Safiaaa:
yeah I agree100%. It’s a never ending cycle. You are what you attract. You can’t get angry at women that offer only their pussy when that’s all you value. Value more and you shall receive more. My personal opinion anyway.

makydebbie:


I think that happens with friends with benefits, where both parties want sexual satisfaction only.

makydebbie:
Do men offer only sex?
If yes, state your reason. I don't know but I'm not seeing a straightforward answer.



I think that happens with friends with benefits, where both parties want sexual satisfaction only.

donstan18:


How about in a serious relationship where some women are said to be offering only sex, can men aswell be said to offer only sex?

If YES, In what possible condition and assumption can such be stated?

That's one of my major answer for creating this thread.

AntiBrutus:
Yes, a man can offer just sex.
There are so many women using men as sex objects.
The major differences are, the male ego won't allow him agree he is the one being used.

Then, a woman will most likely not come out to brag of how she is using a guy for sex. It's not the average female thing to talk about such...plus in our society, she'll still end up getting shamed.

Here, a woman is the only one that depreciates via sex.
Never a man .

RuthDaniels:
Now you are deviating! The emboldened is another topic entirely, I tried to explain the Genesis of the offering cliche. Does that mean things are still the same they were back then?

Women have no right over sexual satisfactory complaint? Well maybe in the 18's... Yes! but in this very century... Hell no. Hold that believe, and watch how quick you and your dick will be replaced!

greiboy:
Men cannot offer what is not demanded, only a few men is showered the sex in the first place . Ladies only present sex to a few as gifts.

Those showered can then decide to start offering sex as something special in return if they want to. I.e. the playboys and Bleep boys

Neyoor:


Either offer sex or make sex, this is only peculiar to sex outside marriage. When you are married, you make love and don't offer sex. Making love is mutualistic hence the reason for the uniqueness of its contextual and literal meaning. in my mother's tongue, they called it "Ibalopo" which is the art of making love.

However, sex outside wedlock could be regarded as anything, according to why and what people indulging in it are getting from it. Ladies offer sex same as men, for the financial reason, pleasure and other personal beliefs.

donstan18:


I had to laugh at your "Dick replacement" hint

Thanks a bunch for your contribution.

You are welcome!

Have a nice night

greiboy:
Sexual manipulation works both ways my brother.

Women are less likely to be manipulated though because it takes something special to manipulate them.

In addition, any man handsome or good enough to manipulate women emotionally is already preoccupied with many ladies, so it it is highly unlikely.

Men on the other hand, take less effort to be manipulate because most men were denied the privileges in the first place.

Take for example, in the Nazi concentration camp in Second world war in Germany. when many Jews were freed by the allied forces and given bread. They valued it so much to the extent that some were hiding it and ready to die, thinking the allied forces were German forces.


Same principles can be applied to sex


It goes back to hoarding of sex bro, it isn't a cycle it a deliberate plot by most ladies.

makydebbie:
Few men are showered sex? Lol.


I get your point now. Thanks.

donstan18:


Perfect!, brO.

Ofwhich they should be blamed for the countering cliche that says "Most women offer nothing than sex"

greiboy:
Perhaps I might have exaggerated a little bit with the sex comments, but you should understand that some men get attention more than other men and most ladies will not mind being the third girlfriend of those men, either because of money, looks etc

That was my point

Grayjoy:
That is where we go back to what d society installed in our mentality. Every lady deserves a man dat preserves his body but what d society made us believe is dat, that preserved male is nt important like d preserved female. Let's take 4 example, a guy keeps sleeping with a lady and a certain neighbourhood lets say work place or school in dis context is aware of it, d lady is assumed to be a slut and could even be publicly addressed with dat tag by both male and female but what do we call d guy? We applaud him. It's sumtin dat has been passed down to us but in fairness, with normal reasoning and equity in consideration, what is good 4 d goose is good 4 d gander.

Safiaaa:
That’s because the hunt and crave for sex is a temporary want. It’s like when you’re craving a bottle of Fanta, you’ll do anything to drink it. Once you drink it, the crave automatically disappear and you see it as less valuable. When the men have achieved their goal which is sex they move on to the next. Men are not emotional so they have sex without attaching emotions. Sex can get you materialistic things from a man (when he’s at the craving stage) , but it can’t make a man love you or stay with you. That’s surpassing the temporary stage. Hope that makes sense.

donstan18:


But some women hoards sex in a marriage so as to get and meet their demands

Safiaaa:
True. It’s not very common and it also doesn’t last long.

yeah I agree100%. It’s a never ending cycle. You are what you attract. You can’t get angry at women that offer only their pussy when that’s all you value. Value more and you shall receive more. My personal opinion anyway.

AntiBrutus:
Yes, a man can offer 'just sex'. There are so many women using men as sex objects. The major differences are, the male ego won't allow him agree he is the one being used.

Then, a woman will most likely not come out to brag of how she is using a guy for sex. It's not the average female thing to talk about such...plus in our society, she'll still end up getting shamed.

Here, a woman is the only one that depreciates via sex.
Never a man .

Neyoor:


Same way some men would neglect their women in bed as punishment for erring. Some would even go as far as neglecting their wive's food even when they are responsible for the make-up fee.


It is called Manipulation, Both Gender are guilty of it.

greiboy:
Men cannot offer what is not demanded, only a few men is showered the sex in the first place . Ladies only present sex to a few as gifts.

Those showered can then decide to start offering sex as something special in return if they want to. I.e. the playboys and Bleep boys

donstan18:


You are right brO, very very right.

Preserved women are more valued than preserved men, infact preserved men are in some cases mocked as novice.

You typed of gender equity in considering sexual issues, do you really think "Gender equity" should be considered in sexual issues?

If YES, why then do ladies have edge over men in SEX when it should be equalized?

makydebbie:


Yes, lol. But you're talking about serious relationships which has got me confused. You mean relationships leading to marriage?

What do sugar mummies boyfriends offer their sugar mummies aside sex? I think that answers your question then.

RuthDaniels:
You are welcome!
Have a nice night

greiboy:
Absolutely, it is tag they should live with.

Although, some ladies offer way more than their body.

Grayjoy:
by having the edge over men in SEX what do u mean? Am nt cleared on dat line.

Neyoor:


Same way some men would neglect their women in bed as punishment for erring. Some would even go as far as neglecting their wive's food even when they are responsible for the make-up fee.


It is called Manipulation, Both Gender are guilty of it.

donstan18:


I mean women using sex as a bargaining tool to extort money from men.

Grayjoy:
Well d term equality to me has always been an illusion, even life doesn't support equality dat is if u study ur environment critically. So I dnt actually believe in equality even our fingers said so. But we should encourage equity. So if a guy cannot be shamed for fvcking anyhow then same should be 4 d ladies bt if u are with a lady and somehow dis sexuality discussion shows up, she begins to feel cagey dat u wan2 judge her or sumtin, if sex is bad 4 grlz it shud also be bad 4 boyz. Dat is my philosophy and believe.
Ladies are not actually in control of sex by using it as a bargaining tool, someone like me if u wan2 cage me with sex to make me do tinz like marry u or get something done 4 u, i won't even go ahead with d sex, it should be something 4 ur pleasure nt other benefits it has actually been part of my principles.
If u thnk only ladies use sex to bargain then u are a bit wrong, just like d sugarmummy stuff like makkyderbie said, Wat do u call dat then? Sometimes things do happen between u and a lady dat on good day u dnt wan2 sex her bt u can use dat as a means to an end, (did dat in school b4 though), but why it do happens is because the lady may capitilise on ur need or desperacy 4 dat sex and have her way.
Still on dat equality stuff, a frnd once asked me if i could marry a prostitute since i believe grlz shouldn't be shamed 4 much body count and all that.

Safiaaa:
Its very rare to find men who can’t be manipulated with sex. That’s every mans weak point, and women know this and that’s why they use it to their advantage. If more men could halve self control, then women will not be able to use their pussy to get what they want from you. But unfortunately, that will never happen. Women will continue to take adantage of your weakness. And men will continue to shout that’s all they offer when indirectly that’s all you value. It’s a cycle

donstan18:


Lol, I never expected less

Your comment said that it happens, but a mind game, it's hardly revealed by women and accepted in the society.

But, you tryna say that a gender offers sex?

Not a "Both thing"

DonPiiko:
You always sound deep, silly deep

philcz:

This big baby again