NwaAmaikpe:



She did nothing ...simply because she enjoyed it.

Now she's calling it sexual assault.
Confused women everywhere.

Na dem go moan pass, na dem go still say person rape dem.

DoTheNeedful:
I admire Chimamanda to a great extent. However, I think she plays to the gallery a lot and mostly say things that make her more acceptable in the highly hypocritical Western society. I have watched many of her videos before coming to this conclusion.

prince3009:


Not a fan of Chimamanda...but you actually didn't make any iota of sense

raumdeuter:


This is Bullshiiit

If I come to you and say I want to sleep with you, Do you realize you have the right to decline right? There is something like proposition and there is something called declining. Every girl knows this and stop making it sound like girls are dumb and have to take every proposition thrown at them

Of the men who have approached you for sex in your life, did you agree to sleep with everyone of them?

And the pay disparity, there is something called negotiation in every instance of business. If I offer you 200 and you accept, then the next person I offer him 200 and he declines insisting on 2M. Then dont blame me or him for knowing his worth and insisting on it

If you agree to 200, Do you expect me to give you more?

If you want to buy bread and offer N100 and the seller accepts, should I blame you for not offering N10,000

DoTheNeedful:
I admire Chimamanda to a great extent. However, I think she plays to the gallery a lot and mostly say things that make her more acceptable in the highly hypocritical Western society. I have watched many of her videos before coming to this conclusion.

CSTR1003:


Are you allergic to intelligent, opinionated women?

prince3009:


Not really. Chimamanda even comes from my place but she doesn't really appeal to me. Though I admire her works and all and i must admit that she has done alot for herself and carved a niche but i just see her as she is... a person. She's not the type that I'll be in a room and they'll say, "Hey, Chimamanda just stepped in and is in the other room" and I'll go to catch a glance or even peer. You get?

raumdeuter:
All these fabricated stories just to gain fame

To slip hands in shirt and under bra takes how many seconds? abi na speed of light the guy hand dey take move?
And in this time you were not able to respond or push him away violently

And you mean you didn't share any flirtatious moment together?

xagorakis:

In as much as sexual abuse is unacceptable and offensive, ladies should please stop using the media to tell their 'tales of the abused' after years or months of letting the culprit escape justice; as if it is a golden ticket to a million dollars. If you can bear the pain and let the culprit go scot free, please continue to bear the pain and leave us in peace. Madam told us she played along after the incident to see if she can get her desired result but she never told us if she gave in or if the man later helped, then what is the essence of this story?

MrBrownJay1:
so the man got his hand under your SHIRT and BRA, and you didnt think to say no or push his hand away as it was getting closer to your body?!?!?! how can a hand even "slip" under a shirt, or better yet a damn bra?! no wonder this demon had the audacity to try, if you couldnt even stop him when he was aiming for the breast... and then to make matters even worse, instead of giving this man a piece of your mind as to what happened, you still care about this book deal and downplay this abuse?!?!? no wonder there so many Weinstein bastards in this world

as much as what he did is wrong,this lady should certainly take some of the blame for this nonsense!

IgboticGirl:




yea big empty bowel like u


we all should be feminist

Adebowale89:



a lady under pressure of getting help couldn't have acted so rude, the way we think varies hence her slow response beside that's not a justification for the man to took advantage of her

MrBrownJay1:


ARRANT NONSENSE!!!
there are NO Pressure...if you cant say NO because you want to achieve whatever rubbish, then so be it,,, but if a man eye you then say NO, and if he insists then find ways to make him stop (the right way or the crazy way) but dont come here and justify this rubbish!

all them women who were abused by Weisntein etc did so because they are DELUDED...and went ahead to sleep with this man to get a role. they did NOT have to sleep with him, they did so because he was a powerful man in Hollywood who promise to put them in their next movies...the deluded ones slept with him, the proper ones with skills TURNED HIM DOWN! same thing that happens evryday with people who are trying to cut corners by sleeping their way to the top, where their lack of skills couldnt get them.

Fourwinds:
keep quiet...is he the only man to help? nonsense

I have been reading your response trying to defend her...so she can't give him a slap and walk out of the office? nonsense again

AccessME:
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MrBrownJay1:


do you have the audacity to say that its better to accept being molested/assaulted (in order to get a biz deal) than to keep your DIGNITY?!

but hey, i hope that they day you have to sign a biz deal, and the guy in front of you is gay and starts touching you (or worst), you will have the same mindset to gladly ACCEPT being molested/assaulted by him. lol!

Adebowale89:




is it that most of you here drink gums because I don't understand the twisting in my posts.

she didn't visited as just a visitor but rather as someone who needs help, she politely pull the man hands, trying not to offend him and also preventing him from harassing her body


have you handle situation under pressure before? please get sense and stop splitting thrash

Fourwinds:
let me ask you a question.... did the man respect her by slipping his hand under her shirt and bra? if your response is no...

then the man deserve no respect...and the only way to show that he deserve no respect is a quick slap on his face

Adebowale89:



Tap your head and make sure your mental faculty is active before reading a post


she was the one that needs help not the man, how can u then come up with such absurd conclusion, huh


na your type dey shake whenever your boss dey abuse u. go and get experience of situation under pressure and come back to read my post diligently then you would understand my plight


I'm not supporting her, only placing her experienced in a psychological trait

MrBrownJay1:
so the man got his hand under your SHIRT and BRA, and you didnt think to say no or push his hand away as it was getting closer to your body?!?!?! how can a hand even "slip" under a shirt, or better yet a damn bra?! no wonder this demon had the audacity to try, if you couldnt even stop him when he was aiming for the breast... and then to make matters even worse, instead of giving this man a piece of your mind as to what happened, you still care about this book deal and downplay this abuse?!?!? no wonder there so many Weinstein bastards in this world

as much as what he did is wrong,this lady should certainly take some of the blame for this nonsense!

kingthreat:


Shit-filled intestines

IgboticGirl:




dry dick like u

MrBrownJay1:
so the man got his hand under your SHIRT and BRA, and you didnt think to say no or push his hand away as it was getting closer to your body?!?!?! how can a hand even "slip" under a shirt, or better yet a damn bra?! no wonder this demon had the audacity to try, if you couldnt even stop him when he was aiming for the breast... and then to make matters even worse, instead of giving this man a piece of your mind as to what happened, you still care about this book deal and downplay this abuse?!?!? no wonder there so many Weinstein bastards in this world

as much as what he did is wrong,this lady should certainly take some of the blame for this nonsense!

GoldHorse:
See....If you have not experienced something before DON'T try and explain away whatever those that has felt or how they react. YOU CAN NEVER KNOW HOW IT FEEL TO BE IN SUCH SITUATION. You can only "explain" what you think it should be like. In situations like these one is usually taken aback especially when you NEVER expected such could happen.

I know EXACTLY what she's talking about because i experienced such and it was so sudden, unexpected and just out of the blues.

SHORT DETAIL OF MINE: A man that was helping with getting my medicals ready for admission started handling my leg in the bus. First time in my life I would experience what they called dumbfoundedNess! I couldn't talk, move or anything! I was just frozen. I'm sure the man must have sensed my tension or saw the disgust in my face that he suddenly stopped. I was too ashamed to even say anything. I know what she meant by being disgusted and repulsive at the man.

wyzoe:
She either stretched the story or she's lying. She should name the man.

MrBrownJay1:


if you (or any woman) is too ashamed to report such crimes then guess who is responsible for these demons to continue doing this rubbish?!?
furthermore, did you still try to act nice around the guy who molested you, in order to get whatever he was gonna offer you? if that is the case then, AGAIN, you should take some of the blame for what happened... so keep being ashamed in silence, and dont bring it to some faceless forum without even the name of the demon, because guess what?! it is POINTLESS. the day women decide to act right (and report these demons to the proper institutions), then we will finally start to eradicate these assaults.

wildcatter23:
It's a difficult world for Ladies especially ladies with brains who certain men cannot help but see them as sexual objects that they could exploit.

It's difficult for a guy to be with a lady without been switched on sexually.

At the end, sexual harassment is on the cards, if the sexual advances aren't appreciated by the lady.

It's just not Ok

But if she shows up like this, we will ride down that pussyville. Screwing the poo outta her will definitely be in the cards

GoldHorse:



I am a man.

See.......