BiggyB242:


Lol, my dear. Before my cuz got married his wife receives twice his salary. If she had thought she wouldn't have gotten married. I just they laugh you. Reason you average looking girls getting married everyday why those beautiful slay queen are still single in their late 30's. Well I rest my case. I non get strength to argue with you.

lefulefu:
ehn but after the relationship hits the rock u see them running to social media crying that they spent 200k on their girlfriend but she still dumped them or dat they sponsored her in school but she called off the relationship after she graduated. Its amazing dat some dudes struggling with their monthly upkeep will place a girl on a daily monthly allowance. Dats why such guys find it hard to focus and develop themselves.

Safiaa:
Education is not only about educating yourself academically. Just want you to understand that. We go to school for different reasons. However, as a woman theres nothing wrong with having your own money. Actually, its very very important to have your own life and income outside your relationship If a man is going to come into my life though, he must contribute financially its a must. If im going to accept his proposal, theres must be a substantial gain on my end[/b].

Intrepid01:
omo that Safiaa girl mistook this discussion for that of a prostitute. Even a fellow lady tried correcting her, yet she refused..I pray and I pray for myself not to meet your type of lady for relationship in life....Amen.

Safiaa:
Do you know what happens in their home? Do you know what goes on in her mind? Listen, the truth will always remain the truth, take it or leave it. Women want men who can provide, period.

greiboy:


Your statements is full of contradictions

@ highlighted red

You believed it's important for women to be independent in a relationship, which is to suggest you can take good care of yourself without a man

@ highlighted blue

You are advocating for dependence immediately after your relationship status changes

Why should a man contribute to your financial situation? is the man going to bring other financial burden into your life that requires additional financial support?

Aren't going to be the same safia before and during a relationship?

Are you suggesting in any way that you will start living above your means because of a new boyfriend? That is not far from a gold digger mentality you know

Safiaa:
Then you've got to make sure you're the only one. Theres no way a woman can date six guys at once and you wont see some signs. Wisen up!

BiggyB242:


Yea so stupid of them. Funny enough they are girls who wouldn't ask dime from you. That's why I don't bother myself trying to convince a lady, I will simply walk away. There are ladies who don't have this mindset. Just search brothers.

BiggyB242:


My dear, happy family they got. As I speak they're planning relocating out of the country. My dear, you and those in your circle are the ones with that mindset. They might have issue but is never "money"

My current gf don't ask me a dime she is doing well for herself. I do give her some trips and she reciprocate.

Cooperation and understanding is the key. It doesn't matter who has to take care of who.

Safiaa:
Then you've got to make sure you're the only one. Theres no way a woman can date six guys at once and you wont see some signs. Wisen up!

lefulefu:
a girl can actually date 30 guys at d same time and the so called boyfriend might not be any wiser. The day a lady starts complaining that her boyfriend is not taking care of her financial needs seriously then that's d day d boyfriend if he's wise should know dats she's seeing other men that she's sleeping with in exchange for money. She's just comparing these men to her boyfriend.

BiggyB242:


Yea so stupid of them. Funny enough they are girls who wouldn't ask dime from you. That's why I don't bother myself trying to convince a lady, I will simply walk away. There are ladies who don't have this mindset. Just search brothers.

Safiaa:
lool. Nothing to do with prostitution lol, its just the reality.

Safiaa:
We can agree to disagree.

makydebbie:
Lol you're typing as if she's doing this grudgingly or something and she deserves to be patronized for it. It's wrong dating a lady who thinks she's doing you a favor by dating you. It's supposed to be mutual. Wtf.

Grayjoy:
I won't type again. My mind is spoken.

KevinDein:


Your opinion is not reality. Don't mistake the two.

Safiaa:
You dont know what goes on in their family, like i said you can only assume. Generally women want providers as hubands, men want nurturers as wives. It’s that simple.

Safiaa:
How is that a contridiction? So because you can cook for yourself does that mean you shouldnt look for a wife that can cook? Listen, there must be a purpose when somebody comes into your life. A woman having her own money doesnt mean she should lower her standards and date a man without money. A woman should always aim higher, thats how the dynamic of a relationship should be. Anyways you dont have to understand, but those who do, will do.

prechbills1:


how now.. because of that giving head stuff?

lol but dating isn't about giving head, right?
it's all about comfort and understanding..

Thegeneralqueen:
Don't waste your time here arguing with all this low lives who don't have anything to offer broke guys everywhere ..... a real man will never complain when you asked him for money......any man that can't take care of you when dating? expect worst in marriage cause such men ends up being stingy in marriage and prefer to spend the money outside than spending it for the upkeep of their .... men of this century don't want to work hard like there fathers did always wants to shy away from their duties.....

Safiaa:
lool. Nothing to do with prostitution lol, its just the reality.

BiggyB242:


Lol, you should say " I want a provider" don't women. Secondly, get yourself a sugar daddy, he will provide for you.

As for the young men, we want a symbiotic relationship not a saprophytic one- someone who we can plan together and achieve our goal not leaches.

Sign out.

Safiaa:
Theres no way you can be with someone and you won’t see signs she’s seeing multiple other people. Unless you’re blinded by love, very slow or just naive. Women are good at cheating, but they’ll always be signs. Trust me.

Thegeneralqueen:
Don't waste your time here arguing with all this low lives who don't have anything to offer broke guys everywhere ..... a real man will never complain when you asked him for money......any man that can't take care of you when dating? expect worst in marriage cause such men ends up being stingy in marriage and prefer to spend the money outside than spending it for the upkeep of their .... men of this century don't want to work hard like there fathers did always wants to shy away from their duties.....

greiboy:

@Embodened

You have messed up another analogy

A guy that cook very well wouldn't have cooking as his top priority when searching for a life partner, same way as an independent lady shouldn't be bothered about the money and financial prowess of her future boyfriend.

Notwithstanding, not making a future partner's financial prowess a main concern in relationship doesn't mean a lady will rather settle for a broke and unambitious man. it simply means that his money and how he spends it is not her top priority in the relationship.

Clearly, that seems to be your major priority, but it is cool.

We don't have to have similar principles about life.

Safiaa:
To you, but to me is is. I see it all around me

Thegeneralqueen:
Wow what brought you to this section

UDUJ:


You sir deserve a bottle of chilled heineken

From the very first time I discuss with a lady I already know the type of lady she is. I decide there and then to cut off foreever or proceed to the next phase of attack