RadicallyBlunt:
Its happening in many other countries but Nigeria girls and their one line mentality.

RuthDaniels:
Your last paragraph says it all. Ladies who intend to do what you advised should be wise enough not to be too direct and handle things maturely.



But Mr Toks are you implying that men at this stage are confused lots who don't know what they want? Secondly what happens to the lady if this man meets another lady whom he really wish to be with even though he is married?

I don't believe any sane man will not know who he wants to be with, believe me every man knows what he wants... the time it will come is what is unknown. When the desired isn't available, the available becomes the desired. But what happens if the initial desire shows up? Dang!

Toks2008:


In most cases,When a single mature guy wants a wife...he knows what he wants but most especially he knows he wants a wife and any lady who can show him at that stage that she is worth it will have him...whether she is his choice or not is not the issue cos most people don't marry their choice anyways...its about getting married to a woman good enough to be his wife.

If everyman decides to marry their choice I guess many marriages will not exist.

Toks2008:


In most cases,When a single mature guy wants a wife...he knows what he wants but most especially he knows he wants a wife and any lady who can show him at that stage that she is worth it will have him...whether she is his choice or not is not the issue cos most people don't marry their choice anyways...its about getting married to a woman good enough to be his wife.

If everyman decides to marry their choice I guess many marriages will not exist.

QueenSuccubus:



Well, it sounds women these days must take a risk and try to be a little aggressive


Well , i like a man who plays hard to get... dem my weakness ooo.. But it's very rare to see these type of men sha..

pryme:


You mean its rare to find men that can resist you.

QueenSuccubus:



Nope..Dont twist my words boi as my statement is very simple & direct.

greiboy:
Some guys will use the opportunity to tear pussy

RuthDaniels:


[s]But Mr Toks are you implying that men at this stage are confused lots who don't know what they want? Secondly what happens to the lady if this man meets another lady whom he really wish to be with even though he is married[/s]?

Divay22:
Operation manslaughter

Toks2008:


In most cases,When a single mature guy wants a wife...he knows what he wants but most especially he knows he wants a wife and any lady who can show him at that stage that she is worth it will have him...whether she is his choice or not is not the issue cos most people don't marry their choice anyways ...its about getting married to a woman good enough to be his wife.

If everyman decides to marry their choice I guess many marriages will not exist.

RuthDaniels:
Lol,you may be right...

But then, I think there should be a focus on some parts of your post because they require some deep thinking.

A man will marry a lady who shows him she is worth being a wife, what if the lady was only acting to get the ring? Why should a man settle for who finds him worthy to be a husband and not who he finds worthy?

@Emboldened, this is where you all get it wrong.. Not marrying who you really want. There is a difference between marrying the one you want and marrying the one you have. The former lasts longer because it is based on your choice which implies greater commitment. Aside love, if commitment is absent in any union or partnership it is bound to fail. I think it is easier living with whom you choose than who have to be with.

Lol @every man, marriage is about two people mister toks and not one.

ouzo1:
Op u the advertise urself abi??

Toks2008:


Leave rethorics biko n face reality...a lasting marriage is not as a result of a man marrying who he wants.

My point is very clear and only mature single guys can relate to it.

You don't have to be aggressive Toks... There is two sides to everything, you can't just dish out advice by your own experience.


Well since your thread is for mature single guys, let them go for themselves then. Funniest form of defense I've ever read .

RuthDaniels:
You don't have to be aggressive Toks... There is two sides to everything, you can't just dish out advice by your own experience.


Well since your thread is for mature single guys, let them go for themselves then. Funniest form of defense I've ever read .

Toks2008:


Where is the aggressiveness? Or are you reading it aggressively?

Of course not! Read your response before this and be the judge

RuthDaniels:
Of course not! Read your response before this and be the judge