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Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Nobody: 9:19pm On Mar 14, 2007
is it a sin to have a sexual relationship with love in it? i mean pre-marital sex with strong love? is it a sin?
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Seun(m): 9:21pm On Mar 14, 2007
No, it's not a sin. (because I don't believe in the concept of "sin"wink Just make sure you don't get any diseases! cheesy
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by debosky(m): 9:22pm On Mar 14, 2007
define 'strong love'
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by kellorah: 9:26pm On Mar 14, 2007
does it have to be love? talkless of 'strong love'? undecided


sin is sin
if u sin by stealing or cursing and get punished, what's the difference if u 'sin' by having sex and still get punished?
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by jgirl3: 9:39pm On Mar 14, 2007
I was taught that sex before marriage is a sin.
If there is love, there will be marriage and then sex.
No matter how strong the love, pre-marital sex is still a sin because God did not include a condition
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by busygirl(f): 11:07pm On Mar 14, 2007
Just read exodus 20, d ten commandments nd make d conclusion urself
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Ferlie(m): 11:12pm On Mar 14, 2007
love ko, love ni - just say na sex u want. no deceive d girl o.
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Free(f): 11:23pm On Mar 14, 2007
I was taught that sex before marriage is a sin.
If there is love, there will be marriage and then sex.
No matter how strong the love, pre-marital sex is still a sin because God did not include a condition

U said it grin grin grin

if U really love her
then abeg wait till marriage grin
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Cyclone5(m): 12:03am On Mar 15, 2007
All this marriage stuff is a tad bit irritating. The commitment that is supposed to unite a couple is it made on the wedding day or during the relationship? If you have already made the commitment why does waiting till you sign a certificate suddenly make it sacrosanct? If you are that blown away by gestures shouldn't the engagement be the 'official' milestone of commitment in a relationship?

Its no wonder so many marriages break down. People just aint got a clue. sad
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by bluenubian(f): 2:01am On Mar 15, 2007
dont get the question totally. . . . .so am guessing sexual relationship without love id definitely a sin!
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Nobody: 8:46am On Mar 15, 2007
Seun:

No, it's not a sin. (because I don't believe in the concept of "sin"wink Just make sure you don't get any diseases! cheesy

Ehm my man i really want to know why u dont belive it that shit!

and y'all aint convincing me. put some bite!
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by SHIELD: 1:13pm On Mar 15, 2007
Sex b4 marriage is a sin, wait till marriage & enjoy sex in abundant not secret sex.
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Nobody: 10:35am On Mar 16, 2007
what do u mean by "marriage" is it the normal cleavage (sex) or the ceremonnial church or mosque type?
SHIELD:

Sex before marriage is a sin, wait till marriage & enjoy sex in abundant not secret sex.
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Kadeejah(f): 1:40am On Mar 21, 2007
at church uhh my pastor said sex is NOT a sin tongue
"its a God-given. we are supposed to have sex with the one we love" mhm thas wot he said grin
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by OmoEko1(f): 1:41am On Mar 21, 2007
Kadeejah:

at church uhh my pastor said sex is NOT a sin tongue
"its a God-given. we are supposed to have sex with the one we love" mhm thas wot he said grin
what church do u attend just curious wink wink
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by debosky(m): 1:44am On Mar 21, 2007
he's telling the truth, maybe he just missed out the 'y'all shd be married first' part wink
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Kadeejah(f): 2:16am On Mar 21, 2007
oh he said det i jus left that part out tongue . . .oops

@omo eko
ahaha. . .victory christain centre grin
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by abdkabir(m): 3:48am On Mar 21, 2007
Kadeejah, hope the sex is only with ur one loved one sha and not all loved ones.
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Kadeejah(f): 3:49am On Mar 21, 2007
wot makes u think ive had sex? cheesy
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by abdkabir(m): 3:57am On Mar 21, 2007
What makes u think i think u've had Sex?
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Kadeejah(f): 4:21am On Mar 21, 2007
coz u said that. . .
abdkabir:

Kadeejah, hope the sex is only with your one loved one sha and not all loved ones.
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by abdkabir(m): 4:29am On Mar 21, 2007
I meant Hope the Sex the pastor was talking about. grin
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Kadeejah(f): 4:32am On Mar 21, 2007
oh haha. . .u kno i wasnt even really listening 2 him at church that day, i heard da word sex n den i thot i'd pay attention
buh den he lost me again at ". . .its God-given. . ."
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by abdkabir(m): 4:38am On Mar 21, 2007
I feel u , the word Sex is sooo pawaful one could get addicted!!!.
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Mar 21, 2007
God is not against sex acts at all, be it anal,oral or vaginal! He created it so lets enjoy it with the one we love!
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Kadeejah(f): 8:21pm On Mar 21, 2007
abdkabir:

I feel u , the word Sex is sooo pawaful one could get addicted!!!.
haha i know eh

babaearly:

God is not against sex acts at all, be it anal,oral or vaginal! He created it so lets enjoy it with the one we love!

yea see thats wot my poastor said, minus tha "be it anal,oral or vaginal" part buh yea im pretty sure dats wot he said
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by trinigirl1(f): 11:33pm On Mar 21, 2007
It's not a sin if the relationship is between a MAN and a WOMAN, and they're in a committed relationship.
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Mar 22, 2007
trini_girl:

It's not a sin if the relationship is between a MAN and a WOMAN, and they're in a committed relationship.

FINITO!
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by hotchic1(f): 3:25pm On Apr 08, 2007
I cannot see that as a sin,its just what guys of nowadays have turned into that makes premarital sex a scary thingy.
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by oaroloye(m): 7:49pm On Mar 14, 2017
SHALOM!

is it a sin to have a sexual relationship with love in it? i mean pre-marital sex with strong love? is it a sin?

WHAT IS THE FIRST OF THE TEN COMMANDMENTS?

. EXODUS 20:1-3.

AND God spake all these words,
Saying,
2. "I am The LORD thy God,
Which have brought thee
out of The Land of Egypt,
out of The House of Bondage.
3. "Thou shalt have no other gods before Me."


YOUR PRIMARY FOCUS SHOULD BE GOD- NOT A SPOUSE!

They are NOT your GOD.

They cannot DELIVER you.

ADULTERY is just one of 613 Ways to FAIL GOD.

. DEUTERONOMY 30:19-20.

19. I call Heaven and Earth
to record this Day against you,
that I have set before you
Life and Death,
Blessing and Cursing:
therefore choose Life,
That both thou and thy seed may live:
20. That thou mayest love the LORD thy God,
and that thou mayest obey His Voice,
and that thou mayest cleave unto Him:
for He is thy life, and the length of thy days:
that thou mayest dwell in the Land
which the LORD sware unto thy fathers,
to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob, to give them.


IF YOU DO NOT OBEY THIS ONE COMMANDMENT, YOU ARE DOOMED: period!

MARRIAGE IS NOT A LAW.

You have Sex with a woman, SHE IS SPIRITUALLY JOINED with you, AND IS YOUR WIFE.

LEGALLY, if you DIVORCE from her, you MUST put it in WRITING.

. DEUTERONOMY 24:1-4.

WHEN a man hath taken a wife,
and married her,
and it come to pass
that she find no favour in his eyes,
because he hath found
some uncleanness in her:
then let him write her a Bill of Divorcement,
and give it in her hand,
and send her out of his house.
2. And when she is departed out of his house,
she may go and be another man's wife.
3. And if the latter husband hate her,
and write her a Bill of Divorcement,
and giveth it in her hand,
and sendeth her out of his house;
or if the latter husband die,
which took her to be his wife;
4. Her former husband,
which sent her away,
may not take her again to be his wife,
after that she is defiled;
for that is Abomination before The LORD:
and thou shalt not cause the Land to Sin,
which The LORD thy God giveth thee
for an inheritance.


But YAHSHUA said that THAT IS ADULTERY.

. MATTHEW 19:3-12.

3. The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him,
and saying unto him,
"Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?"
4. And he answered and said unto them,
"Have ye not read, that He which made them
at The Beginning made them male and female,
5. And said,


'FOR THIS CAUSE
SHALL A MAN LEAVE FATHER AND MOTHER,
AND SHALL CLEAVE TO HIS WIFE:
AND THEY TWAIN SHALL BE ONE FLESH?'


6. "Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh.
What therefore God hath joined together,
let not man put asunder."
7. They say unto him,
"Why did Moses then Command
to give a Writing of Divorcement,
and to put her away?"
8. He saith unto them,
"Moses because of the hardness of your hearts
suffered you to put away your wives:
but From The Beginning it was not so.
9. "And I say unto you,


'WHOSOEVER SHALL PUT AWAY HIS WIFE,
EXCEPT IT BE FOR FORNICATION,
AND SHALL MARRY ANOTHER,
COMMITTETH ADULTERY:
AND WHOSO MARRIETH HER
WHICH IS PUT AWAY DOTH COMMIT ADULTERY.' "


10. His Disciples say unto him,
"If the case of the man be so with his wife,
it is not good to marry."
11. But he said unto them,
"All men cannot receive this saying,
save they to whom it is given.
12. "For there are some eunuchs,
which were so born from their mother's womb:
and there are some eunuchs,
which were made eunuchs of men:
and there be eunuchs,
which have made themselves eunuchs
for The Kingdom of Heaven's sake.
He that is able to receive it, let him receive it."


THE KINGDOM OF GOD IS WORTH GIVING UP SEX FOR.

It may not be necessary for some, but if you have to do it, it will be WELL WORTH IT!

. LUKE 16:1-15.

AND he said also unto his Disciples,
"There was a certain rich man,
which had a steward;
and the same was accused unto him
that he had wasted his goods.
2. "And he called him,
and said unto him,
'How is it that I hear this of thee?
give an account of thy stewardship;
for thou mayest be no longer steward.'
3. "Then the steward said within himself,


'WHAT SHALL I DO?
FOR MY LORD TAKETH AWAY FROM ME THE STEWARDSHIP:
I CANNOT DIG;
TO BEG I AM ASHAMED.
4. 'I AM RESOLVED WHAT TO DO,
THAT, WHEN I AM PUT OUT OF THE STEWARDSHIP,
THEY MAY RECEIVE ME INTO THEIR HOUSES.'


5. "So he called every one
of his lord's debtors unto him,
and said unto the first,


'HOW MUCH OWEST THOU UNTO MY LORD?'

6. "And he said,

'AN HUNDRED MEASURES OF OIL.'

And he said unto him,

'TAKE THY BILL,
AND SIT DOWN QUICKLY,
AND WRITE FIFTY.'


7. "Then said he to another,

'AND HOW MUCH OWEST THOU?'

And he said,

'AN HUNDRED MEASURES OF WHEAT.'

And he said unto him,

'TAKE THY BILL,
AND WRITE FOURSCORE.'


8. "And the lord commended the Unjust Steward,
because he had done wisely:
for the Children of This World are in their Generation
wiser than the Children of Light.
9. "And I say unto you,


'MAKE TO YOURSELVES FRIENDS
OF THE MAMMON OF UNRIGHTEOUSNESS;
THAT, WHEN YE FAIL,
THEY MAY RECEIVE YOU
INTO EVERLASTING HABITATIONS.'


10. "He that is faithful
in that which is least
is faithful also in much:
and he that is unjust in the least
is unjust also in much.
11. "If therefore ye have not been faithful
in the Unrighteous Mammon,
who will commit to your trust
the True Riches?
12. "And if ye have not been faithful
in that which is another man's,
who shall give you that which is your own?
13. "No servant can serve two masters:
for either he will hate the one,
and love the other;
or else he will hold to the one,
and despise the other.
Ye cannot serve God and mammon.
14. And the Pharisees also, who were covetous,
heard all these things: and they derided him.
15. And he said unto them,
"Ye are they which
justify yourselves before men;
but God knoweth your hearts:
for that which is
highly esteemed among men
is Abomination in The Sight of God."


BEWARE OF THE FALSE MESSENGERS WHO WILL TELL YOU THAT YOU CAN COMPROMISE WITH EVIL, BUT STILL BE ACCEPTED WITH GOD!

You would not even be asking this question, if you know the meaning of the term "LOVE."

I have gone to lengths to explain that THE ANCIENT GREEKS had TWELVE DIFFERENT WORDS which the Oyinbos lazily and deceitfully translated "LOVE." The DISGUSTING ABOMINATION that YOU practice- CARLOS CASTANEDA called it: "I EMBRACE YOU- THAT WE MAY DIE TOGETHER!" -is the ONLY ONE of the Twelve that is NOT IN THE NEW TESTAMENT.
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by enshy: 8:03pm On Mar 14, 2017
is it a sin to have a sexual relationship with love in it? i mean pre-marital sex with strong love? is it a sin?
What does moral teach about this? Will you sleep with a girl you love before marriage?
Can you boast of it before her parents, before your parents, before the church?
Lastly, but why did you stop going to church Mr?
Re: Sexual Relationship With Love: Is It A Sin? by Pureheart91(m): 8:25pm On Mar 14, 2017
Lemme make it clear to you Op, that any sexual relationship btw 2 or more persons eida pre-marital or post-marital is termed Fornication, which is one of the deadliest sins and this is just one definition of fornication.

Now there are 6 major types of fornication:

1. Whoremongering
2.Adultery
3.Covetousness
4.Prostitution
5.Incest
6.Homosexuality


I would be explainig the followin examples in a thread i would create soon, but let it be known to all that FORNICATION is a SIN and its one of the easiest ways A man, weda big or small Man of God can fall into unrighteousness.

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