This actually happened to my friend
she with her husband and two children got a 2years visiting visa to the USA. due to some financial constraints they couldn't make the travel when expected because the husband lost his job.
the wife(my friend) had an ex in the USA now married with 3 kids who she was encouraged her on the travel and even advised her that together with her family they should move to New York. unknowingly for her the husband saw the messages even though nothing inappropriate was going on between them and he kept it to himself. To cut the long story short the husband travelled to the USA just two weeks ago after telling the wife that he was going for work in any state and Kept the wife's passport, the children's passport including all documents that belong to the wife like birth and marriage certificate etc. the wife is so confused now and doesn't know what to do. he even collected all t
he money she had before leaving. please mods kindly move this to front page as advice is very much needed on what she can do.
thanks

This one is double wahala for dead body.
Well she can't kill herself; life must go on.
If the husband is willing to hear her out, then she should let him know that there is no skeleton in her wardrobe. She can as well involve the family members to sort it out.
If no headway then she should pick the pieces of her life and start all over.
There is nothing this eyes will see and shed blood instead of tears.
It won't and can never be the end of her life.
Tomorrow is always pregnant.

Am sure her husband saw more than the narrated story .....

kbanty22:
This actually happened to my friend
she with her husband and two children got a 2years visiting visa to the USA. due to some financial constraints they couldn't make the travel when expected because the husband lost his job.
the wife(my friend) had an ex in the USA now married with 3 kids who she was encouraged her on the travel and even advised her that together with her family they should move to New York. unknowingly for her the husband saw the messages even though nothing inappropriate was going on between them and he kept it to himself. To cut the long story short the husband travelled to the USA just two weeks ago after telling the wife that he was going for work in any state and Kept the wife's passport, the children's passport including all documents that belong to the wife like birth and marriage certificate etc. the wife is so confused now and doesn't know what to do. he even collected all t
he money she had before leaving. please mods kindly move this to front page as advice is very much needed on what she can do.
thanks

Let the wife visit US embassy immediately and file a complaint about missing travel documents. Let her do this before the husband overstays his visa because we don’t know what the intent of the husband his. If not, she will be bounced. She will be issued a fresh visa on a new passport. Then she can decide on what to do afterwards.

princeofdworld:
Am sure her husband saw more than the narrated story .....

that was all she told me. though I blamed her for keeping her conversation with the ex from her husband

drakeli:
Let the wife visit US embassy immediately and file a complaint about missing travel documents. Let her do this before the husband overstays his visa because we don’t know what the intent of the husband his. If not, she will be bounced. She will be issued a fresh visa on a new passport. Then she can decide on what to do afterwards.

thanks I will inform her duly