Dear Admin,

Most people would have easily ask me to divorce my wife of eight years after reading my story but my parents raised us up against the idea that divorce is the way out. My parents have been married for almost 40 years and they have become like a reference point for us,their children and many other married couples in our community.

Before I got married,I was involved with a girl (Joyce) from my town,in Oyo. We dated for two years and the sex was amazing with her. But we didnt end up getting married because,one my parents would not have approved. This lady was a little the free type,not exactly wife material. Secondly,she cheated on me and I was hurt. My parents always encouraged us to go for a God fearing lady for marriage and so,I met Damilola from our church choir and we dated for eight months without intimacy before getting married.

Damilola my wife is the typical church raised girl. She was raised in very strict home. I was her first and she never knew anything about ...



http://livelystones.com.ng/how-i-am-stuck-in-my-sexless-marriage-with-no-chance-of-escape/

Op what's your point exactly.

The story teller is confused. He married a Church girl who is inexperienced in sex. Who also feels that sex is only for procreation. Now he is not enjoying the marriage . What should he do ?

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Topestbilly:
Op what's your point exactly.

I don't know what happened next unless i have to click the link abi?

You can get the rest by revelation or vision. Looool

QueenSuccubus:



I don't know what happened next unless i have to click the link abi?

Cases like this require patience. Encourage her to watch alot of american films.

Or He should join her in the fasting lets see who will change. loool.

Beke2020:
Cases like this require patience. Encourage her to watch alot of american films.

if they say no Hmmm b4 marriage, my brother RUN


if they tell you dat they addicted to it but want to b celibate before marriage, my brother RUN


if they promise u an amazing s*x life after marriage, my brother RUN


all these kinda ladies will frustrate you to the extent dat u ve to beg for for access

@ z11111, she is Probably not only a church girl, but also circumcised. The latter is likely the culprit in this case.

This is the type of trap u enter when u practice no oza room b4 marriage. Anyway sorry about ur situation. Maybe u should go and report to ur pastor about ur almost sexless marriage and he will see wat he will do abt it.

Beke2020:
Cases like this require patience. Encourage her to watch alot of american films.

that na sin

Sooo sad my dear.

You have to live with it for the rest of your life.

z11111:
Dear Admin,

Most people would have easily ask me to divorce my wife of eight years after reading my story but my parents raised us up against the idea that divorce is the way out. My parents have been married for almost 40 years and they have become like a reference point for us,their children and many other married couples in our community.

Before I got married,I was involved with a girl (Joyce) from my town,in Oyo. We dated for two years and the sex was amazing with her. But we didnt end up getting married because,one my parents would not have approved. This lady was a little the free type,not exactly wife material. Secondly,she cheated on me and I was hurt. My parents always encouraged us to go for a God fearing lady for marriage and so,I met Damilola from our church choir and we dated for eight months without intimacy before getting married.

Damilola my wife is the typical church raised girl. She was raised in very strict home. I was her first and she never knew anything about ...



http://livelystones.com.ng/how-i-am-stuck-in-my-sexless-marriage-with-no-chance-of-escape/

Sin abi ?

As in say every thing to the church girl nah sin.

Loooool.

lefulefu:
that na sin

But this doesn't encourage pre marital sex.

chidichuddo:
if they say no Hmmm b4 marriage, my brother RUN


if they tell you dat they addicted to it but want to b celibate before marriage, my brother RUN


if they promise u an amazing s*x life after marriage, my brother RUN


all these kinda ladies will frustrate you to the extent dat u ve to beg for for access

preciousluv2018:
Sin abi ?

As in say every thing to the church girl nah sin.

Loooool.

wetin u want make i talk b4

Loooool.

God will help us in marriage ohhh.

Too many issues.

There are some ladies you will get ,high libido and the man will be complaining that the wife is not satisfied with their sex life. Then ,another ,the lady believes sex outside of procreation is sin.

Nah to become Rev Father nah. Looool

lefulefu:
wetin u want make i talk b4

preciousluv2018:

Loooool.

God will help us in marriage ohhh.

Too many issues.

There are some ladies you will get ,high libido and the man will be complaining that the wife is not satisfied with their sex life. Then ,another ,the lady believes sex outside of procreation is sin.

Nah to become Rev Father nah. Looool
sexual compactibilty is very important in a marriage oo .if the couples are incompactible sexually dat can kill the marriage.

thats why sexual compactibility is very important in marriage.when e no dey dat marriage go collapse

Maybe this is why a guy was asking me if am really sexual active? when i was telling celibacy is my way until wedding night

Lol! If not properly manage sex issue can destroy a marriage

Pricelessangel0:
Maybe this is why a guy was asking me if am really sexual active? when i was telling celibacy is my way until wedding night

It's a very serious issue my dear. In as much as we don't encourage pre marital sex , I think both parties should be to understand each other sex preferences .

Pricelessangel0:
Maybe this is why a guy was asking me if am really sexual active? when i was telling celibacy is my way until wedding night

z11111:

It's a very serious issue my dear. In as much as we don't encourage pre marital sex , I think both parties should be to understand each other sex preferences .

Sex Preference?

Hmmmm!

What I m trying to say Is instead of couples having issues because sex issues,it's better they had discussed about it before getting married to avoid complaints. When a lady or guy is making jokes like ,I'm not the sex type ohhhh. Maybe the guy says ,it's in nature of men to cheat . Hmmmmm!!! One need to be very careful. Act of the abundance of the heart,the mouth speaketh.

Pricelessangel0:

Sex Preference?

how? i dont mean blue film.

lefulefu:
that na sin

Beke2020:
how? i dont mean blue film.

dem also dey romance and have raunchy sex in American films na. Or u never watch 50 shades of grey?..or this film wey Antonio Bandaras and Angelina jolie for act..wey d title na original sin. Very spoilt film.american films are very spoilt. Maybe yoruba films will be appropriate sha cos no immorality in yoruba films.

Yoruba movie kwa !!!. Loool. How that one wan take help.

lefulefu:
dem also dey romance and have raunchy sex in American films na. Or u never watch 50 shades of grey?..or this film wey Antonio Bandaras and Angelina jolie for act..wey d title na original sin. Very spoilt film.american films are very spoilt. Maybe yoruba films will be appropriate sha cos no immorality in yoruba films.

z11111:

Yoruba movie kwa !!!. Loool. How that one wan take help.

iyam just suggesting

I think it has to start with a desire to change.

Just like the Johevah witness leader that allowed the wife to die during delivery bcoz he believed it was a sin to donate blood.

This lady must accept she needs help.

Its a mind set thing.

lefulefu:
iyam just suggesting

liquidlove2018:

I think it has to start with a desire to change.

Just like the Johevah witness leader that allowed the wife to die during delivery bcoz he believed it was a sin to donate blood.

This lady must accept she needs help.

Its a mind set thing.

u certainly can't change someone's mind who feels sex is immoral. If a guy loves sex and the lady he's about to marry feels disgusted by sex then the man should have a rethink if he would be able to go ahead with such a marriage. If im enter na one way chance like wetin op dey experience so.

exactly .

lefulefu:
u certainly can't change someone's mind who feels sex is immoral. If a guy loves sex and the lady he's about to marry feels disgusted by sex then the man should have a rethink if he would be able to go ahead with such a marriage. If im enter na one way chance like wetin op dey experience so.

i cant get hitched with a chick whos not on the same sexual level with me..
i like squashing twice a day 5 to 6 times a week..
i love experiments in bed
if my chick aint on the same path with me
she should leave or be ready for my cheating spree..
even if shes a novice buh if shes ready to learn and be open minded
then we game