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naijagypsy:
First of all if anyone has a clear conscience and fights for the rights of women and children i would suggest that this post is not deleted.

As Nigerians we are trying to move forward and also remove any notions that Nigerian men are abusive and even when they are ,we want to be known as people that make the abusers accountable and not otherwise. so i am going to break this down for you all.

Sienna is a domestic abuser who left his wife and children. he denied his wife the legal rights to stay in the UK after having 3 kids for him.

if anyone is in the UK they will be familiar with the payments made for children by the government and he held them for himself. he abandoned his family for over two months, moved in with another woman and has not paid a penny for his kids. I know his wife personally and alot of well wishers have been supporting her. he doesn't send any money for the kids and repeatedly lies. he even tried getting his wife deported and there is evidence of that as he was trying to get another girl called "mercedes: on nairaland to come and marry him while he gets his wife deported. this is why he never sorted her immigration papers, threatened his wife with the police. she is a hardworking woman but when a man brings you to an unknown country and doesn't give you any rights to work, there is not much you can do. even to sanitary basics and food shopping he did it all himself to keep his money and the money given to him by the government.

he came and lied to all of you and opened a fraudulent Go fund me page and deceived you all. as we speak he has changed his numbers and his wife cant reach him. he has totally disappeared and doesn't care about his three kids. i am not some random stranger saying this as i know that he is doing this!

now let me tell you about housing. he has always lied to the UK government to get housing assistance and in turn he gets a property and doesn't pay rent. he gets evicted from properties despite the money being given to him to pay the landlords. he refuses to pay and keeps it. his wife unfortunately doesn't have access to any of the accounts where the government pays money so she is normally left to the fate of his irresponsibility.he also never pays utility bills or council tax.

he has been abusive to his wife so many times. calls the police once she tries to defend herself, literally has not been in contact ,and when he posted the lies he told you recently i was in SHOCK! please no matter what you all do, DO NOT SEND HIM MONEY OR DO ANY TRANSACTIONS WITH HIM! i tell you this because i have witnessed it all. if this post get deleted i am going to post on all social media and nigerian sites to protect people from him. even ladies on nairaland please be very careful!

its not about the woman its the 3 kids he has completely abandoned and is using the money the government gave them. he is stealing from them! yet he comes here acting like some auto-expert.what kind of heartless man would do this? honestly if any of you can reach him on here please do and let him come and challenge this post. and i am going to be writing to his employer as well and other organizations.

his wife is currently trying her best to take care of the kids and is fighting to stay in the country to care for the kids. and sienna if you get to read this.. i want you to know that you are a very VILE DIGUSTING AND EVIL HUMAN BEING! i am british as well so you cant do anything to me. all your threats will not work on me as i have solicitors and i have lodged a complaint against you for the threats you made against me.

moderators i am very happy to speak to you. do not take this post down please..

SIENNA BE A MAN AND GO AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN! GO AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR INNOCENT KIDS.. NOONE IS BEGGING YOU TO BE MARRIED. BE RESPONSIBLE.. I AM REPORTING YOU TO THE BENEFITS FRAUD TEAM! YOU ARE A SCAMMER..

your wife did not file for divorce!!!! you are a liar!!!!!!! stop lying to the good people here

baby124:
Na wa o. See drama. Please post the link where he begged for money. So that I can follow the while story. I hope his wife gets her life together. She can get her papers if she can prove abuse and neglect.

blank:
Everyone knows the kind of character he is. Same person that was called out for being a fraud on an auto forum. Cant understand why people still hype him. When allegations of fraud were made against him, the mods deleted and banned the op. I expect more revelations cause he is that kind of person.

blank:
Everyone knows the kind of character he is. Same person that was called out for being a fraud on an auto forum. Cant understand why people still hype him. When allegations of fraud were made against him, the mods deleted and banned the op. I expect more revelations cause he is that kind of person.

naijagypsy:

https://uk.gofundme.com/please-house-myself-amp-kids

and he had left her for over a month then. the link was reported..then the campaign ended

baby124:

Wow. This is crazy. Hmm. So he just got up and walked out on his family? Na wa o. If he got the wife papers she may have been contributing to the family. I don’t know what some men gain by making their wives handicap. When it is actually to their benefit in times of job loss or bad health. Their need to control another person’s life when their life is out of control is alarming. If he knows what is good for him, he better go and beg his wife and get papers for her so that they can build their lives together. I hope this is not a psychotic break by him because he seemed like a mature person from his posts. Oyinbo life no easy at all and people can lose it from pressure and responsibility. That is why both partners must be up and doing in obodo oyinbo. Life is expensive. I wish them the best and I hope they can salvage what they have if it’s worth it.

naijagypsy:


let me tell you something, this man is heartless!!! he had her passport..everything ,..dont trust any of this people that act modern, they are deep down backward in their thinking. even to sanitary towel, he controlled it, thats how bad it was. he is now living with another woman. he left his family and never came back,his wife and kids were left homeless..he is going around lying and opening pages..he can move on but he should send the kids money to them. he is working and yet keeping their payments. his wife sent him messages,he blocked her. doesnt reply emails. yet he goes to social services saying she left.this man left them in a hotel they were staying after they got evicted. my self and other friends had to send her money to sustian her before the government housed her. i feel sad for the kids..what hurts is the government allowance is being used by their dad and yet they have nothing. instead he spreads lies, claims she has money. thankfully we had evidence that we were the ones sending her money. let him come here and deny it

blank:
Everyone knows the kind of character he is. Same person that was called out for being a fraud on an auto forum. Cant understand why people still hype him. When allegations of fraud were made against him, the mods deleted and banned the op. I expect more revelations cause he is that kind of person.

eyinjuege:
I'm still trying to understand how this post is going to help his wife and children.
How will NLders help ensure his children's benefits are paid to the right person or that he becomes responsible for his children?
NL philanthropists, NL police, NLsocial services, NL child protection services over to you.
OP, i believe you know the right way to go about ensuring the children's benefits are paid to them. If you don't know, discuss with your lawyer since you say you have one anyway.
Make sure your goals are SMART.

oluwaseunla:
Naijagypsy, why are you interested in bringing this all out now, since you knew all this while? You've posted this everywhere between yesterday and today. Vendetta?

Not excusing bad behavior, but I prefer to exercise caution in castigating someone who is not here to defend himself.

And I feel really uncomfortable having someone's personal life goings on the pages of the internet.

My personal thoughts though.

baby124:

How can the government send money to someone that doesn’t have custody of the kids? Is that possible? Or is it because she doesn’t have papers. This is rather painful. And the woman he lives with knows all this? What some women will do to not be lonely. This is really bad o. I hope his wife gets herself sorted and gets her children’s payments. I also wish her all the best in her life journey. I can’t imagine how tough it must be for her. But she should do what she needs to provide a stable environment and life for her kids. God bless parents that do the right thing with their kids when life gets tough! As to the parents that run away and hurt their spouses, I leave them for God to deal with them.

naijagypsy:


no vex saint..

its obvious the kind of person you are. vendetta against someone who is a pathological liar? haha..

try harder

naijagypsy:


you dont understand how this post will help? ok why dont you go give him your money and trust him with your auto advice, then you will see how it will help. typical of of you think its for someone to act this way. when he posted playing victim you felt it was helpful abi?

oh please!

eyinjuege:


Stop being all emotional.
If he's a fraud, please post evidence to that effect. Those he has defrauded on NL should come out, and maybe they can report to EFCC together. NL police can do nothing to help their cause.
I'm not sure how his family troubles has anything to do with the alleged fraud.
If you're so concerned about his family, and their troubles and you really want to make a positive change in their status, please go and discuss with your lawyers. They will put you guys through on how to ensure he does the right thing

eyinjuege:


Stop being all emotional.
If he's a fraud, please post evidence to that effect. Those he has defrauded on NL should come out, and maybe they can report to EFCC together. NL police can do nothing to help their cause.
I'm not sure how his family troubles has anything to do with the alleged fraud.
If you're so concerned about his family, and their troubles and you really want to make a positive change in their status, please go and discuss with your lawyers. They will put you guys through on how to ensure he does the right thing

oluwaseunla:


I'm no saint and I have nothing against you. Only saying we have only your version. He's not here to defend himself. And you don't know me either.

naijagypsy:


Know what..

i just want his kids to get what they deserve,

say what you like

thats fine. to be honest we will always have different views.

lawyers..efcc...

oh well .. having to explain a system to you will be hard

you dont have to believe me

shaybebaby:

For the kids to what they deserve, she would have to get herself legal first. This approach achieves nothing.

Were they legally married when the kids were conceived? If yes, the kids acquire citizenship from birth.

She needs to speak to an immigration lawyer to know her options so she can rectify her situation. She can also go to the citizens advice bureau, they are free and can sign post her to where she can obtain appropriate help.

In the meantime, if she aware of his work place, she can contact child maintenance service (cms) and give them info, they will collect whatever maintenance the kids are due straight from his paycheck.

Even if he in receipt of benefits only, they will be able to enforce payments directly out of it.

naijagypsy:


agreed, already done.

this approach is to call him out. yes its brash but he called her out lying she left when he fell on hard times. know what.. i know the system and several people are now involved.. my reason for posting this is not because i think anyone here can change it. i am doing to because he needs to be called out. there is no justification for lying about someone who had kids for you and calling the police and humiliating them and yet comes here to act all holy.

you may not agree with it and possibly alot of people would rather we sweep it under the carpet but he has been called out several times before and nothing happened. in the end its down to who wants to believe and who does not.

anyone who chooses to pay into his future go fund me accounts can go ahead. we are all adults. i rather let them know its not for his kids and if a man is not being responsible he should be called out. abuse should be called out. CAB is free yes we know and she is entitled to stay based on existing humans rights laws.. thats under control but i refuse to see siena come on here acting like he was abandoned.. thats wrong..

thanks for your input..

shaybebaby:

Ultimately, if he abandoned his family, its a serious character flaw which would be evident whenever anyone has close dealings with him. Surely he'd lose out in the long run.

May be so that he is a liar but calling him out does not in anyway improve the situation of those he abandoned. It's great that she ex-missus has got people like her fighting her corner but I believe the fight should be more focused on helping her come out of the whole debacle thriving beyond expectations.

This, satisfying as it may be doesn't change what needs to be to make sure she and kids have a happy successful life without the errant father and husband.

My two cents though, thinking about what I'd do if I was in her shoes. Success is the best form of vengeance.

naijagypsy:


i apologise if i was rude.

i dont know you which is true

i would love him to post his version.

totally but please trust me when i say..do not send him money.

alot of posts about him have been deleted...some you can find so you can put the story together.

he should come..

i am waiting