...and even though I try to act mature, many see it as something else and just shut me off

NwaAmaikpe:


You shouldn't blame them for treating you with no respect.
It is because of your stature.
You can't look like Aki and Pawpaw and expect the respect given to Gentle Jack.

But there's a natural solution.
Semen contains undiluted raw fats and oil.

Get a healthy boyfriend, ensure he pours it all in, over time you'd see the improvement.

You'd certainly gain plenty weight.
Maybe in the ass,
Maybe on the laps,
Maybe on the hips, but certainly on the belly.

This is a tested and trusted method

NwaAmaikpe:


You shouldn't blame them for treating you with no respect.
It is because of your stature.
You can't look like Aki and Pawpaw and expect the respect given to Gentle Jack.

But there's a natural solution.
Semen contains undiluted raw fats and oil.

Get a healthy boyfriend, ensure he pours it all in, over time you'd see the improvement.

You'd certainly gain plenty weight.
Maybe in the ass,
Maybe on the laps,
Maybe on the hips, but certainly on the belly.

This is a tested and trusted method

PharmaGirl:
You mean you look pinchomic and people disrespect and insult you because of that?
How possible?


Lol maybe you were being rude.

Thing is you can't force respect from people.Respect is earned
Maybe you should change your character.For good .

Lastly love yourself the way you are and ignore what people think.

Windflower:
You should be glad for your kinda stature,I am also brief but a little chubby. My friend whom we are of the same height is as slim as a broom,she also goes tru what you described. You would come to fall in love with your stature when ure getting older.
Most importantly, its depends on the way you see yourself,I am gone past that stage where peoples opinion of me will bother me,call me short from today till tomorrow and I won't be moved an inch. About respect,don't mind those people,when you come down from the latest car,they would be the one saying yes ma
Soo don't be bothered about that,seniority is not about stature,its about what ure worth

missgoldenbrown:


Thanks.

It's not like people just look at me and insult outrightly. What i mean by insult is when people call me by name when we interact. Even people my age. For instance, in my culture, there's a pronoun you use for someone younger and another for someone older.Where as in English language, you just refer to everyone as "You", irrespective of age. Many atimes, I don't know if to call them by name back or just ignore them. Even older people can't address friends my age by name. Many even believe i added to my age during national youth service.

missgoldenbrown:
Hello people.
Please, I need your serious advice about this.

I'm a lady in my mid/late twenties and I'm through with university education.Stature wise, I don't look my age at all; I look like a sixteen year old girl. And this has alot to do with the way people relate with me. I've endured alot of insult, ridicule, disrespect, even rejection from people I've come in contact with. Even people my age treat me like I'm junior to them and even though I try to act mature, many see it as something else and just shut me off.

In places I've worked, my former bosses always believed I just got lucky to finish school on time and hence treat me like a child. This kept me thinking if i age was the criteria for recruitment.

I've also tried adding weight to make me look more mature but I didn't add.

I don't know if getting angry at people or keeping quiet when being talked to like a child is the right approach to this.


*Mods please help a sister*

BdorianGray:


@ Op.. You don't need to seek anything external to make you feel good about yourself. The reason you speak this way and haven't accepted yourself the way you are is simply cos you are yet to discover who you are in spirit. You also seem to be full of complexes.
No human soul is dispensable, no matter the height- tall or short or body frame- slim or fat etc. You don't need validation from anyone about how to feel abt yourself. Its a waste of energy.

Because we all have Ego, everyone gets insulted- everyone feels insulted no matter who they are or how they look. Learn to be thick skinned and ignore what u term an insult- learn to laff things off... Or transform impressions.
Well, i think as u focus less on these worries u would get over all this...
Cheers.

Windflower:

I ain't the op. I love me the way I am,you just quoted the wrong persom

BdorianGray:


I know. I had to quote your post to contradict one of your poilnts and to corroborate other points to the OP.

davidflipcy5856:
can you respond to your PM? I have something to tell you

OLAFIMIX:
Exactly what am going thru

missgoldenbrown:


Thanks for this opinion.... it'll only work in marriage though; I mean the semen method....not now.

I'm 5 feet 3 inches tall, though I'm slim. I think I'm taller than Aki and Pawpaw.

QwiinGee:
I'm 5 feet 3 inches tall, though I'm slim. I think
I'm taller than Aki and Pawpaw




How do u measure your height plzzz??

missgoldenbrown:
Thanks to everyone for your opinion.