLOUT GAME,

AND YOUR GIRLFRIEND'S STUPIDITY, DISHONESTY, SHAMELESSNESS, AND DESIRE FOR INCEST.

I PITY THIS FAMILY. undecided

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Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Djbond(m): 3:39pm On Feb 25, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:


grin





SORRY, YOU SAID YOU'VE ALSO CONFIRMED WHAT?
THAT THE PREGNANCY IS YOURS, OR THAT YOU'RE A FOOL? undecided







SO,
YOU'VE BEEN DATING THIS GIRL FOR A LONG TIME NOW. (SAME TIME SHE'S BEEN HAVING SEX WITH HER RELATIVE).

LAST DECEMBER SHE TOLD YOU SHE'S PREGNANT, AND STILL WENT ON WITH HAVING SEX WITH HER RELATIVE.

KUDOS TO YOU FOR BEING ABLE TO RECOGNIZE "FRESH SPERM" IN HER VAGINA. I DOUBT I'D EVER BE ABLE TO GET THAT LEVEL OF "MASTERY".

SO, SHE'S PREGNANT WITH YOUR CHILD BUT STILL SLEEPS WITH HER RELATIVE, WITHOUT PROTECTION, AND ALLOWS HIM TO POUR IT INSIDE HER. NOW SHE'S CLAIM HE'S BEEN TAKING ADVANTAGE OF HER.

PLEASE, IS SHE BOTH DEAF, DUMB, BLIND, AND PARALYZED?

BECAUSE UNLESS THIS STORY IS MADE UP, WE THE READERS WONDER HOW A FULL GROWN LADY ALLOWS ANOTHER MAN TO SEXUALLY ABUSE HER, NOT JUST ONCE, BUT CONSTANTLY.

ARE YOU NOT A FOOL TO FALL FOR THIS TRICK?







THE ONLY THING THAT WILL HAPPEN TO THE BABY IS THAT IT'LL BE BORN WITH THE GENES OF YOUR FOOLISHNESS, YOUR CONFUSION, YOUR WEAK PULLOUT GAME,

AND YOUR GIRLFRIEND'S STUPIDITY, DISHONESTY, SHAMELESSNESS, AND DESIRE FOR INCEST.

I PITY THIS FAMILY. undecided



Bro, at least you have a point or two. I need advice on what to do that's why I brought this here
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by gunners160(m): 3:43pm On Feb 25, 2018
[color=#006600][/color] I really dnt understand what your problem is but I can say this with no iota of doubt that you have a hand in your problem.
secondly, how comes were you are able to know that their is a sperm in ur gf's pussy after two days, shey she no dey bath well ni or u get degree on how to locate sperm for baes pussy?
Lastly,u are not even concerned about who she is having sex with all I can read is that you just go about bashing the broda and calling him names; na wa for you ooo

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Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by CAPSLOCKED: 3:53pm On Feb 25, 2018
Djbond:


Bro, at least you have a point or two. I need advice on what to do that's why I brought this here


ADVICE, HERE?
MAYBE YOU CALL ON THE MODERATORS TO PUSH THIS TO THE FRONT PAGES.

HERE PEOPLE CAN SAY ALL THEY WILL TO YOU, BUT WHAT YOU DECIDE IN THE END IS WHAT MATTERS.


I CANNOT TELL YOU WHAT TO DO BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY CONFUSED ONE HERE. I DON'T UNDERSTAND ANYTHING AS WELL.

HOW WAS SHE ABLE TO ALLOW HER RELATIVE SLEEP WITH HER SEVERALLY, EVEN WHEN SHE KNOWS SHE'S WITH YOUR CHILD?
SHE DIDN'T BOTHER TO TELL YOU OR OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS. NOTHING.
SHE DIDN'T EVEN RESIST.. BECAUSE SHE LIKED HIS SEX BETTER?

I DON'T WANT TO INVOLVE FURTHER WITH THIS TOPIC. IF SHE WASN'T WITH YOUR CHILD I'D HAVE SUGGESTED YOU DELETE HER FROM YOUR LIFE.

HOW ARE YOU EVEN SURE THE PREG IS YOURS?

HOW OLD IS SHE, A TEENAGER OR?

IS SHE MENTALLY NORMAL?

HAS SHE FINISHED SECONDARY SCHOOL?

Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Djbond(m): 4:17pm On Feb 25, 2018
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ADVICE, HERE?
MAYBE YOU CALL ON THE MODERATORS TO PUSH THIS TO THE FRONT PAGES.

HERE PEOPLE CAN SAY ALL THEY WILL TO YOU, BUT WHAT YOU DECIDE IN THE END IS WHAT MATTERS.


I CANNOT TELL YOU WHAT TO DO BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY CONFUSED ONE HERE. I DON'T UNDERSTAND ANYTHING AS WELL.

HOW WAS SHE ABLE TO ALLOW HER RELATIVE SLEEP WITH HER SEVERALLY, EVEN WHEN SHE KNOWS SHE'S WITH YOUR CHILD?
SHE DIDN'T BOTHER TO TELL YOU OR OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS. NOTHING.
SHE DIDN'T EVEN RESIST.. BECAUSE SHE LIKED HIS SEX BETTER?

I DON'T WANT TO INVOLVE FURTHER WITH THIS TOPIC. IF SHE WASN'T WITH YOUR CHILD I'D HAVE SUGGESTED YOU DELETE HER FROM YOUR LIFE.

HOW ARE YOU EVEN SURE THE PREG IS YOURS?

HOW OLD IS SHE, A TEENAGER OR?

IS SHE MENTALLY NORMAL?

HAS SHE FINISHED SECONDARY SCHOOL?

Jesus bro, you no get chill at all o. She's 20, she's finished secondary school and I think this one is more mature
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Djbond(m): 4:19pm On Feb 25, 2018
Lalasticlala Seun Ishilove please help is needed here. This is seriously serious. I don't want to jump into the biggest mistake of my life and regret later
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by duduade: 7:04pm On Feb 25, 2018
So i just had to stop after the second paragraph to type this...

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Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Ontoog(m): 7:16pm On Feb 25, 2018
When did she start sleeping with this her brother
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Nobody: 7:20pm On Feb 25, 2018
What the hell did I just read
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by CAPSLOCKED: 7:34pm On Feb 25, 2018
Djbond:
Jesus bro, you no get chill at all o. She's 20, she's finished secondary school and I think this one is more mature



YOU HAVE HER CONFESSION RECORDED.

YOU SOUND LIKE YOU LOVE HER EVEN WITH THE FACT THAT YOU DISCOVERED SHE ENGAGES WITH HER RELATIVE, AND EVEN TRIED TO COVER UP.

ASK HER IF SHE'S WILLING TO GIVE UP HER AFFAIRS WITH THE MAN AND SEE THAT HE'S PROSECUTED.

INVOLVE FAMILY MEMBERS IF HER ANSWER IS YES, LET HER STATE HER CONFESSION IN FRONT OF EVERYONE SO IF SHE WAS ABUSED BY THE SAID RELATIVE, HE FACES THE CONSEQUENCES. IF THEY'VE BEEN ENGAGING ON MUTUAL GROUNDS.. YOU EITHER KICK HER OUT OR GRANT PARDON, WHATEVER YOU LIKE.

WHAT YOU NEED TO DO RIGHT NOW IS TO GET YOU AND THE LADY TESTED FOR DISEASES, CHECK IF THE PREG IS STILL OKAY THEN INVOLVE EVERYONE YOU NEED TO GET INVOLVED.. THAT'S THE ONLY FIX.


NB: THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE TAKEN ADVICE FROM ME IN THE PAST FAILED WOEFULLY.
FOLLOW MY ADVICE AT YOUR OWN RISK.
Re: My Girlfriend Is About 3 Months Pregnant For Me BUT by Djbond(m): 8:19pm On Feb 25, 2018
Ontoog:
When did she start sleeping with this her brother
she told me she started sleeping with him when she was 14

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