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Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Amarabae(f): 12:09pm On Apr 12, 2018
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That awkward moment you realize that 90% of your mates are getting married and here you are still waiting.
Pressure is mounting internally and externally,
You celebrate your 27+ birthday and boom the tension is brewing.
Relax your nerves.

Sometimes it's not easy being single,
Majority want to get married,
Have someone they can call their own,
Have an active sex life,
Have some cute lovely kids
Go out on shopping with them.
Or maybe all you want now is just relationship.

All these are lovely but don't allow them push you ending up with the wrong person due to pressure.


For yet to marry ladies!
Know your worth,
Don't allow him turn you into a intimacy gadget because you are hoping for the engagement ring,
Don't allow him turn you into a punching bag because of engagement ring,
If you don't like him, never say YES to his proposal,
Don't say yes to someone you have no feelings for.
It's boring, you can't be comfortable with him.
I am shocked seeing what some ladies go through in a race to get married,
Some are now desperate,
Some are being duped by all these criminals in the name of prayers.

They are ready to do anything now.
"I am ready to marry anyone as far as its a man" -that's their anthem, so cheap!

Or maybe you are just in a relationship with him and marriage is not your priority,
If he is not respecting and loving you the way you want and deserve,
Please walk out of the relationship!
If you are not interested in premarital sex life with him,
Don't bow to pressure, walk out of the relationship.
If you are not seeing the worth of continuing in that relationship with him, plz walk out of it.

Your marital status does not and should not determine your worth.
Look at yourself in the mirror and see how beautiful and wonderful you are,
Look again and see a queen staring back at you.

Getting married should not be the only goal in your life,
Focus your mind on improving your career,
Growing that your business,
If you are a graduate, then you focus on your post graduate program,
Getting a new skill and opening a venture with it.

At the right time, if fate decides in your favour, your king will come if that's your dream.
Remember it's better to marry late to the right person than to marry early to the wrong person.

.......
You are special and the best.
You deserve nothing less,
You are a queen.
Don't allow the pressure get to you.

Thanks swerries. kiss kiss
Oriaku Amara loves you all.

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by donstan18: 12:12pm On Apr 12, 2018
A lady at 20 years........I have 3 rich fresh boyfriends.

A lady at 25 years.........Men are scum.

A lady at 29 years........Women should know their worth, marriage isn't compulsory.

A lady at 33 years..........Marriage is not for everyone, I hate being controlled by a man.

A lady at 36 years.....…Only God knows the best for his people, he never forsakes his people.

A lady at 40 years......You'll see her rolling and crying on the floor in churches cheesy

You tried to elevate and advise ladies, but ended up proving to us that marriage is and will continue to be the top priority of a typical African women, your thread's body reeks marriage and relationship only.

**For God sake, is that all you women live for?

**How many times have we seen a lady create thread on how to empower ladies in business or jobs?

**Must every advice to ladies be revolving around marriage and love?

**Is that all you all v'got to achieve in life?

**Can't you all for once think of being productive and competing in political positions, rather than focusing your goals in marriage, love, sex, virgin, heartbreak, boobs and ass?

**The same set of ladies advocating for self worth and marriage now instead of productive things will come tomorrow to cry that men are oppressing them, while they used all their time to advocate for marriage and single life.

**What will happen if you advice them to know their worth in business or creative field, do you know how much the world cherish and crave for women with business and creative ideas

You all are a big disgrace to this nation

Go to universities and see female students prioritizing relationship and making marriage a bone of every of their discussion undecided

This thread is another prove that MARRIAGE is the top priority of Nigerian women.
And until women start having sense about that, men will continue to use and regard you all as sex objects.

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Amarabae(f): 12:14pm On Apr 12, 2018
donstan18:
cheesy
why did you change your dp?
Where is that cute little boy
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Safiaa(f): 12:15pm On Apr 12, 2018
I agree. I read somewhere on the front page that a woman is allowing a young boy of 24 to live in her house, spending money on him all in the bid of getting married and she’s 29. She’s become this young mans sugar mummy, it’s honestly quite sad. It doesn’t help that when you’re of age and not married ‘they’ began to think something is seriously wrong with you. We also have a biological clock, so there’s so many things working against us.

All I can say is live your life, be the best version of yourself and put yourself in places to meet people and you Will definitely find someone with quality. They’re 7 billion people in the world, deep it. There has to be at least 1 person out there for you. Be patient ladies, he will come.

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Amarabae(f): 12:17pm On Apr 12, 2018
Safiaa:
I agree. I read somewhere on the front page that a woman is allowing a young boy of 24 to live in her house, spending money on him all in the bid of getting married and she’s 29. She’s become this young mans sugar mummy, it’s honestly quite sad. It doesn’t help that when you’re of age and not married ‘they’ began to think something is seriously wrong with you. We also have a biological clock, so there’s so many things working against us.

All I can say is live your life, be the best version of yourself and put yourself in places to meet people and you Will definitely find someone with quality. They’re 7 billion people in the world, deep it. There has to be at least 1 person out there for you. Be patient ladies, he will come.
I agree with you.
Some ladies are doing crazy stuffs.
Some don't mind marrying their fathers agemate

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 12:24pm On Apr 12, 2018
The pressure on ladies these days to marry is real both from parents, friends and the contemporary society at large, especially is you are up to 20+, even the married ladies segregate themselves from the single ladies and use marriage as an insult when insulting single ladies, why won't they be bothered about getting a life partner?



My own is that no matter what, I will never settle for the less and will still get married to my dream man.

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by planetx13: 12:26pm On Apr 12, 2018
I asked this in a previous thread and I will still ask again... is men the only thing women have to talk about now. It's getting rather scary .... all they talk about is centred around men, be it love, relationships and what have you. Will their vocal cords rust if they talk about business ideas , politics and other progressive things??.... men are this , men are that ..... but still you won't let them be.

Secondly I think it will be better to try and work on yourself to be a better person not just expecting someone to accept s.hit just because you want someone to accept you for who you are .( would you advice your fellow lady to remain with a woman beater because she has to accept him for who he is ?? .. I think not). ..

Marriage is about compromise and sacrifice. To be happily married you just have to let something go and understand that things must not always go your way. As I always say, if you want anything good in life , you have to work for it .... if you want a good husband, you must prove that you are worth it, if not your waiting might be longer than 3rd mainland bridge.

Ciao

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 12:31pm On Apr 12, 2018
Coming from a married lady that brags about spending her husband's money..

If you didn't get married for his money, you should not be bragging about spending his money..

You married early because of his money and now you are advising single ladies not to get married because of pressure.

You are in your husbands house telling young ladies to remain single..

This is hypocrisy of the highest pedigree.

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by lilmax(m): 12:38pm On Apr 12, 2018
marriage will, and continue to be the last option

that's HOW life goes

nigerian women refusing common sense

the thought of "you not proposing to your self " should make you think about marriage always, because you do not determine the time you get married grin
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Liliyann(f): 12:39pm On Apr 12, 2018
People should realize that marriage is not for everyone!
It is not a guarantee for happiness and not a do or die affairs!!
It pains me when I see people talking about marriage like an achievement which is not!
God knows I won't stress myself over a man!
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Amarabae(f): 12:43pm On Apr 12, 2018
DrinkLimca:
Coming from a married lady that brags about spending her husband's money..

If you didn't get married for his money, you should not be bragging about spending his money..

You married early because of his money and now you are advising single ladies not to get married because of pressure.

You are in your husbands house telling young ladies to remain single..

This is hypocrisy of the highest pedigree.
oga limca.
Did you read the thread before commenting?
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 12:45pm On Apr 12, 2018
Getting a man to marry shouldn't be difficult for a young lady. Not in this day and age that a young girl would have multiple boyfriends. A young lady go get 16 boyfriends and 8 sugar daddies and they will all be rolling on the floor for her and begging her for marriagecheesy. I never even mention the Facebook and instagram male admirers that will be using Venza and land cruiser to purpose to her.so why complain of being single? U can easily choose just one man among the flock of men chasing u. One man must have ur spec amongst d men for u to choose.it is we men dat should even be finding it hard to get a partner ...not ladies.

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Amarabae(f): 12:45pm On Apr 12, 2018
lilmax:
marriage will, and continue to be the last option

that's HOW life goes

nigerian women refusing common sense

the thought of "you not proposing to your self " should make you think about marriage always, because you do not determine the time you get married grin

Do you know that there are some ladies who are not interested in marriage?
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 12:48pm On Apr 12, 2018
Amarabae:
oga limca.
Did you read the thread before commenting?
yes i read it very well..
You are in no position to advice single ladies..

You married early, no doubt..
If he was broke, you wound not have married him..

So his money added pressure on you saying yes to him..

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 12:50pm On Apr 12, 2018
lefulefu:
Getting a man to marry shouldn't be difficult for a young lady. Not in this day and age that a young girl would have multiple boyfriends. A young lady go get 16 boyfriends and 8 sugar daddies and they will all be rolling on the floor for her and begging her for marriagecheesy. I never even mention the Facebook and instagram male admirers that will be using Venza and land cruiser to purpose to her.so why complain of being single? U can easily choose just one man among the flock of men chasing u. One man must have ur spec amongst d men for u to choose.it is we men dat should even be finding it hard to get a partner ...not ladies.
It's not as easy as you think, most of those men are after sex and not marriage, they may have 3boyfriends and non of those guys have marriage in mind for them and those guys also might have that one Lady in mind they want to marry and also keep other ladies are their girlfriend, so you see, guys are cunny.

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 12:50pm On Apr 12, 2018
Liliyann:
People should realize that marriage is not for everyone!
It is not a guarantee for happiness and not a do or die affairs!!
It pains me when I see people talking about marriage like an achievement which is not!
God knows I won't stress myself over a man!

hmm seems u not a nigerian or maybe u stay overseas.in naija, marriage na big achievement o.
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by walepackage(m): 12:55pm On Apr 12, 2018
DrinkLimca:
Coming from a married lady that brags about spending her husband's money..

If you didn't get married for his money, you should not be bragging about spending his money..

You married early because of his money and now you are advising single ladies not to get married because of pressure.

You are in your husbands house telling young ladies to remain single..

This is hypocrisy of the highest pedigree.
i also ponder and wonder on how gullible some of these ladies folks that will take her advice seriously.I think, she should have channel her energy into "how a woman becomes a better,productive,supportive and understanding the reality of life,rather than postulating an utopian idea which cannot help matters.Whether you like it or not 'marriage' is a pivotal institution in a society be it developed or less developed society(s).We all need a companionship either one way or the other,its a social fact that cannot be forgone or erase.No one is perfect.

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by lilmax(m): 12:55pm On Apr 12, 2018
Liliyann:
People should realize that marriage is not for everyone!
It is not a guarantee for happiness and not a do or die affairs!!
It pains me when I see people talking about marriage like an achievement which is not!
God knows I won't stress myself over a man!

you are not stressing yourself over a man or you are not getting married which is it? grin

you are a Christian btw

so you are planning on becoming a sister right? grin

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by lilmax(m): 12:56pm On Apr 12, 2018
Amarabae:

Do you know that there are some ladies who are not interested in marriage?
okay you a married woman wrote this topic for those not married and interested in marriage

so how does your come back correlates with your content?

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 12:57pm On Apr 12, 2018
Chikita66:
It's not as easy as you think, most of those men are after sex and not marriage, they may have 3boyfriends and non of those guys have marriage in mind for them and those guys also might have that one Lady in mind they want to marry and also keep other ladies are their girlfriend, so you see, guys are cunny .
It seems you are a constant victim of side chick..

Eiya!!! reading your post brought tears to my eyes for you..

Don't worry, the right guy will locate you..

Or maybe marriage is not your calling..

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Amarabae(f): 12:59pm On Apr 12, 2018
DrinkLimca:
yes i read it very well..
You are in no position to advice single ladies..

You married early, no doubt..
If he was broke, you wound not have married him..

So his money added pressure on you saying yes to him..
You are not making any sense.
Read the thread again slowly and gently
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 1:00pm On Apr 12, 2018
DrinkLimca:
It seems you are a constant victim of side chick..

Eiya!!! reading your post brought tears to my eyes for you..

Don't worry, the right guy will locate you..

Or maybe marriage is not your calling..
Funny enough, I've never been a side chick so I don't know what you are talking about. The right guy have already located me so keep your pity to yourself, I don't need it.
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Amarabae(f): 1:00pm On Apr 12, 2018
lilmax:
okay you a married woman wrote this topic for those not married and interested in marriage

so how does your come back correlates with your content?
i replied him based on his opinion and not the general thread
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 1:01pm On Apr 12, 2018
walepackage:
i also ponder and wonder on how gullible some of these ladies folks that will take her advice seriously.I think, she should have channel her energy into "how a woman becomes a better,productive,supportive and understanding the reality of life,rather than postulating an utopian idea which cannot help matters.Whether you like it or not 'marriage' is a pivotal institution in a society be it developed or less developed society(s).We all need a companionship either one way or the other,its a social fact that cannot be forgone or erase.No one is perfect.
100% correct..

she should be talking on how to keep a relationship successful as a productive lady..

She has a misplaced priority..

marriage is an important aspect in Every Lady's life..

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 1:02pm On Apr 12, 2018
Chikita66:
It's not as easy as you think, most of those men are after sex and not marriage, they may have 3boyfriends and non of those guys have marriage in mind for them and those guys also might have that one Lady in mind they want to marry and also keep other ladies are their girlfriend, so you see, guys are cunny.
true sha but then among those number of men running after the girl there must be at least two or three men that have genuine intention towards her.u can easily know a guy who just wants sex with u..he's urgently wants u to spend a night in his pad or hotel just after the first meeting..then dat one na sex he just want. But a guy who wants to get to know u...he calls u regularly...he always asks about ur family,he always wants to know how u faring etc..dat sort of man get genuine interest na. But then some ladies go use such guys dey play scam and dey chop money from their headcheesy.

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Dpussyhunter: 1:03pm On Apr 12, 2018
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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 1:04pm On Apr 12, 2018
lefulefu:
true sha but then among those number of men running after the girl there must be at least two or three men that have genuine intention towards her.u can easily know a guy who just wants sex with u..he's urgently wants u to spend a night in his pad or hotel just after the first meeting..then dat one na sex he just want. But a guy who wants to get to know u...he calls u regularly...he always asks about ur family,he always wants to know how u faring etc..dat sort of man get genuine interest na. But then some ladies go use such guys dey play scam and dey chop money from their headcheesy.
A guy can do all that and still not have genuine intention for the lady.
That's how some guys are and the length they go just to get the sex and when they are tired, the look for a reason to break up and marry the lady the want to marry. Ladies have to be very smart these days.
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by lilmax(m): 1:06pm On Apr 12, 2018
Amarabae:
i replied him based on his opinion and not the general thread
replied who?
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 1:06pm On Apr 12, 2018
Chikita66:
Funny enough, I've never been a side chick so I don't know what you are talking about. The right guy have already located me so keep your pity to yourself, I don't need it.

well just wanted to inform you that shiloh2018 is around the corner..
venue is winners chapel headquarters in Lagos..

the lord is your strength..

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Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by Nobody: 1:08pm On Apr 12, 2018
DrinkLimca:
well just wanted to inform you that shiloh2018 is around the corner..
venue is winners chapel headquarters in Lagos..

the lord is your strength..
The lord have already answered my prayers, I don't need to go to Shiloh cos I can see where you are driving to.
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by highqueen(f): 1:09pm On Apr 12, 2018
okay
Re: Dear Single Ladies! Know Your Worth. by CAPSLOCKED: 1:10pm On Apr 12, 2018
DrinkLimca:
Coming from a married lady that brags about spending her husband's money..

If you didn't get married for his money, you should not be bragging about spending his money..

You married early because of his money and now you are advising single ladies not to get married because of pressure.

You are in your husbands house telling young ladies to remain single..

This is hypocrisy of the highest pedigree.


AN ADVICE TO SINGLE LADIES FROM AN ALREADY MARRIED LADY.


IT'S CLEAR SHE'S TRYING TO DISPLAY THE "WOMEN HATING WOMEN" CHARACTER HERE, BECAUSE..
I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY A MARRIED WOMAN WILL CREATE A THREAD TO DECEIVE YOUNG WOMEN, TELLING THEM TO STAY SINGLE.
MAYBE SO THAT SHE CAN ALWAYS SLUT-SHAME THEN ON THE INTERNET AND BRAG ABOUT FEMINISM, AND HOW ACCOMPLISHED SHE IS.

SMH. undecided

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