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Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Pataricatering(f): 8:49am On Mar 21, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Staged. Unless the guy has been bewitched, I don't see how any self-respecting man would allow himself to become whatever that is. As a woman, I'd feel very uncomfortable watching a man (my man) do all the housework, while I'm sitting on my ass eating bonbons all day. In my own household I prefer to do all the housework, because I do it better grin
she is not eating bonbons though ! She is either studying or working ! This image is obviously for effect but whatever there is nothing wrong with a self - respecting man taking care of his child or sharing in housework - after all most self- respecting women contribute to household expenses and their self-respecting men collect it !

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Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by luminouz(m): 8:49am On Mar 21, 2018
Lionessza:



Nicely put. Nothing to add here .
Lol....SA babes are hot this morning tongue

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Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Puah(f): 8:49am On Mar 21, 2018
Papiikush:
If my wife earns 10m monthly, I'll gladly do more than that. grin



You are a sad soul. You can't even identify sarcasm at its best. I know the current situation of the country is hard.

Looking at your dp, one can understand. From your cheap cloths to the pants and your harsh skin (which obviously needs treatments)

You shall overcome the tribulations in your life one day. I'll make sure I remember you in prayer


THIS ONE WEAK ME SHA....LOL
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Lionessza(f): 8:51am On Mar 21, 2018
luminouz:

Lol....SA babes are hot this morning tongue


grin grin.
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:51am On Mar 21, 2018
jy2kbeyond:


Thank you Miss. See the way she even cross-legge sit down for chair. grin grin grin grin
Its not bad for one to help his wife, this pic doesn't show anything like help, he's a servernt I don't want to beleif a woman will allow her husband to do that when while she sits there like that.

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Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:51am On Mar 21, 2018
Pusyiter:
LOL.......Don't allow me to spill the beans. I am not talking as an outsider but someone who has experienced the streets in SA. It is not an issue of the match but a kingship of the spirit. SA ladies are sweet but 9ja ladies are sweeter. My advice is, if a 9ja man falls in love with you, then, you will know the true definition of love and romance (desire for such). It is a thing of the heart. Lemme stop here@least for now. LOL

Living in South Africa doesn't make you an expert on South African people. You can only form an opinion based on your observation. You're still an outsider. My opinion is also that of an outsider. I may not understand what motivates you to do the things you do, but you do. You call it romanticism. I see it otherwise. Different perceptions from different viewing points.

IDK, what you expect me to say on the Naija girls vs. South African girls topic because quite frankly, I really don't care who you think is sweeter. That's your taste & your choice. It doesn't bother me one bit. Plus, I also don't expect you to say otherwise. South African men probably feel the same way about us. It's to be expected.

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Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by DaddyKross: 8:51am On Mar 21, 2018
Pusyiter:
Sweetheart, I take exception to your comment. Nigerian men are the most romantic men you may ever dream of. When we fall in love, we FALL in love and give everything we have for the love. Same applies to Nigerian Woman. The truth is most SA ladies fall easily for 9ja men not because we like to lie as it were, but because we have SWAG which SA men don't. Most SA men are mentally lazy, hate responsibilities and love alcohol irrespective the time of the day. This is why we have xenophobia out there.
I have dated SA ladies but sorry to say, I'd prefer a Nigerian lady one million times to either a Zambian, SA or Namibian. I have reservations which I would not want to air.


Fact.....

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Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by DaRuud(m): 8:52am On Mar 21, 2018
Chineke , Emeka , finally Chinwe has finally captured you , she has used that water to cook for you !!!!
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by ubunja(m): 8:52am On Mar 21, 2018
Pataricatering:
she is not eating bonbons though ! She is either studying or working ! This image is obviously for effect but whatever there is nothing wrong with a self - respecting man taking care of his child or sharing in housework - after all most self- respecting women contribute to household expenses and their self-respecting men collect it !
#dead grin
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Obierika(m): 8:53am On Mar 21, 2018
Obviously staged so that the pic will trend
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by BiafranBushBoy: 8:54am On Mar 21, 2018
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Its not bad for one to help his wife, this pic doesn't show anything like help, he's a servernt I don't want to beleif a woman will allow her husband to do that when while she sits there like that.

How are you dear. My phone is bad.

You no even bother checkup. You deserve .... angry
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Nobody: 8:54am On Mar 21, 2018
from husband to houseboy
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:54am On Mar 21, 2018
luminouz:


I no get strength for wahala this morning biko grin

But one thing is for sure....I never used money to entice a woman n I have dated a beninoise,a cameroounian n an Ethiopian....


You're an exception grin

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Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by ubunja(m): 8:55am On Mar 21, 2018
luminouz:

Lol....SA babes are hot this morning tongue
dude SA girls will always be hot. ALWAYS. and romantic.
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:56am On Mar 21, 2018
Pataricatering:
she is not eating bonbons though ! She is either studying or working ! This image is obviously for effect but whatever there is nothing wrong with a self - respecting man taking care of his child or sharing in housework - after all most self- respecting women contribute to household expenses and their self-respecting men collect it !

Or she could be on Facebook grin

That's your opinion, let me stick to mine.

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Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Nobody: 8:57am On Mar 21, 2018
Preshy561:

lol,the last won't escape it.grin
ok oo cheesy
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Nobody: 8:57am On Mar 21, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Staged. Unless the guy has been bewitched, I don't see how any self-respecting man would allow himself to become whatever that is. As a woman, I'd feel very uncomfortable watching a man (my man) do all the housework, while I'm sitting on my ass eating bonbons all day. In my own household I prefer to do all the housework, because I do it better grin

Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Goodinfo: 8:58am On Mar 21, 2018
Olalan:
its called stupid love

Why would you call it stupid love?
If that laptop is what feeds and keep the family than you are wrong.
If the man is under spells he definitely needs deliverance then you are right
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Jayuba(m): 8:59am On Mar 21, 2018
That is what Nigerian girls like.

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Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Nobody: 8:59am On Mar 21, 2018
Pataricatering:
she is not eating bonbons though ! She is either studying or working ! This image is obviously for effect but whatever there is nothing wrong with a self - respecting man taking care of his child or sharing in housework - after all most self- respecting women contribute to household expenses and their self-respecting men collect it !

sadly though XhosaNostra is right
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Nobody: 8:59am On Mar 21, 2018
BluntTheApostle:


Pounding is a woman's work.

Women are stronger than men. It is a fact.
well at the time i was at home it was i or any male in the house who pounded..while my mom would dish it out.wat is abnormal here is the guy pounding and carrying a child while the woman sits down toying with a laptop.but i guess its all for show.
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Tunks2017(m): 9:01am On Mar 21, 2018
Its stupendousity shocked

Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Goodinfo: 9:02am On Mar 21, 2018
StylesX:
I think its stupidity

If that laptop is what feeds and keep the family than you are wrong.
If the man is under spells he definitely needs deliverance then you are right
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Nobody: 9:02am On Mar 21, 2018
lefulefu:

well at the time i was at home it was i or any male in the house who pounded..while my mom would dish it out.wat is abnormal here is the guy pounding and carrying a child while the woman sits down toying with a laptop.but i guess its all for show.

could also be the effect of kobnomi or Decimal 10:10 tinz cheesy grin
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by maisauki: 9:03am On Mar 21, 2018
He has eaten vegetables
O ti je efo
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:03am On Mar 21, 2018
BiafranBushBoy:


How are you dear. My phone is bad.

You no even bother checkup. You deserve .... angry
I'm fine, how have you been.
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Nobody: 9:04am On Mar 21, 2018
Bbbbbbbbbbbb:


could also be the effect of kobnomi or Decimal 10:10 tinz cheesy grin
bros na decimal 10:10 obviously grin

Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by DonCandido(f): 9:07am On Mar 21, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Staged. Unless the guy has been bewitched, I don't see how any self-respecting man would allow himself to become whatever that is. As a woman, I'd feel very uncomfortable watching a man (my man) do all the housework, while I'm sitting on my ass eating bonbons all day. In my own household I prefer to do all the housework, because I do it better grin

It's actually a syndrome called "mumuity".

Usually afflicts the man. It is however non infectious. Weird thing is: only third parties (friends, parents, neighbours et al) can see it's manifestation in the man.

Young, rich, urbane and upward mobile men with vast network of friends; who work late; go on frequent business trips; attend social functions without the madam; who are forgetful or can't get their stories right are its victim.

Mumuity is rampant among African men especially Nigerians.

Presently there is no cure for it, faithfulness to the madam has been known to reduce the incidence.

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Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by BluntTheApostle(m): 9:09am On Mar 21, 2018
lefulefu:

well at the time i was at home it was i or any male in the house who pounded..while my mom would dish it out.wat is abnormal here is the guy pounding and carrying a child while the woman sits down toying with a laptop.but i guess its all for show.

Yes, it has shifted. But I think women did the pounding in those days. You would find one or two pounding simultaneously.

Yes, this picture is evidently for show.
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by XhosaNostra(f): 9:09am On Mar 21, 2018
DonCandido:


It's actually a syndrome called "mumuity".

Usually afflicts the man. It is however non infectious. Weird thing is: only third parties (friends, parents, neighbours et al) can see it's manifestation in the man.

Young, rich, urbane and upward mobile men with vast network of friends; who work late; go on frequent business trips; attend social functions without the madam; who are forgetful or can't get their stories right are its victim.

Mumuity is rampant among African men especially Nigerians.

Presently there is no cure for it, faithfulness to the madam has been known to reduce the incidence.

grin

Pusyiter, what say you?
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by Opentokwowledge: 9:09am On Mar 21, 2018
Doesn't mean the man is caring though... He could still be abusive as fukc! undecided
Re: Is This What Being A Supportive Husband Means Or Just Plain Stupidity? by BluntTheApostle(m): 9:12am On Mar 21, 2018
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Its not bad for one to help his wife, this pic doesn't show anything like help, he's a servernt I don't want to beleif a woman will allow her husband to do that when while she sits there like that.

That is the point.

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