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She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by donstefano8(m): 1:31am On Feb 25, 2018
I have known seun since when I was in secondary school through her brother who was my mate back then.fast forward to the present I & seun are currently dating with the consent of her brother who used to be my friend back secondary school days. My dilemma now is that her parents said she can't Mary a guy that isn't from any yoruba tribe and she specifically told me she can't disobey her parents, seun is still a 300l student and I am already working also taking care of my mum and disabled elder brother,I love the this girl much that am willing to stick around till she affirms that she truly loves me & would build a future with me spend the rest of her life with me. Am doing the little things a guy would do for his girlfriend... everyone Pls assisted your brotherx
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by greatnaija01: 1:33am On Feb 25, 2018
I feel your pain BRO....

you need MONEY... thats all. You may be fairly comfy now BUT MONEY CAN CHANGE PLACE OF BIRTH AND STATE OF ORIGIN.... grin

There is a level of MONEY you will have that the PARENTS of the girl will explain away your ethnicity.

Consider this bro


donstefano8:
I have known seun since when I was in secondary school through her brother who was my mate back then.fast forward to the present I & seun are currently dating with the consent of her brother who used to be my friend back secondary school days. My dilemma now is that her parents said she can't Mary a guy that isn't from any yoruba tribe and she specifically told me she can't disobey her parents, seun is still a 300l student and I am already working also taking care of my mum and disabled elder brother,I love the this girl much that am willing to stick around till she affirms that she truly loves me & would build a future with me spend the rest of her life with me. Am doing the little things a guy would do for his girlfriend... everyone Pls assisted your brotherx

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Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by McBrooklyn(m): 1:40am On Feb 25, 2018
Lol...
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by MAJORBANKZ(m): 1:57am On Feb 25, 2018
just like me, i can't marry any tribe that isn't igbo.

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Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by QueenSuccubus(f): 2:04am On Feb 25, 2018
I don't know what's the THING if u marry someone in the same tribe or caste (or whatever y'all call it) ... In my country, we don't practice this, as long you love each other, the parents of both sides will juz agree grin



#TeamInterracial wink

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Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by Nobody: 4:10am On Feb 25, 2018
Is this tribal shit still in vogue?

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Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by MIKOLOWISKA: 4:24am On Feb 25, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
I don't know what's the THING if u marry someone in the same tribe or caste (or whatever y'all call it) ... In my country, we don't practice this, as long you love each other, the parents of both sides will juz agree grin



#TeamInterracial wink



this is not your country

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Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by Nobody: 6:50am On Feb 25, 2018
sisipelebe:
Is this tribal shit still in vogue?

It is o, this will tell u that our mentality in Nigeria is still backward
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by donstefano8(m): 6:53am On Feb 25, 2018
greatnaija01:
I feel your pain BRO....

you need MONEY... thats all. You may be fairly comfy now BUT MONEY CAN CHANGE PLACE OF BIRTH AND STATE OF ORIGIN.... grin

There is a level of MONEY you will have that the PARENTS of the girl will explain away your ethnicity.

Consider this bro



I guess with money all things are possible, thanks for the advice.
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by XhosaNostra(f): 6:58am On Feb 25, 2018
MIKOLOWISKA:
this is not your country

She has a point. Because you jubilate when someone marries a white person (outsider) but discriminate against your own. Where is the sense in that?
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by derrydinny: 7:15am On Feb 25, 2018
david2:


It is o, this will tell u that our mentality in Nigeria is still backward

there is nothing about backwardness in it, it happens everywhere, even in america, some will say it clearly that they cant marry a black, latino or asian.

for me, I can't marry a girl from edo state because of my family history, everyone that has married from edo in may family has always regretted it, I have to open my eyes well and not allow same thing to happen to me.

I am not saying edo people are bad o cos my best friend is from edo but maybe there is no compatibility.
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by Kobicove(m): 7:38am On Feb 25, 2018
I would recommend that you face facts now...end the relationship now and move on with your life undecided

There are other ladies from your tribe to chose from
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by Nobody: 7:40am On Feb 25, 2018
derrydinny:


there is nothing about backwardness in it, it happens everywhere, even in america, some will say it clearly that they cant marry a black, latino or asian.

for me, I can't marry a girl from edo state because of my family history, everyone that has married from edo in may family has always regretted it, I have to open my eyes well and not allow same thing to happen to me.

I am not saying edo people are bad o cos my best friend is from edo but maybe there is no compatibility.

The reason they have regreted it is becos if their belief, what u believe will definitely work for u
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by Martin0(m): 7:55am On Feb 25, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
I don't know what's the THING if u marry someone in the same tribe or caste (or whatever y'all call it) ... In my country, we don't practice this, as long you love each other, the parents of both sides will juz agree grin



#TeamInterracial wink




teaminteeracia# what does that mean
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by QueenSuccubus(f): 8:11am On Feb 25, 2018
Martin0:


teaminteeracia# what does that mean


Hahahhahaha...that's a category jooor cheesy
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by Martin0(m): 8:14am On Feb 25, 2018
QueenSuccubus:


Hahahhahaha...that's a category jooor cheesy
A category!
I do see such only on porn sites, but I don't understand urz here
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by QueenSuccubus(f): 8:23am On Feb 25, 2018
Martin0:


A category!

I do see such only on porn sites, but I don't understand urz here


grin

Hahahha..it means ur watching it.. tongue

Well, i love interracial...i mean mixed race is always beautiful grin
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by Martin0(m): 8:33am On Feb 25, 2018
QueenSuccubus:



grin

Hahahha..it means ur watching it.. tongue

Well, i love interracial...i mean mixed race is always beautiful grin

I am only human so no big deal in watching porn.
But I no longer remember watching again, just only when I was dating coz my ex love watching and it made me to watch too.

hahahahah mixed race go an try some Nigerian guygrin I bet my shiny black chocolate ass u won't be too OK to tell the experiencegringringrin

I will be the first to laugh u trust megringrin
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by QueenSuccubus(f): 8:36am On Feb 25, 2018
Martin0:


I am only human so no big deal in watching porn.
But I no longer remember watching again, just only when I was dating coz my ex love watching and it made me to watch too.

hahahahah mixed race go an try some Nigerian guygrin I bet my shiny black chocolate ass u won't be too OK to tell the experiencegringringrin

I will be the first to laugh u trust megringrin

grin

Hahahahaha...Well , my healthy eggs are in the freezer now..Juz waiting for the right guy..I cant wait to for him to smash me good grin
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by Nobody: 8:37am On Feb 25, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
I don't know what's the THING if u marry someone in the same tribe or caste (or whatever y'all call it) ... In my country, we don't practice this, as long you love each other, the parents of both sides will juz agree grin



#TeamInterracial wink



I swear you're lucky girl. Naija culture dey one kain jare. Imagine a 29 year old girl proud of being a virgin
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by QueenSuccubus(f): 8:41am On Feb 25, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

I swear you're lucky girl. Naija culture dey one kain jare. Imagine a 29 year old girl proud of being a virgin


grin grin cheesy


I bet its all about the culture u want to adopt babe... wink Whether ur African, Asian or Latinos... grin Once u adopt a foreign culture, u don't give a fvck to what ppol say, ur juz doing what u believe in.. cheesy
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by Martin0(m): 8:45am On Feb 25, 2018
QueenSuccubus:


grin

Hahahahaha...Well , my healthy eggs are in the freezer now..Juz waiting for the right guy..I cant wait to for him to smash me good grin

hahahahah crazy yougringrin healthy eggsgrin

worry no more Mr Right is coming.
As for me am waiting for Mrs wrong,adontbiliv we have some kinda right Human's anymoregrin

but I wish u good luckgrin but remember don't cry to me oooo
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by QueenSuccubus(f): 9:23am On Feb 25, 2018
Martin0:


hahahahah crazy yougringrin healthy eggsgrin

worry no more Mr Right is coming.
As for me am waiting for Mrs wrong,adontbiliv we have some kinda right Human's anymoregrin

but I wish u good luckgrin but remember don't cry to me oooo


Yeah i may cry and tell u "Daaamn! That MEAT was sooo good, i almost forgot my complete name " cheesy
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by Martin0(m): 9:29am On Feb 25, 2018
QueenSuccubus:



Yeah i may cry and tell u "Daaamn! That MEAT was sooo good, i almost forgot my complete name " cheesy

hahahahahgringrin meat kwagrin u get mouth shagrin

some years ago a certain black American lady do visit my friend just for kpanshing and I was like WTF are men dried up in America?
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by QueenSuccubus(f): 9:32am On Feb 25, 2018
Martin0:


hahahahahgringrin meat kwagrin u get mouth shagrin

some years ago a certain black American lady do visit my friend just for kpanshing and I was like WTF are men dried up in America?


grin

Well, i never tried a juicy Nigerian yet ... I have no idea how meaty you guys down there.. lipsrsealed
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by Martin0(m): 9:35am On Feb 25, 2018
QueenSuccubus:



grin

Well, i never tried a juicy Nigerian yet ... I have no idea how meaty you guys down there.. lipsrsealed

I don't have meat.

just walk around NL and make ur choice.

Am still a virgin
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by dukeprince50: 12:41pm On Feb 25, 2018
QueenSuccubus:



grin

Well, i never tried a juicy Nigerian yet ... I have no idea how meaty you guys down there.. lipsrsealed
we have different types of animals down there, some are large like elephant, some are fearsome like a tiger, and some are ehm ehm.... mouse
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by gunners160(m): 12:52pm On Feb 25, 2018
same shit happened to me during my days in the university. The Lady is Igbo and I am Yoruba so one day she told me that, "she can't marry me becos her mum said over her dead body for her daughter to marry a Yoruba guy".I dust my feet and told her would she trade her future becos of her mum? I stopped calling her and moved on as if nothing happened blw us and today I m happy I took that decision

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Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by QueenSuccubus(f): 1:08pm On Feb 25, 2018
dukeprince50:
we have different types of animals down there, some are large like elephant, some are fearsome like a tiger, and some are ehm ehm.... mouse


grin grin


Mouse ke? Or maybe u mean a humongous MOUSE grin
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by imitateMe(m): 1:10pm On Feb 25, 2018
When you have lots of sexy and straightforward adventurous Igbo girls, you dey kill yourself on top one Yoruba gal who will eventually tell everybody that "my husband begged me for 10 years before I said yes."

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Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by dukeprince50: 1:22pm On Feb 25, 2018
QueenSuccubus:



grin grin


Mouse ke? Or maybe u mean a humongous MOUSE grin
actually i meant petit et mouse
Re: She Can't Have Future With Me Cos Am Not Yoruba by QueenSuccubus(f): 1:32pm On Feb 25, 2018
dukeprince50:
actually i meant petit et mouse


grin

But in Africa, the mouses there are monstrous ... tongue

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