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| My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by steph2sweet(f): 7:58pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Pls matured minds in the house, i need an advice. I just got the shock of my life today. I got to know that the man I am planning to spend the rest of my life with has a child out of wedlock. I heard this from someone close to his family and I confronted him about it. He said he is afraid to loose me, that was why he didn't tell me about it. That he doesn't have anything to do with the lady that gave birth to the child for him, and that the lady is already married. I am just short of words. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by xendra: 8:34pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
hmmm! my story want just be like your own .......Men! oh dear!! such mentions  y'all made my day...or at least what's left of it  11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by TiffanyJ(f): 7:06am On Apr 11, 2018 |
Your relationship lacks trust and honesty. He should have told you and allowed you to decide whether or not you want to marry him after having a baby. After all, no one is perfect. 114 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by dominique(f): 5:50pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
xendra: Did you eventually marry him? |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by Nobody: 5:55pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
I don't mind as long as he tells me from the onset. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by donstan18: 8:06pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
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| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by Mcy56(f): 7:43am On Apr 12, 2018 |
It's so wrong for any man or woman to hide such important and conspicuous thing! A living child is not what anyone can keep secret forever. May God deliver women from these deceitful men. A man recently went for an introduction and they are currently planning wedding unknowingly to the woman that the man had a grown up child already. He lied to the lady with an excuse that if she (or her father especially) knows, they wouldnt agree to her marrying him. I was of the opinion that he should have let the lady know and decide whether to go ahead with him or not instead of lying. Now, when the truth is finally out and the woman reacts badly, he will be among the losers to be name-calling women. 53 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by introvertious: 4:27pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
there could be other secrets locked around him too. sometimes, the signs are just being thrown at our faces...... B WISE 9 Likes |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by Nobody: 4:14pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
xendra:shut up.. 34 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by Shugarlord213: 8:04pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
Even if he told you sef the question remains... What have you contributed asides your punana 59 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by Nobody: 8:24pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
xendra: Really? My o my! I am itching to hear your own story too. What happened...full gist abeg. 4 Likes |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by Nobody: 8:27pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
Op, if you can live with a lying man, then good luck ahead. Only God knows what else he is keeping from you. If he says he's hiding nothing else, well how can you trust him now or ever  15 Likes |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by Safiaa(f): 8:37pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
How do you know the other woman is married? How do you know he has nothing to do with her? What was the cause of their separation? If he was able to hide having a child for that long, how strong is their father/child relationship? Is he a good father to this child? You need to ask yourself these questions because history normally repeats itself. 54 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by Prognose: 8:43pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
steph2sweet: he doesn't have anything to do with the lady? Did his sperm take flight and enter her vargina through an open window while she was sleeping ? His fear of 'loosing' you and thus hiding this information is understandable, many people won't be able to take this kind of news. Then again some people don't mind. Which of them are you? 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by Nwaohafia1: 10:15pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
ok |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by Lifeofpolice1(m): 10:15pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
Y |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by Felixalex(m): 10:15pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
Men are scum  8 Likes |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by oyetunder(m): 10:15pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
a broken relationship is far better than a broken home. The stage for a future brouhaha is set already. Be short of words...don't be short of actions. 13 Likes |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by TroubleMaker47(m): 10:15pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
Run! 1 Like |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by deepwater(f): 10:16pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
Kai |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by Apina(m): 10:16pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
steph2sweet:He was wrong for not informing you about the child but the deed has been done and he said the Lady is married. The intention of the individual who called to tell you is questionable. It isn't as though he was married and took you for a ride, sit down With him and make further enquiries about whatever doubts you might be harbouring, asking you to back out of the said union would be myopic, what if you fall in love with a widower who has kids and you get married, would you reject his child for whatever reason(just saying). I would have asked you to go into panic mode if the mother if the child was still available but she isn't and thus you should also move on with your fiancee. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by veacea: 10:16pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
Don't be a learner abeg you in the name of Buhari Na wetin APC used for Nigerians in 2015 him wan use for u ooooooooo. Abeg shine your eyes. Lemme come and be going before they will come and beat me 2 Likes |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by Firgemachar: 10:17pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
Chai |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by Lifeofpolice1(m): 10:17pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
steph2sweet:can you hear yourself He has told you nothing between him and the lady or abi you want kill him because of that You better forgive him Mistake is a mistake Thank God he do not die in his mistakes Try and check the thread below yours, you will see why the man die 1 Like |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by oyetunder(m): 10:17pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
kalijahtaze:him |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by zombieTRACKER: 10:18pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
She loves you That's why she kept it a secret The big question is What else is she not telling you |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by oyetunder(m): 10:18pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
Lifeofpolice1:but he became a confessor after rural wikileaks leaked his secret. 11 Likes |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by castrol180(m): 10:18pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
...just make sure you don't stab him later! |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by Seun360(m): 10:19pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
TiffanyJ: Well said. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by SNIPER123: 10:19pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
So what's your problem with child? 7 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. by TroubleMaker47(m): 10:19pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
Lifeofpolice1:If it was the woman, would you say the same? 31 Likes |
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