Nairalanders,
Wonders shall never end, it seems.
E get this guy wey travel go US about 4 years ago, go do im masters. He never go home since then. The girlfriend wey im leave for Nigeria somehow managed to get herself pregnant for someone else(an SS3 student BTW), all the while professing her undying love for this (yankee)guy.
When the deed was done and the fruits don ripe, she run go one corner of Nigeria go hide hoping say nobody go notice her. But the news reach her guy for yankee.
Guess what..... the guy called the girl and proposed to her. The girl even get the mouth to tell the guy say she no wan see am ever again(for obvious reasons), but this guy is still beggin the girl to marry him. Methinks, that girl deserves never to find true love. Annoying part of this drama is: The guy and the girl had decided to wait until marriage before having sex.

I think this is the reason why most people including myself, believe that true love is hard to find in Nigeria.

What would you do if you were in this position?

As for me, there's no question.I'm dropping the girl pronto.

Funny story!

There's no need for consultation at all...Was she raped?

If I were in the guy's shoes, na to forget her sharp sharp...No thinking twice!

This is a very simple open and close case. The girl has to go. No doubt about it.

pie1ect i dont understand this story, you say the yankee guy found out she got pregnant for someone else and still went ahead to propose? i no understand that part.
and you say na ss3 student de girl get belle for? that's weird.
another thing wetin the guy de do reach four years? na four years dem de take do masters?

@bagoma:
1. The girl already had the child(for a few weeks) before the yankee guy heard about it and YES he went on to propose...
2. Yes, na SS3 student na im she born this pikin for.....
3.  He has his reasons for staying back in the states (na story I hear)...
Very weird story actually.

IS THIS A TRUE STORY ??

@Omoge02863

Of course

if its indeed true then craze craze things really de happen.
nna na wa o

hmmmmmm...I reserve my comments.

is that love?

@Snazzy
Abeg comment your reserve, we'll like to hear it.

@fadekemi
Definitely not. Madness,more like....

i guess as much

he just have to end the relation, and fine someone else.

true, na madness.

this is soooooo sad, but nothin to do.

this story sounds weird

why do pple fail to get it into their thick skulls that long distance relationships don't work?

dang pple.

Busta:

why do people fail to get it into their thick skulls that long distance relationships don't work?

dang people.

True, that. If i'm going to travel for more than a year and my wife (or wife-to-be) can't come and see me in-between, I no dey go.

If I were in his place, nothing would make me go back to ask the girl to marry me, after all the betrayal. But in all honesty, I admire the guy's courage and true love for her. It is rare, and I would dare say he is a better person than I am.

This is heartbreaking. The guy has or will i say had an undyeing love for the girl. He still loves the girl despite the betrayal.

Maybe the girl has found true love somewhere else so she should be allowed to go and catch it.

I think this is the reason why most people including myself, believe that true love is hard to find in Nigeria.

You acn find true love if you follow your heart. True love is everywhere it has to do with the person involved.

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So u mean the gul should wrap her thing and wait for the yankee guy for 4 solid yrs? Haba bodi no b fire wood na.