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Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by Jbleenk: 1:45pm On Apr 12, 2018
flyDixon:





And that's the major problem with Nigerians accept your shortcomings and improve on yourself, but you would rather boost of qualification...........
In your hands, I bet its mere paper else it would have shown in your communication.
My dear keep pride aside study more, not just read for an examination.

Wonder why I'm even engaging in this with u by the way
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by omosuper(m): 1:59pm On Apr 12, 2018
Oma307:

can u share your own experience because I always hear it but I do doubt it
She is a member on NL and I don't want to cause another wahala for my self.It's real and scary my bro.
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by larrybee2017(f): 1:59pm On Apr 12, 2018
Gassa007:

You didn't give the guy any reasonable solution.All you did was just spewing rubbish
Let me see your GNS 101 result before I respond to this trash you type here. Go back to my post and read again and again.
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 2:23pm On Apr 12, 2018
omosuper:
She is a member on NL and I don't want to cause another wahala for my self.It's real and scary my bro.
okay
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by Gassa007: 2:59pm On Apr 12, 2018
larrybee2017:

Let me see your GNS 101 result before I respond to this trash you type here. Go back to my post and read again and again.
GNS101 Waste of time
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by DavidEsq(m): 4:20pm On Apr 12, 2018
Jbleenk:


Bro, It's an indoctrination used by religious n political leaders to subject human into mental slavery for easy control purpose. Except ur among the very few smart enough not to conform to such bs.

Ever heard of divide and rule? Guess not.
Doesn't ur use of wat u call indoctrination not imply that u are also part of such indoctrination? Except u wr being sarcastic.
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by AlphaT1(m): 4:44pm On Apr 12, 2018
Aboguede:


That didn't make her a saint though.
We always judge by people's judgement and as long as people believe we are doing well, we pretend to be too.

But don't forget that life is personal

No one is talking about being a saint here, "all have sinned and come short of the glory of God",.... however God's grace and mercy endureth forever pleading our cause that we may live a righteous life. David was a man after God's own heart yet he was a terrible sinner. No body is a saint but we are all working on ourselves to get better. It is possible for a genuine church girl to fall to fornication but then realizes she has sinned then repents and refuses to indulge in it again...
It is only a deceiver/pretender dat would consistently engulf herself in a particular sin (fornication for dat matter) with no repentance whatsoever as in the above story....
As a matter of fact church girls don't joke with the issue of fornication....They are not saints but majority will not indulge in fornication and so if you see any lady pretending to be a church girl and yet swimming in "pornia", biko run for your life!
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 4:57pm On Apr 12, 2018
Guy you done enter one chance, Na Ogbanje you marry ooo,Only prayer and fasting to God almighty can save you.
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by sonofoluku: 5:23pm On Apr 12, 2018
deliciousgeh:
grin I am very married

Lol...
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by stacyadams: 2:56am On Apr 13, 2018
rychard:
Baba, I cannot live with a woman who cut down her age by 8yrs, or lie about her qualification. And even told me she got pregnant in order to force a marriage...

I can't marry anybody I met in the church... Never!!!... Its better I go to the club house or strippers club to find a wife..
I support u bro ...
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 8:23am On Apr 13, 2018
nawa o nobody want to die but we wan go heaven
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by perousd: 11:37am On Apr 13, 2018
You force me enter marriage with lies.... And you say make I manage am. Send her to school, repair the bridge. Una dey craze Gan oo.

Una dey mad Gan o.

She go die Gan oooohhhh...
Bros... Inform her parents o. If you can't handle it, gerrout of that thing o.
Bloody Hell.
Don't let any one bully you into A union you'll regret 4eva...
How will you explain to your kids when they ask how you met their mother.


I hate Lies men especially unnecessary ones. Or Bullying ones..
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by odayofunmi: 8:40pm On Apr 16, 2018
lawman88:
Good day Nairaland, please take your time to read the story. I will try to be brief and precise
I got married to my wife last year and will have been living peacefully. She is very respectful but I found out that she concealed many things and not everything she told me before the marriage was true. I felt hurt and don't give her the due respect.

I use to quarrel her about the lies she told me before marriage and she will wet the pillow throughout the night. I have threatened divorce and she will commit suicide if I divorce her.

Here are some of the lies she told & I believe her because I thought she was a church girl: She told me she has HND but it was ND she has. She told me she was pregnant before we marry but she was not. She cut down her age by 8yrs.

Now, anytime I quarrel all the lies she told and deceived me to marry her, I will dream of death in the night. Some time I seen myself dead & being buried or I had fatal accident and died. Even yester night I quarrelled her & I had a dream that my dad died in a ghastly accident. Any time I didn't quarrel, I will not have bad dreams.

What will I do now? I don't know if I leave her I'm going to die. The discovery of the lies has taken all her love from my heart and I have told her eldest brother that I'm not comfortable with the marriage anymore. I'm feeling so bad that a church girl who always speaking in tongues and praying always could deceive me this way. Everything was lies and I thought she was saying the truth because of the way she was committed to church
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HOW DO I CONTACT YOU, I CAN HELP YOU WITH SOME PRAYER POINT
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:16pm On Apr 16, 2018
Your wife is very possessed,and yes you might die if you leave her,so please take this matter seriously and seek the help of pastors right now.
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by Simbrixton(m): 10:05pm On Apr 20, 2018
Lightening:


Bros learn punctuations. Your writeup is unintelligible.
Na u no wan understand
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by Codebrain49484: 4:06pm On Apr 28, 2018
nice one
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by AngelNigeria: 10:41pm On Feb 13, 2019
you only have two options. is either you learn to love and live with her peacefully or you sent her packing for piece of mind. but I suggest you learn to love her and made her understand her mistakes to prevent future occurrence. we are all imperfect in different ways. rise above it.
Re: I Dream Of Death Anytime I Quarrel With My Wife. I Need Your Advice by AngelNigeria: 10:45pm On Feb 13, 2019
Abi u wan tell me say u never lie to her before?

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