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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Lotechi(m): 8:04am On Apr 20, 2018
You were never romantic. You were just a naive young man who lacked common sense and had a lot of craving for beauty and sex. You still are not mentally mature because it you were, you would not talk about your ex with so much hate and disgust.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Dsholla: 8:20am On Apr 20, 2018
How did you make all the millions you keep mentioning, show me the map let me navigate if its legit

Help a broad abeg! Biko
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by jaxxy(m): 8:32am On Apr 20, 2018
GeeWire:
My advise to guys out there is, make it a priority to take good care of your family before any useless girl. Don't be decieved Girls nowadays are evil.

#selfmade #Geewire says so

Rule No.1
Never ignore ur family for a stranger ur inlove with(yes ur gf is a stranger). No decent human will ask u to 4get ur family because of her.

Rule No.2
Living recklessly is not enjoying life.


Rule No.3
All gals are not bad bt most are sadly. To chose a good one u need more than wisdom of Solomon cos solomon didn't choose the best of women.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by HardMirror(m): 8:35am On Apr 20, 2018
Chikita66:
That one Na for your own pocket.
And how is it your business if a guy has decided not to be a maga for u btchis
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by xest(m): 8:36am On Apr 20, 2018
GeeWire:
My advise to guys out there is, make it a priority to take good care of your family before any useless girl. Don't be decieved Girls nowadays are evil.

#selfmade #Geewire says so
Gbam
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by dustydee: 8:38am On Apr 20, 2018
AntiBrutus:

You're very silly. This isn't love.



This is where you should have cut her off, but your dream of administering on her won't let you. Wrong source of inspiration...appreciated all the same.


Smart girl...



Very very smart girl. Some men wanna have sex with you, not because it's an act of love...but because it is a collateral to them. Something to console themselves with if the relationship doesn't go their way. Some ladies withhold the sex for same reason. Your ability to identify which category s/he falls into is wisdom...like that of Solomon.


There would always be someone richer than you. If you earn love and respect via money, try hard never to lose it. The money must increase exponentially... kiss


Good you didn't...


Prodigal son, good you found your way home. Now you know the importance of family.



You're still hurting. In life's journey, we would hurt people and people will hurt us. How we handle the outcome would tell a lot 'bout our emotional intelligence/maturity. Let go of the grudge...you'll be glad you did. Treat people as an individual, not gender...race, tribe, religion or whatever.
Wise words. You sound like callioti, Kanwulia etc. Are you?
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by middlebelter(m): 8:44am On Apr 20, 2018
sirusX:
Did you just compare yourself with your ex gf's boyfriend?? undecided That's a low point for me.... rather wish her well and move on. Life is too short to look back when there are better things ahead. Even if he was still richer, that doesn't define you

It's always a good thing to remember family....cz there are homes in which you always have them there for you despite what happens....especially those who pray on your behalf

You shouldn't let anyone determine your happiness, and learn to be strong through what life throws at you. All the sex in the world didn't make up for what you lost with your ex....that road has been taken by many

When you spend money on someone else, be convinced that it's money within your budget limit and not just to impress. Never assume that money equals loyalty from anybody

It's good that you're investing and built yourself strong...just take time and be open to other ladies around you. You never can tell when/where you meet a lady that becomes more than a blessing to you...and even thank God that your ex left you

You will then understand that everything you went through happened for a reason...and that lady you thought was was the best thing in your life was just a learning point to make you a better man

Grow in grace!!
The bolded :
That is the main thing this guy need to know and do. Life can be beautiful and sweet again for you. The girl that defrauded you wasn't met for you in the first place. She was a learning cure.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Nobody: 8:48am On Apr 20, 2018
OH dear! They’ve discovered me cry grin
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Nobody: 8:49am On Apr 20, 2018
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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Cozydaniel(m): 8:53am On Apr 20, 2018
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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by BabbanBura(m): 8:54am On Apr 20, 2018
GeeWire:
My advise to guys out there is, make it a priority to take good care of your family before any useless girl. Don't be decieved Girls nowadays are evil.

#selfmade #Geewire says so


Family first any day. Anyone doing otherwise is a fool or has lost control of his senses
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by BabbanBura(m): 9:02am On Apr 20, 2018
SoapQueen:



Where is that my heeled shoe make I use am take hit your head first? See, don't be responsible for any girl's upkeep. Don't! How can you forget your mom? Your mom that carried you in her womb for nine months because of a woman like her!


I never see man wey go make me forget my papa o. If I hear.

I'd end on this note, I am sorry for your pains. So sorry. God is in control. Sometimes, we don't deserve things that happens to us. A very brilliant lawyer in Delta state once told me that "Life isn't black and white as we expect it to be, sometimes, Karma isn't a Bi**h".

You will be fine.


Good one here Soapy Queen
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by BabbanBura(m): 9:06am On Apr 20, 2018
Daniyomex:
Hmmmm.... girls sha. Mine just broke up with me on Monday after six years of being together cause she's afraid I might leave her soon. What a coward and in secured being?!
It really hurts but I'm learning to heal and move on with life.

Hardluck Bro - it's better she did, it's most likely she had a secret relationship she wants to move to the next level and to avoid scenes and potential clash, she had to cut you off official bit believe me she had u off much earlier
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Ishilove: 9:31am On Apr 20, 2018
doctokwus:

People,sorry to say particularly some Nigerians,like to fantasize about their dreams,no matter how impractical.Same way they believe in some totally false and childish acted miracles performed by churches.
That any person can believe the story of the Op,poorly scripted as it is and full of not just loop,but even gutter holes,shows you how deeply we are regressing collectively as a people,while people in other climes,including their up growing ones,are daily using the wonderful gift of information technology and the internet to advance.
Take a sample analysis around you,you would find that despite the internet and further insights into our world,freely available to many now,many Nigerians,still hold unto those beliefs and practices,that held us down,before the arrival of the missionaries and colonialists.
We,on average,as a people have refused to progress in thought,ideas and critical thinking.
Very well written
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Christianlouis: 9:57am On Apr 20, 2018
GeeWire:
My advise to guys out there is, make it a priority to take good care of your family before any useless girl. Don't be decieved Girls nowadays are evil.

#selfmade #Geewidre says so

Yes you are right. Seriously.

Guys out there be careful of all this girls that looks innocent to you or you love.

Many are out there giving sex to another guy who pull a muscle for it while you're fooolishly acting like a cool guy.

I am a victim of somethn like this I know how it feels. Mine may not be as worst as this but beware of some girls.

Being a cool and innocent guy I foolishly spent so much on a girl out of love and the aim of Marriage not knowing she just dont even care about me.

After all the msg and advice from friends I thought the advice was becos they wanted her for sex not knowing she just dont care, all she wanted is just the money.

You act cool and become foolish.

If you have money try as much as best to take good care of your family first leave all this girls that act good or weird. There are good ones for sure but I tell you solemly there are many pretenders out there in huge population.

If you love any one pray to your God to give you vision before she ruin your life in pretends.

As for me I am done acting cool on girls.

It hurt, it pains.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by MxFactor: 10:19am On Apr 20, 2018
GeeWire:

I met one of the guys I helped when I was financially buoyant. Good news he had made money online and I asked him how he did it and he taught me all and I started and become a boss but this time with wisdom of Solomon. I have given my life to Christ, I now take care of my mom and siblings and God and been with me..

Now I am financially OK but I can never love again, I hate Girls. I wonder if I'll ever get married. I just dispise Girls. And for the first time I have not had sex for months.

I tried as much as possible to cut the story short. I can never love again sha... God did it and I am now bigger than my ex gf's bf, wiser and living my dreams. Glory be to God.

Push this to the front page let them know why we young rich n*ggas remain single even with all the cash.
Can you pls teach us what you do now?
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Rajosh(m): 10:49am On Apr 20, 2018
I can't see your reason for hating girls. You suffered because you were wayward and careless. thank God you're born again.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Rexnegro(m): 11:29am On Apr 20, 2018
larrywax:
Its not a Nigerian thing bra & moreover, the poster said she's South African which I know for sure 7 out 10 won na Olosho & theres absolutely nothing u can do to it even when u know except u want to be arranged with their Police padis not even when u are a foreigner & a Nigerian for that matter!

I get Ur point bro , but notwithstanding a non nigerian is better of for me . Nigeria girls most if not all sef are liabilities bro.

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Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Pentools(m): 11:36am On Apr 20, 2018
phemmyfour:
2go master. Can any meaningful relationship com out of it

Mr, your perception here is totally wrong, the gal I dated for 6ix wonderful years and few months was gotten via 2go and all those while she was damn loyal...when I say loyal I mean to the core...
Although we ain't rolling anymore out of my own making but she's still loyal and we're cool still.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Pentools(m): 11:47am On Apr 20, 2018
GeeWire:
My advise to guys out there is, make it a priority to take good care of your family before any useless girl. Don't be decieved Girls nowadays are evil.

#selfmade #Geewire says so

Nice one buddie, I nearly jonz last month, baby sis asked for funds to fix her hair n one other gal that we both are deceiving each other that we are lovers asked same that exact day, I nearly gave out the fund to the gal first although she demanded for it firstly but I thank God for 3rd sense. She wan use nagging kill me cus i told her to wait in two days time, had to block her out of my life make her head cool down small.

Blood is ever thicker than water!!!
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by citadels(f): 11:57am On Apr 20, 2018
If u like don't marry. everyone has passed through one betrayal or the other. Men are after sex and pussy, facial beauty that's why they fall victim of betrayal and cheats from heartless and mindless girls. If they ask u to go for ugly girl who is down to earth and trustworthy would u have gone. there is this my beautiful friend a guy was dying for years back and I hated that guy because he lost control of his senses because of my friend's beauty not that I'm jealous but he was misbehaving and finally my friend jilted him and followed his best friend and I laughed at him. because the friend has money more than him. they stays in abuja and his friend pays for flight for my friend to visit but the guy pays for transport.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by greggng: 12:30pm On Apr 20, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


Are her parents dead?

guys and impression... smh


We try to shy away from reality. In Nigeria some parents cannot send their kids to school. You are lucky your parents did that for you. If that is what you mean by dead then let be know you said that not me. Helping the poor and needy is what God commands us to do.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Rozaytee: 1:14pm On Apr 20, 2018
op..take heart guys do worse
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by olowobaba10: 1:34pm On Apr 20, 2018
GeeWire:
Pardon any typos, incorrect grammars and all, I'm lobotomized as I write.

I was brought up from a Godly home. I couldn't hurt a fly. I lost my dad in 2013 and my mom wasn't financially capable to fend for me and my siblings. Everyone in the family abandoned us, from my dad's siblings to his cousins, including those he helped when he was alive.

I began to struggle in skul because of insuficient funds. I was very intelligent. I was the best in my class but I had to drop out because I couldn't cope anymore, I couldn't read and understand with an empty stomach.

When I dropped out I met this cute girl on an old chatting site (name witheld, clue: a South African owner dating site) and we got talking and we started dating in few weeks. I loved her so much that I could slap my mom to be with her.

One day she asked me to send her airtime lol me that was jobless and broke, so she told me how can I be broke and claim I have a girl friend. This inspired me and I started doing business same month and the first transaction I made 5k ( jeeeez 5k was like a million dollars to me then) and then some days after I made 20k in one day NOTE: IT WAS LEGIT NO FRAUD WHATSOEVER. I started growing financially and my girlfriend was very proud of me and vowed she will be with me for ever.

I started supporting my mom and siblings once in a while and then I entrolled in a university and single handedly paid my school fees and everything. I was sending my girlfriend about 10-20k every week for upkeep. I paid her hostel school fees from year 1 till year 4, she attended a private University so the fees was expensive but I did it for love. because of her I stopped taking care of my family, I abandoned them because she encourage me to do so indirectly. My mom cried bitterly several times and would tell me I am dating a witch but I'll yell at her and quarrel with my mom.

I tried to have sex with her severally but she told me she was a virgin and she will not have sex till she's married, wow this made me more in love with her so she used that as a weapon to keep me. I never cheated on her and I promised to marry her as a matter of fact I engage her.

Fast forward to 2016 we lodged in a Hotel just to chill and in the mid night my spirit said I should check her fone and read her whatsapp messages. Oh goddamn what I saw almost made me run mad. She was cheating on me with a guy that is richer than me. Dey even had sex damn I felt like killing her but I kept my cool and when she woke up I told her and we broke up for good. But damn I had spent millions on this bi*ch but I let her go.

I was traumatized, I felt like killing myself but what kept me alive was same year I had a contract with some west African countries and millions of Naira was coming in. Funnily enough same time we broke up I made couple millions from the contract and became a baller. I couldn't stay at home because I wasn't mentally fit due to what happened so I had to lodge in a Hotel and I spent heavily carrying different Girls, I could have sex with 4 Girls in a day, I started drinking and doing all sorts of things Although I was making more money from my contracts... I lodged in the hotel for up to 1 year without any investment, I did so just to keep myself busy and not do something stupid like taking my life. The contract crushed and money gone....

I was left with nothing and with shame I went back home and my mom and siblings embraced me and welcomed me back home and I narated all that happened. And the government changed the system of everything, I tried and tried but couldn't do anything to generate money from the west Africa countries. My mom started taking care of me.

I met one of the guys I helped when I was financially buoyant. Good news he had made money online and I asked him how he did it and he taught me all and I started and become a boss but this time with wisdom of Solomon. I have given my life to Christ, I now take care of my mom and siblings and God and been with me..

Now I am financially OK but I can never love again, I hate Girls. I wonder if I'll ever get married. I just dispise Girls. And for the first time I have not had sex for months.

I tried as much as possible to cut the story short. I can never love again sha... God did it and I am now bigger than my ex gf's bf, wiser and living my dreams. Glory be to God.

Push this to the front page let them know why we young rich n*ggas remain single even with all the cash.

I SMELL LIES AND COOKED UP STORY, JUST SHOVE IT!
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Ebukamath(m): 2:21pm On Apr 20, 2018
Xisnin:
Check his name again.
don't understand please
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Kinggnicole(f): 2:26pm On Apr 20, 2018
Oh well, shit happens
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Nobody: 3:37pm On Apr 20, 2018
dustydee:

Wise words. You sound like callioti, Kanwulia etc. Are you?

Thanks. I am not either of them, but I am familiar with the later grin
My main is pocohantas.
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by spencekat(m): 4:18pm On Apr 20, 2018
k9ine:
Preventing Heartbreaks 101
Don't ever train a girl through school, thinking she will marry you. Train only the one you have fully married.

I have witnessed the fall out. One poisoned the food he and his ex ate and both died. One told the boyfriend she can't marry a carpenter, yet it was the carpentry money that saw her thru schooling in UNIBEN. The third one at a nearby street, was informed by his girlfriend that she can't marry a bus driver, that she wants to quit the ralationship, the guy had paid school fees up till her final year.

Since you were training her, what was her father doing?
Guys will never learn, don't do it. Eight out of ten guys who trained their babe in school will have a stab to the heart.
Hearken to my voice o you guys and save your life.
True talk
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by dustydee: 4:37pm On Apr 20, 2018
AntiBrutus:


Thanks. I am not either of them, but I am familiar with the later grin
My main is pocohantas.
OK noted.
They are one and the same and not 2 different people. She has many more like mgbeketo-- etc
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Xisnin(m): 4:52pm On Apr 20, 2018
Ebukamath:


don't understand please

Gee wire = Gee + Wire

Gee boys = Internet fraud

Wire Wire = Internet fraud
Re: Read Why I Changed From Being Romantic To Being A Monster by Nobody: 5:27pm On Apr 20, 2018
AntiBrutus:


Thanks. I am not either of them, but I am familiar with the later grin
My main is pocohantas.

heh kanwulia , calloti, almondjoy, militia, babeelove and a host of other monikers are one and the same smiley

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