MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

thrillOG:

I saw this, I pass...



Oh well I believe you took out time to emphasize your objections..yea I'm cool with that..
I stated, that I caught her with another guy...hmm maybe I didn't go deeper into details, they were having sex when I came around, and she quickly dashed to the lavatory.. She apologize and I took it..
I don't know what trust you wanted me to have on such a person.. Perhaps i understand why you're being so defensive.. Maybe you're just her type anyways.. I pity the nigga digging you.

JimaeChinko:




It's crazy how dumb girls always want to control weak guys into circus clowns under the guise of "Oh!he Is boring"...

So what the f**k if he is boring?. OP serves you right too as you broke the heart of another girl who was already cool with your "Boring" state for this new one who played you. You got served right and I see a lot of weak guys turn themselves into monkey clowns just to seem interesting to girls. I never do that. I matured into understanding that for every girl with whatever default attitude you come with whether Boring or Exciting. You have a girl that fits in for you. Never be a Monkey clown for any girl. Be the man and you will see how these girls will crawl up to you even with that Boring introverted mode.

My only annoyance was OP, you checked her phone which she didn't want you to check before because she knew she was guilty and you acted like a pussy man by giving her that satisfaction when you stormed out in annoyance. You should have played it cool and acted like you saw nothing while scheming out how to play her back exactly same way she played you like a Jonzing mumu boy...

lefulefu:
there was this gentleman that taught me when i was in jss2. He died of hypertension cos of his wife's infidelity. Not only was she sleeping around she also gave the man hell. The man collapsed and died when he was washing his car.this happened 4 yrs ago. If love go turn me to a corpse biko i no get hand for dat type of love.dat na endtime love.

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less. in ur midget mind u believe u have said something sensible. How dare u talk about trust when u know deep down in ur mind that u are cheating on ur suppose boyfriend. I wonder how girls like u reason,probably wit ur pvssy I guess. So as u fine so Na this kind negative character u get. I'm disappointed.

Deprofessional:


If the above is true, you shouldn't be on this thread. We expect to see men here not boys.

lefulefu:
u talking out of point

Deprofessional:


If the above is true, you shouldn't be on this thread. We expect to see men here not boys.

itsmeurLady:


Please where did u get this ur dirty ideology from?? Sorry I'm cursing already but I'm just upset by this statement... There are still ladies with standards out der, mayb u have been meeting the wrong ones. The truth is there are still faithful ladies out der but rare Cs of the society we now live in, so the faithful ones are money's girl now? Hian please change your mindset. Being faithful and true is a choice and it has nothing to do with being a mommy or daddy's girl. Throughout my years of dating, I have never for once cheated and I don't intend to Cs My Man gives me a lot of reasons not to and even if he decides to stop giving me reasons to be faithful, I'd still be Cs this is who I am and nothing/no one can change my lifestyle

efesodje:





And what's your definition of a Man if I may ask politely?

lefulefu:
u dey mind the guy. I said when i was in secondary school..the guy come take am mean say i still dey secondary school. Some ppl can't just comprehend simple English.

efesodje:


No mind all these know it all people for nairaland That's why most times I no dey take am easy with them. Nonsense

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit
It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

Truckpusher:
Move on , she doesn't love you at all and still doesn't respect your love ,time and attention.
Bro !!move on - She's not into you .

CHAIRMANMAO:
hardly you will find a gal that is so loyal these days few that her still loyal are the virgin ones that are scared to get laid cause they dont wanna be pregnant "mummy's gal" so my 1 cent, dont love too much in a relationship so that you wouldnt get too hurt when shit happens.

kurt09:
Don't mind them. I fear any girl that won't allow you to touch her phone.

peterveo:
Ask her ooo. Most of these girls are cheats even married women. If she doesn't have the fear of God forget it.

kaboninc:


Is this the real truckpusher??

lefulefu:
u dey mind the guy. I said when i was in secondary school..the guy come take am mean say i still dey secondary school. Some ppl can't just comprehend simple English.

marvin906:
why is your life like this self.. you and edo state road i dont know which is better

MhizzAJ:


It isn't just cool...I dislike people with such attitude

Maybe there's nothing really exciting about the guy in question
He might just be a boring guy with nothing to offer for all i care

murphyibiam15:

how can I clone someone's whatsapp please??

Temysteve:
what he's trying to tell you is that there is NO synonyms between your post and this thread.

Realali:


Hmmm we know them you one of them change your way now

lefulefu:
there was this gentleman that taught me when i was in jss2. He died of hypertension cos of his wife's infidelity. Not only was she sleeping around she also gave the man hell. The man collapsed and died when he was washing his car.this happened 4 yrs ago. If love go turn me to a corpse biko i no get hand for dat type of love.dat na endtime love.

Magnifik18:


& how is their "coming" going to cause a sudden increase to her bank account balance?

They can come and go if they like, its her opinion and she's entittled to it.

Deprofessional:


If the above is true, you shouldn't be on this thread. We expect to see men here not boys.

Deprofessional:


If the above is true, you shouldn't be on this thread. We expect to see men here not boys.

itsmeurLady:


I can relate dear Cs I lost my bro due to a not-so-good wife he fell in love with but still, It doesn't change the fact that Love is beautiful with the right ones

CorGier:


Yeah, I think I can relate to that. Sometimes love comes with this possessiveness that tends to make us feel like we own the person, but that's just plain neediness and obsession. We need to learn to respect the privacy and personal spaces of the people we love. Even in love there should be boundaries. We don't wake up one day then choose to change a person and their social circle just cos they say they love us. I guess it takes a level of emotional maturity to love but be outcome independent.

PS: They say a woman's heart is like the ocean, so for us guys to think a girl's deepest secrets lies somewhere on some phone is just being naïve.

thrillOG:
Edakun Please pardon my blunders oo...I just had to pour out my happening so i can move on..

She served in PH, and stayed a little longer after service year to gain working experience.

We met in Jan 2017 after she got back to Lagos and became friends, every time I ask about her relationship status, she'll tell me she had a briefed one there and they stop talking as the guy is the busy type who works with an oil and gas firm.

She setup up a business and I help with ERP Software and we became attached.
I noticed she's usually lonely and in thoughts, I'll call her everyday and make her feel loved and that was how we started.
I ditch my current girl, snubs my niggas just to impart the missing Love.

Everything seems awesome and the dream seemly becoming reality, until I noticed one traits..'Her WhatsApp status is usually ONLINE at odd hours'.

I complained many times but the excuses are 'I have sleep disorder'. And she's met with different Therapist to no avail..I took that with a pinch of salt and I was watchful..

One day, we had plans to meet, and I called her I was still busy with a Client and don't think I can come over that night unknown to her, i was on my way..I arrived 40 minutes later and found out someone was with her. She opened the door and dashed to the lavatory.

I saw the guy was so uncomfortable and I left, minutes later she was calling begging to please come back and I did after discovering she was sobering up and just to hear her out; ' He was a Family Friend, he had issues with business and blah blah blah blah.. I took that cuz I Love her, I understand they've been together before I came into the picture.

The midnight WhatsApp Online status continues and I was curious to find out who she usually chats with at that time.

One day(Yesterday) I was with her and after some romantic discussions, I told her I needed to check Fiverr for some approval and I'll love to use her phone as my phone battery has drained(that's the scope I used), she ask that I use my Laptop and I told her the battery is low, she wanted to put on Generator and I said 'why can't I check the internet with my girl's phone??.

I collected it, and scroll through her WhatsApp and there, I got the greatest shock of my Life...

My girl wanted more of 'Mr Family Friend' d*ck than every other thing in her life.. How they've been fvcking and how she wanted it right now now..

Another shock of my life was when I was scrolling up..I saw where my girl was telling him that he should come and deal with the stupid computer boy(me) as he's disturbing Mr FF girl oo, she said she's tired of computer's boy disturbances and he reply, 'give me his number lemme curse him..

Èmi Computer boy

Peeps, not only that chat oo, I saw many different amorous Convo's from some other guys she told me was her cousins, church members and friends that has got me in thought since yday...
I have never checked her phone before in our 1year Plus relationship... I was happy I did that yday and thank God I did..

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less