Ugosample:


not always true

A lot of men at 38 sef don't feel it much, especially when his mates gist him about the horrors they go through in their own marriages

The truth is that marriage to a large extent not worth it to the man here .
the wahala is too much

Safiaa:
40 is too old sef. Just hit 29 and see the pressure. You people need to face the reality, when you log off NL you know what’s good in your hood. You can marry at 60 but is that ideal? When your children are 12 you’ll be on your death bed. Commot jare.

SonsOfLiverpool:
keep quiet.

Do you know your mom before she married? except she is over 45 or 50 then I can classify her as old school moms and even at that they still had hoes during their time.

My brother, our older mother's didn't have the opportunity like this generation, if they had they probably will be like our generation. Nothing special. Its human thing.

SonsOfLiverpool:
my dear am in my late 20s and I don't remember anyone telling me to go marry. Got a good paying job and I have lots of girls I can woo if I wish. Lots but no pressure.

some of my colleagues who are 5 years younger and many who are older and much much older are already in panick mode and am just using them to play always

Safiaa:
40 is too old sef. Just hit 29 and see the pressure. You people need to face the reality, when you log off NL you know what’s good in your hood.

Safiaa:
you are not exempt from pressure, final. Being 48 and single is not an advantage to you. Accept it and move on.

IamaNigerianGuy:
When you count the number of unhappy marriages ...
When you count the number of divorces...
When you witness the humiliation and spousal abuse both parties go through...
when you witness spousal infidelity...
When you consider the unrealistic demands of women...
When you realize 'most hoes a'int faithful'....
When you come to know that sex is cheap and abundant in our time...
When you consider the bad economy.....

You will be afraid of marriage too OP

AstroG:
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Forget All these things your Blabbing abt
There is A Man in my Hood,he is past 40,upon all the pressures from everywhere to marry,he is yet to marry,but still very very happy. And another amazing fact is that he is Lawyer (SAN for that matter)

Not Everyone gives into pressures from people to go and marry
Like me,I don plan am say na two Babymamas I go get,no time to waste on these Nigerian Girls Op Aforementioned

Ebuka2016:




i cant accept it and move on. Final!

Being 48 and single is very advantagious to a man if he get the following: money, sex, kids.

As for the criticism that would come from parents, friends and well wishers, the man would simply travel to another country and only come back once in a year. Simple and short! Trust me, as a man, i really enjoy being single. I love it like women love money.

bukatyne:


What is the benefit of marriage to women?

Safiaa:
keep believing based off assumptions. Smh

ndubueze92:
When you mention opportunity, I wonder what you mean by that? Opportunity to do what exactly?

bukatyne:

What is the benefit of marriage to women?

AstroG:
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Forget All these things your Blabbing abt
There is A Man in my Hood,he is past 40,upon all the pressures from everywhere to marry,he is yet to marry,but still very very happy. And another amazing fact is that he is Lawyer (SAN for that matter)

Not Everyone gives into pressures from people to go and marry
Like me,I don plan am say na two Babymamas I go get,no time to waste on these Nigerian Girls Op Aforementioned

Shugavee:
just hving fun!! Hving fun like men do!! B4 a lady is 23 the pressure has began!!! .. While The parent of a male child is setting up his future!!! B4 u get to 300l self as a woman, u r ripe for marriage!!!( U won't get it, u r not a lady) U think ladies won't like hving random sex too n being players!! But we can't cause the society has conditioned us

Safiaa:
Arguing with them is like talking to a brick wall. Their ego can never accept right from wrong. Goodnight.

Safiaa:
you are not exempt from pressure, final. Being 48 and single is not an advantage to you. Accept it and move on.

Dipdip:
Women have lost value because they are no more as supportive as they used to be.They are now overdependent and materialistic.All there care about is MONEY Gone are the days when Woman go they encourage him husband when things are down So what's the essence of wife just chase money and enjoy yourself period

SonsOfLiverpool:
Very soon baby mamarism will be the new "marriage"

Humans, we keep inventing things to suit ever changing environment.

Nice.

Safiaa:
Arguing with them is like talking to a brick wall. Their ego can never accept right from wrong. Goodnight.

Daeylar:


As much as nairalanders fail me sometimes when I expect reasonable responses to issues. There are still some posts I see where some posters manage to do so.

Hoping I see such posts tonight, thread started on point with such posts giving reasonable answers before the "all women are this and that gang" came out and tried to veer the thread off track.

I'm trying to get them to stop.

AntiBrutus:


That brings us to another question...

Why do people only see and use the negative to make decisions?

SonsOfLiverpool:
Man is a product of his environment and not the other way around.

Our environment and opportunity shape us to a larger extent.

Our mothers grew up in the village so their mentality and exposure didn't give them room to see unfaithfulness and inequality as bad so many stayed in abusive and unfaithful relationship because that's what their mothers and their mother's mothers thought them, that was the norm.

These days "civilization" is being installed in our younger generation hence the change in characteristics.

Get my point huh.

philip0906:

Head to that site for lonely,frustrated and fat women -bellanaija and see how your fellow women "roast men". I'm sure you have done same too in time past-men are this and that. So I wonder why you are having issues with men in here baring out their minds.

MrBrownJay1:


but the problem here is...
A) if a man does NOT want to get married, then that should be the end of the discussion
B) it can NEVER be the end of discussion because this is not about men, but it is solely about WOMEN (and their body clock) who are the ones desperate to find a mate (at any cost) and who would therefore see men unwilling to get married as an abomination (but hey, who will marry them single babes if baby mamas are willing to settle with men unmarried?!?)
C) you are trying to scare this man by telling him about what "may" happen in a few yrs.....while we all know that this aint true.
D) but even if it was true, the way women are desperate to get married these days, ANY man of ANY age, with the right economic status (aka a good job/house/pocket money), can find 10 women to marry, on ANY given day of the week, in Nigeria.

so the important question would be: why the rush for marriage?!