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changing tides : when boys were men and ladies were virgin's by Nobody: 11:09am On Apr 23, 2018
Gone were the days when a lady and a guy of marital eligibility come together for the sole aim of getting to know each other, courting and being married to. The term "relationship" is suppose be the getting to know of each person better so as to ascertain whether he or she is good enough to make a good and compatible wife/husband. Back in the days such was the case... back in the days no one is to av canal knowledge of themselves until the marital rites is done, as it is assumed with degrees of possibility that the lady stands intact and unbroken as a virgin. Back in the days a man interest in a lady is solely the purpose of marriage, and a lady accepting a man's proposal is influenced with the fact that he is responsible and is capable of providing for her and making her happy and not necessarily being rich.

Now at this present time we get to see a 15 year old talking about boyfriend/girlfriend... We get to see girls become more materialistic with cravings for money being the only aim for them to accept intimate pressure from men and the men in~turn having their way all the time with the idea that money is all that matters...
Re: changing tides : when boys were men and ladies were virgin's by pryme(m): 11:27am On Apr 23, 2018
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Gone were the days when a lady and a guy of marital eligibility come together for the sole aim of getting to know each other, courting and being married to. The term "relationship" is suppose be the getting to know of each person better so as to ascertain whether he or she is good enough to make a good and compatible wife/husband. Back in the days such was the case... back in the days no one is to av canal knowledge of themselves until the marital rites is done, as it is assumed with degrees of possibility that the lady stands intact and unbroken as a virgin. Back in the days a man interest in a lady is solely the purpose of marriage, and a lady accepting a man's proposal is influenced with the fact that he is responsible and is capable of providing for her and making her happy and not necessarily being rich.

Now at this present time we get to see a 15 year old talking about boyfriend/girlfriend... We get to see girls become more materialistic with cravings for money being the only aim for them to accept intimate pressure from men and the men in~turn having their way all the time with the idea that money is all that matters...


I don't know what you mean by "now at the present" what you said at the bolded has been around since the 90s, have you ever thought about why women are now different? There cant be reaction without action.
Right from the time when women were made to feel like an object meant to satisfy men, there was bitterness brewing somewhere, so you should not be surprise about what you see now.

Though both Men and Women can be numbskulls sometimes, If you ask women why they do what they do you will get almost a chorus answer "how about men that do this and do that...." For the majority to come out with almost the same answer doesn't that tell you something? That Men played a part in creating the monsters we have now.

As for what a woman wants in relationship? All I can say is this - the best way to make a friend is to be a friend.
Treat the woman the way you would like to be treated.


And why change the thread title?
Re: changing tides : when boys were men and ladies were virgin's by QueenSuccubus(f): 11:50am On Apr 23, 2018
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Even back in the days, the parents especially the mothers will tell their daughters to marry a rich guy so they won't suffer like her...

But ofcurz, back in the days, there was no social media unlike now that women can cry out loud & boom everything they said it goes viral...


Girls that crave for rich bfs coz they want something what they don't have in their home or they became materialistic coz of peer pressure sha...

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