Just curious. I mean our parents' marriage is the first we see and we pick some loveable attributes we would like to see in our own marriage. For me absolute no to a man like my father but I hope to be a woman like my mom

N-E-V-E-R

pryme:
N-E-V-E-R

lemme guess, your papa don show you shege

Pryme is male Na...

Give or take a few traits, yes. What a handsome fellow, what an intelligent man, what a gentleman (when he wanted to be lol) & what a resilient soul. He was a bit stoic & harsh though, I wouldn't want that in a man.

Indescribable18:
Just curious. I mean our parents' marriage is the first we see and we pick some loveable attributes we would like to see in our own marriage. For me absolute no to a man like my father but I hope to be a woman like my mom

Nope!

YES

tufia

I cant marry a man like my dad cos he doesnt know how to make a woman happy but he is a very good man with a good heart ......but if i were a man i will surely pray for a woman like my mum.......what a meek soul....may her soul continue to rest in peace .....amen

amakadihot87:
I cant marry a man like my dad cos he doesnt know how to make a woman happy but he is a very good man with a good heart ......but if i were a man i will surely pray for a woman like my mum.......what a meek soul....may her soul continue to rest in peace .....amen

accept my condolence, but ur mom is dead, how do u expect ur dad make another woman happy?
if u mean he can't make u happy as a father taking care of children like mother's do, then you have to understand that men are not as playful and emotional as ladies do, i believe he's proud of u as a daughter, i didn't like my dad when i was a kid, but later i knew him very well, his sacrifices I'll never forget. sorry for ur loss sha

My Mama, NOPE !!!

She is my world but as a wife .. lailai ... Wife must be better else she go make me get depression !!!

I can never marry a man like my dad
i cant stand a man who claims he is always right and every other person is foolish

I can't marry a man like my dad to some extent. My dad always think his opinion is the best, no one else's matters.He always wants things to be perfect...he won't do things in bits when deadline is close, he starts rushing and ends up not doing a good job of that thing.For instance, he has a building project at hand, he abandoned it because, there's no enough money as in he's waiting for the money to be complete like complete to finish the whole thing at once forgetting he has other responsibilities to take care of. Even if he gets the money, he'll spend it on other things. I detest that kind of thing, do things in bits, you won't even feel the pressure when deadline reaches.

I don't want to be like my mum because, she can't speak up when my dad does things that hurt her, she rather complain to me and there's nothing I can do about it.




All the same, I love them both no one's perfect but, I'm scared of marrying a man like my dad

If i see a woman as my mother then, I'm marrying at the age of 15... that woman is my life after God

Yes o. I’ll definitely marry a lady like my mum any day. She’s intelligent n very caring.

My mum is the next greatest person on this earth; after me of course. Marrying a woman like my mum will be so awesome. I love you like crazy mum. Hit that like button if you love your mama like I do.

dukeprince50:
accept my condolence, but ur mom is dead, how do u expect ur dad make another woman happy?
if u mean he can't make u happy as a father taking care of children like mother's do, then you have to understand that men are not as playful and emotional as ladies do, i believe he's proud of u as a daughter, i didn't like my dad when i was a kid, but later i knew him very well, his sacrifices I'll never forget. sorry for ur loss sha

thanks dear

Yeah yeah yeah, I wanna marry a wife like my mother... Only that,













She should not be as gentle as my mother. I love no-nonsense girls.

No

We see our parents as role models in a lot of things... For marriage, it's almost a different story...

Sure, I will grab the offer with my two hands. My mum is caring and she wants the best for her loved ones.

What else do a man need from a Lady apart from "Love".

of course! He is simply the best

Yes o, he is very caring.

[quote author=Indescribable18 post=65713230]Just curious. I mean our parents' marriage is the first we see and we pick some loveable attributes we would like to see in our own marriage. For me absolute no to a man like my father but I hope to be a woman like my mom[/quote

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Marrying a man like my dad is a definite no no,he was an absolute nonentity when he was alive.

Woman like my mum, I will do anything to get her

That‘s my prayer point! My Mum is just perfect! She balances my father perfectly. Knows when to intervene in matters nd when to keep her distance. Knows how to take care of her husband. Is smart and always willing to learn new things.

Interesting topic! Here to read comments.

It's amazing to see guys rooting for their Mum....even with all those bashings of women here and there on NL?

Hmmmmmm...... all is well o.

Can't marry a man like my Dad if I was a woman... too much procrastination and coverup using church dogma... buh a very very nice heart....

Will marry my mum though... She completes the family...